HE NEVER GOES OUT, HE STAYS HOME WITH ME ALL THE TIME HE WONT GO ANYWERE WITH HIS FRIENDS UNLESS I CAN GO HE STOPED TALKING TO ALL HIS FRIENDS THAT WERE GIRLS ITS ALL ABOUT ME BUT HES SO MEAN TO ME HE YELLS AT ME HE ACCUSES ME OF THINGS I DONT DO HES JUST A JERK HE CAN BE SO SWEET AND NICE AND THEN ACT LIKE A JERK DOES HE LOVE ME? IM NOT SAYING IM PERFECT BUT NEITHER IS HE................
2006-10-24 07:33:06 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him! If he is yelling at you now and being mean to you what will it be like further down the track? I had a boyfriend once who never did anything without me. He was really sweet at first but eventually I had to get the police involved to keep him away from me. I am not saying that yours is going to end up physically abusive, but mental abuse is just as bad.
2006-10-24 07:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! He's very possessive and controlling. If he can be nice at times and then turn around and be a jerk, you don't need him. Those actions have a way of turning abusive and you don't need that in your life. Life's to short, go out and enjoy it with people who will enjoy you all the time, not part time.
2006-10-24 14:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by sqeaky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is yelling at you, talking crap to you and making you feel like crap...it doesn't matter how many times he is good...if he acts like that now, it will get worse as you get older.
Any man who gives up his friends and his life for a woman, has issues deep down. A relationship means give & take...but no one should give up their friends, boy or girl, for anyone...Friends were there before the relationship started, and they are there when it's over.
A man who yells at a woman (constantly) is not worth keeping around...eventually, yelling becomes hitting.
2006-10-24 14:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by brianwerner1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you if he loves you or not, but, he does sound controlling and if you do decide to pursue this relationship be careful. You can never tell with guys like that when they are going to hit you next. You need to set a standard for yourself and do not lower the bar under any circumstance.
2006-10-24 14:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by jeleaya82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he yells at you then drop him, if he has ever hit you, well lets just say... never let me and him meet cuz some one will die.
a man who hits or yells at a woman is not a man he is a child with a temper and does not deserve the love of a woman.
my advise for you, drop him, NOW
2006-10-24 14:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he'll have to go out and do things with you, not hide you from the world. He probably does love you but he seems to be going the wrong way about it.
The question is... do YOU love him?
Even if you decide to stick by him, don't let him control your life.
2006-10-24 14:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by sirinae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may or may not love you..The real point here is that he is extremely controlling and insecure..You need to get out NOW before things escalate to the physical plane.
2006-10-24 14:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by raykpcs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he love you to me but these are also signs of an abusive lover be careful.
2006-10-24 14:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he loves you but is scared of you leaving him.What do you know about his past relationships?
2006-10-24 14:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he loves you are you happy? If you are than stay if not leave.
2006-10-24 14:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋