Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

I have always been a good girl. I love my family and friends. I have values, I'm still a virgin and waiting to get married to have sex. But I still love to have fun. On the weekends I go out to parties with my friends, But I do not bring home random guys. I have self-respect for myself. Everyone tells me that I'm cute and have a good personality. But I feel like a lot of guys go for girls that will have sex with them with a blink of an eye. Are guys not interested in good girls anymore?

2006-10-21 07:05:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lighning is amazing...yey! it made my weekend...;0)

2006-10-21 07:04:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My "aunt" moved here from another country, shes mean, shes rude, she thinks shes better then everyone in the family, she called my best friend a lesbian, she cusses a lot, she said that my boyfriend dont care about me at all, now she wont even talk to me all she does is give me evil looks, I have about had it with her... What can I do, any advice???

2006-10-21 07:03:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lets say that hypothetically we were in a relationship and i told you i wanted to see you make out with another woman would you indulge my fantasy or would you laugh it off or get mad? i would like to know and thank you in advance for your time

2006-10-21 07:02:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went 2 a football game and everyone was there and this realy mean kid marcos was buggin my crush and was like GO TO THE DANCE WITH HER and all this stuff and then i asked marcos everything he and my crush said and marcos said my crush would be embarassed 2 go out with u. cause ur 2 ugly. and i thought marcos was lieing cause he always does but idk i have no clue and i was like u swear he said that andmarcos said yeah and then we came back 2marcos acting like we talked 2 my crush
and then we were like he didnt say that and marcos said my crush was lieing
:(( i think im kinda pretty

2006-10-21 07:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a crush on him for like 8 mo., but I KNEW he was unobtainable because he is married with kids.He has flirted with me since the day we met(compliments, arm touching, looking into my eyes)So when I ran into him at school(in college/he was my teacher last semester)I would stop & talk to him. I never thought anyting more would happen.We both get out of class at the same time.We are alone one night (I am just expecting to talk) and out of the blue he kisses me.I could not resist because I have had a crush on him 4ever, we make out (he kisses me deeply & touches me all over)Then next time I see him, he tells me he can't do it anymore because of his family.He continues to flirt, compliment me. Then all the sudden one night it happens again. I was so supprised. Then he tells me he can't again, but I am beautiful, I'm sorry I hurt you, I like you as person, bla bla. I haven't seen him in two weeks bcus I am avoiding him& I know I shouldn't be messing with a married man.

2006-10-21 07:01:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was trying to date this girl, but I came on a little too strong or moved a little fast for her. The result was that I pushed her away, and she stopped wanting to talk to me. Although we did talk once in a while, there was a stange, akward aura in the air every time we did. Finally, I had had enough. I called her and apologized, and told her how bad I felt about ruining our relationship. I told her I had just really wanted to get to know her, and for her to get to know me, and she said she understood and that she felt okay about everything. Is there any way I can salvage this and build a reltionship with her?

2006-10-21 07:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Valhalla2128 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and want to know if he likes me and I want to find out if he likes me without letting him know I like him.

2006-10-21 06:59:57 · 6 answers · asked by Bobbie Sue 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was drunk dialing him. . . so maybe she will stop .

2006-10-21 06:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that guy is from my school.. we aren't friends. I only know his name & from which class he is... I haven't got frinds in that class so I can't ask 4 sumbody does he like me or not... in one chat-site I found his profile.. & in it were sum comments from one girl.. it was written in may & in the end of september... they r in sum kinda relationships or smt... but at school.. he always looks at me! & he blushes (I don't know is it correct or not)... & even one time he smiled for me... & my friend says that he likes me.. but I'm not sure.. well I like him.. but if he has got a gf...? & I know that this whole story is really stupid.. but pls write for me what do you think

2006-10-21 06:57:56 · 15 answers · asked by Justina 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

these 2 girls ive been friends with for a few years wanna go out with me but i dont know who to choose.i dont wanna hurt them because they r best friends.what should i do?

2006-10-21 06:57:50 · 16 answers · asked by sprossy 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my husband had sex with my cousin last year. Apparently it only lasted a few seconds and it meant nothing. I only found out almost a year after the event, by accident,neither party told me.The worst thing for me is that I was asleep upstairs when it happened. I feel betrayed by them both and really embarrassed as most of my family are now aware-I feel like the whole world knows I was not good enough in bed to stay faithful to! is it possible to forgive what they did? I don't feel that I "have" to entertain forgiving her but as we have a 4 year old son I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place as to what I do about forgiving him? Sex is unbearable as I keep imagining them together, we are playing musical beds and arguing lots and lots. He says he's sorry and he can't begin to understand what he was thinking. He says that what he did made him realise what we had and he wants us to try and move on together. Our son has no idea we aren't "friends"

2006-10-21 06:56:29 · 29 answers · asked by desperate housewife!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my yougest brother has been goin out with a girl for over a year, everything was good at de start but in de last 5 mts she is been a ***** she controls him so much.. he is such a gentle man an doesn't deserve it, but now she is bitchin bout my family and my other bros are goin mad.. he broke it off before and she promised to change but hasn't

2006-10-21 06:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by simply B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently found out that my husband had sex with my cousin last year. Apparently it only lasted a few seconds and it meant nothing. I only found out almost a year after the event, by accident,neither party told me.The worst thing for me is that I was asleep upstairs when it happened. I feel betrayed by them both and really embarrassed as most of my family are now aware-I feel like the whole world knows I was not good enough in bed to stay faithful to! is it possible to forgive what they did? I don't feel that I "have" to entertain forgiving her but as we have a 4 year old son I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place as to what I do about forgiving him? Sex is unbearable as I keep imagining them together, we are playing musical beds and arguing lots and lots. He says he's sorry and he can't begin to understand what he was thinking. He says that what he did made him realise what we had and he wants us to try and move on together. Our son has no idea we aren't "friends"

2006-10-21 06:54:53 · 21 answers · asked by desperate housewife!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it can be from a movie, made up on the spot, or from real life.

2006-10-21 06:54:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is 19 and I am 26, but I know she was interested at first and still fancies me. If I told her that she can still have freedom and I wont be a control freek as long as she is loyal would that help?

2006-10-21 06:54:10 · 18 answers · asked by sija_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

because inventually we are all going to be lonely and need a companion in life

2006-10-21 06:54:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is not even hadsome but he has something that makes me smile each and every time I see his face. He has beautiful eyes and his words are rude, I knew him in January and it´s October and I don´t know what to do.

2006-10-21 06:53:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jessica Anne de Oliveira 1 in Singles & Dating

My closest friend, that I have been friends with since '91, & graduated together, has recently moved in with a girl that was once a friend of mind, but now completely hate for a good d-amn reAson (i won't go into detail) me & her aren't allowed each other from the accident. (it's not a restraining order) Now in some converstions the girl is slipped in with the subject, though I know not meaningful to bother me. Yesterday she called my friend & I was there at her granny's & she spoke so loud I could hear her. She came by to pick something up, & I went up the stairs but still heard the b-itch's voice. Another friend of my close friend told me to forgive and forget & was b-itching at me, but he doesn't know that other girl as well as me, & didn't know what I went thru & still am. WHAT I'M SAYING IS THAT B-ITCH IS BACK IN MY FRIENDS LIFE & SOMEHOW BROKEN IN TO INFO WHEN TALKING. MY FRIEND CALLS FROM HER HOUSE BLOCKING THE NUMBER. I FEEL UPSET. DON'T I HAVE A RIGHT TO?

2006-10-21 06:53:05 · 2 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Friends

In college there was this guy (I say was because he is no more) I dint talk to him much but he helped me once or twice in class and he sat directly behind me... I dint know his address until yesterday when I heard that he was killed in an accident should i go to his place considering that it is across town from where I stay?? But the real prob. is that some of my friends are going b'coz they live comparatively near by

Oh and an answer from a hindu costom point of view would be appreciated

2006-10-21 06:53:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-21 06:52:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

all the pouplar people want me to hang wit them and a lot of other people want to hang out with me to

2006-10-21 06:51:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex seems to have turned my kids against me cos I refuse to be a bottomless pit of money.She gets what she is entitled to by law but wants more and now I have refused to pay this she wont allow any contact with them .I am thinking of legal action.
ps I though they were old enough to see thru this as they are both teenagers.

2006-10-21 06:51:17 · 38 answers · asked by HIMSELF 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my best guy friend and i talk and he's like my brother. When he asked me who i liked i told him and he was like he's a jerk when the guy is really nice. Also, he asks me if i talked to him and when i said no and asked him what i should do he told me he doesn't care. Hello, he was the one that asked so why is he being angry?

2006-10-21 06:49:29 · 23 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

As a youth at the age of 13, I was left only to the dark and miserable downtown streets of my city. I am 20 now and trying to leave the terrible memories behind. In doing so, I cut myself off from all the "street" friends I aquired during those years. Now my life has changed. I haven't had any real friends for almost a year. My free time consists of watching T.V. , surfing the net and reading books, all of course at home. I want to make new friends, but I am not sure if after all these years I will attract the same breed of friends I had before. How can I make a true, genuine friend? This may seem silly to most who take friends for granted, but this is all to serious and I need some advice.

2006-10-21 06:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by Sieanna K 1 in Friends

Recently found out my ex was jocking my best friend for 2 years. "SHOCKED" That is what I was when I found out. Sincerely, Crushed!!

2006-10-21 06:49:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

HE lies about everything i even took him back after he had another child by another *****, he had got down on his luck this year and helped him out, i let him move in with us and it has been hell every sense, i thought that i was doing a good thing by helping but all we do is fus and fight . He is still doing his thing, i asked him to leave today, all i want is to be happy. Did i do the right thing??? He's not gona have a place to go, but i am tired of all the confusion when we could just be friends and great parents.

2006-10-21 06:48:33 · 8 answers · asked by lesa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

one day my boyfriend got mad at me about something i did and walked out of the door. i shrugged it off and maybe five minutes after that i walked out to check the mail. i saw him standing in the parking lot talking to our female neighbor( whos about our age) in a conversation that seems to be about me. because they they did that thing where u stop talking when the object of your conversation comes into view. so i walk to the mailbox without saying anything to them, later i ask him if they were talking about me. hes says that they were talking and she happened to mention that her and her boyfriend had broken up and he moved out and he told her that it looked like we were headed down the same road. im right to be suspisous, right. when i accused him of wanting the neighbor he said that i was crazy. but lately i think over incidents where i would say something about her and it seems he would jump to defend her. when did they get all freindly?

2006-10-21 06:47:13 · 18 answers · asked by lslong36 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i went out a few times with this guy i work with, but nothing really happened. we broke up, nothing traumatic because it wasn't a big deal to begin with. But the thing is, he still acts like he did before and during the time we were together.

One day, we were joking around and teasing and i asked him what he had said, and he's just like "i said i loved you" yeah....i was kind of shocking. so i guess my question is, is he just being stupid and having fun, or does he seriously want to date me again?

by the way, it was him who brought up the idea of breaking up, (he only beat me by like 5 minutes) saying that he liked me but not "us"

thanks for any serious answers!!

2006-10-21 06:47:12 · 9 answers · asked by next door girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy some years ago and we lost contact. We just met each other again. We have been on one date and most of the time he doesnt call me back or doesnt call me at all. It seems that Im always making the first move. I have called him to try for him to go out but he makes plans with me and doesnt follow through nor does he call me. Please help what shoud I do? Does he like me as much as I like him. I am extremely attracted to him he is so handsome and he has a great personality. I truthfully believe that he is my soul mate and he is running from something. Help.

2006-10-21 06:46:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating