2006-10-24 06:57:35 · 20 answers · asked by AAP0305 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need to overcome it, when you meet the right guy, you will have no trouble trusting him.
2006-10-24 06:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust should be a big issue, but dont make every new guy pay for the sins of those in the past, trust them until they give you reason not to
2006-10-24 06:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop carrying old baggage. Not every guy is a bad guy. If you feel every guy you are intrested in will hurt you (or has) you are in a self distructive pattern. Look for potentials in different places, in other word if you you meet guys at bars your going to get an alchoholic. Meet a guy a sporting event you'll get a sports nut. Try to meet guys at places that your interested in and not where you usually do.
Yes some guys are not worthy of the time but use your real judgement and not reflex judgements that step from past events aka baggage.
2006-10-24 07:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by tien_kou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change focus from trusting men to trusting yourself. Trust your intuition. Even a seemingly wrong choice serves a purpose, for it is an excellent teacher. How would you know what, or who, is right for you if you have made no mistakes?If you can let go quickly of Mr. Wrong you can meet Mr. Right sooner, and there is a Mr. Right waiting to meet you. Trust your heart to know him right away.
2006-10-24 07:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trusting men is HUGE for me too. Once we are betrayed and lied to it isn't easy to ever trust another man.
I pray that God sends me men I can trust and I have dated some.
If nothing else start gradually with the trust thing.
One thing I have learned is that when it comes right down to it, we can only trust ourself. Beyond that we are all human.
Give it time
2006-10-24 07:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to disappoint you but trust is one of the biggest elements in a relationship. If you don't have trust love, I'm 100% sure your relationship won't last. Just remember trust is not something you will have at the beginning its something you have to build on and it becomes stronger and stronger every day.
2006-10-24 07:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by sexy chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each new man you meet, gets a chance to prove himself. Don't judge every man you meet based on past relationships.
It is very hard to trust when you have been burned, but you have to give the benefit of the doubt each and everytime. You will find a good man.
2006-10-24 07:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big B has the right answer there. The right man for you won't give you any reasons not to trust him and you will feel 100% sure of him.
2006-10-24 07:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by kimmi_35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner has not given you any reason to distrust him, then don't. Trust is something that any healthy relationship cannot do without. If you have every reason to believe that this man is honest and faithful to you, go with it. If he ever gives you reason to think otherwise that's the time to worry. Enjoy the relationship.
2006-10-24 07:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please provide more details, so we can properly answer this. Trust isn't something that should be 'overcome', it should be an inherent standard for each person in the relationship.
2006-10-24 07:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by thackara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋