Me and my boyfriend have been in this great secure relationship for 6 years. But every now my ex has a mutual friend call for him or he emails me. And everytime i talk to him, i seem to start back getting weak for him. He is currently married, but is telling me he wants to be with me and he has never stopped loving me. I am not sure if he is sincere since we have not been together since 2000. Or if he just wants me as a rebound? When we were together he was this big player. Do you think it is possible to trust someone whom broke your heart in the past? I'm not sure if he is just saying all these things because marriage is on the rocks. What do you think????
2006-10-24 07:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by Gamergrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting story. I am experiencing something similar but not quite the same. My ex and I have been broke up since 2001 and still keep in touch, he is also married by the way. He says pretty much the same thing as your ex and he is in the process of a divorce so I can relate a little but each situation is always different. Let me ask you this, Does your current boyfriend give you a reason to leave him? Is there something that he is not doing? If not, why would you leave just because your ex is having a change of heart? Sometime as people, we tend to long for something just because we can't have it and then once we have it , we don't want it anymore.Truly you should pray about it. If it is meant to be trust me it will be. Yes, it is possible to forgive someone who has hurt you in the past. You have to make it up in your mind to do so and completely let go of the past. Of course you should not be a rebound, that would only open old wounds for you. Try to look at the situation from all angles. Whatever you do make sure you are honest with yourself first, and then your current boyfriend. He should not have to pay for your past. I always say," Never hold on to your past while watching your future pass you by!" Everyone has the potential to change it's up to them if they are ready to change or not. I wish you the best of luck with your situation. I pray you make the right choice!
2006-10-24 08:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by KS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No such factor as a specific date. It might be quality if that used to be real. :) Every dating comes with an expiry date. Wouldn't that be best! But luckily, I am pleased that isnt so. A dangerous dating does no longer imply that you simply must overlook the well moments you had along with your ex. But that are supposed to no longer be the one intent so that you can consider the have to get again with him. Just attempt to appear for methods to transport on and do not forget the well occasions you spent along with your ex. That isn't reasonable for the present man or woman to your lifestyles. Good good fortune. Cheers, SK playstation : I have fond recollections of mine even now. After five years. :)
2016-09-01 02:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by kernan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not sincere- he's a married man who is looking for a cheap thrill. He must think you're a ho-bag if he thinks you'll go for that. So is that it? You're such a ho-bag that a married man can call you and you'll consider cheating on or dumping your boyfriend of 6 years? Are you such a skank that a married man can call you and talk about "love" and "being with you" and you don't even tell him to get lost? You're probably not telling your boyfriend about this, right? I bet he knew you'd hide it from your bf!
Your ex thinks you're a ho-bag- how sincere is that?
2006-10-24 07:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should be ashamed of yourself for entertaining thoughts of your ex while in a "great secure relationship" THAT IS CHEATING! PERIOD! u need to let your current bf know that u are not over your ex and that u still desire him so your bf can know where he stands.
p.s. your ex just wants to smash for old time sakes. if he wanted u don't u think he would've married u and not the other chick? be for real.
2006-10-24 07:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He is currently married, but is telling me he wants to be with me and he has never stopped loving me... When we were together he was this big player".
I don't think he's changed one bit, he's virtually cheating on his wife by telling you this. Steer clear of him or he will break your heart again. You already have someone, so either stay with him or break up with him but DON'T go with your ex, nothing good will come of it.
2006-10-24 07:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't trust this guy at all. This is a big red flag for NO!
2006-10-24 07:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely using you as a booty call do not do anything you'll regret.
2006-10-24 07:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by shelbykittygirlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may like you for selfish reasons, but I wouldn't bank on the fact he cares for you like you so desire
2006-10-24 07:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋