Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

my only daughter has suddenly given me 3 months notice of her forthcoming wedding in Australia to a man I have met once only. She hopes I will contribute to costs and give her away. I love her dearly but don't know how I can afford to pay towards wedding and fares/expenses to Australia as well, plus loss of income while away as I have little savings. It seems unfair that I have had no say in any arrangements and little time to prepare or save up. The ex seems reluctant to contribute either saying I should use my credit card! Should I pay and not attend or is my presence there the most important thing? Should I take out a loan and stuff the consequences? The date was fixed to co-incide with her mother's pre-arranged trip out there but I feel my circumstances were not taken into consideration. Am I being selfish? Will I regret not going for the rest of my life?

2006-10-21 00:08:18 · 29 answers · asked by currymistress 1 in Weddings

I am very concered about my marriage. The communication does not seem to be a part of our marriage anymore. My husband is preparing a home for us to live in, it has been neglected for 20 years ( needs alot of work,) I have tried to help him, but it doesn't seem to get anywhere. I understand that he is "working for us" but i honestly do not see him much and as i stated earlier, he leaves the house about 3 - 4 in the morning to go to his fathers - That is the house that he is fixing up for us. He then comes home around 5 -6 at night and goes to bed at 8:00 . Should i be worried about his actions.?? AM i blind to the situation?? He just doesn't seem to want to come home and spend time anymore. Quite honestly, I feel frustrated.
Do any of you have any experience you can share on this subjest?? Woman or male?? I am at my wits end with this situation. Just tired of the arguing and not seeing him. I like living life to the fullest.(Like, having fun with my partner!!

2006-10-21 00:06:14 · 12 answers · asked by Calilady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been talking for about 6 months, pretty hot and heavy. He plans on visiting me in December, but now things are calming down I guess. At this point, should he even bother visiting? Is he just trying to find a nice way of backing out?

2006-10-21 00:03:51 · 7 answers · asked by bowlingforsteph 1 in Singles & Dating

my hubby was acting suspicious after got text msg said had to go see pal of his i knew there was no way he went to see his pal didn't have time when i aked him about it he got into a panic got the impression he thought about doing something but changed mind i've tried everything told him knew he was up to something for weeks avoided me i told him i will find out but would rather it came from him now he's changed again couldn't be any nicer won't go out unless me or kids are with him yet for weeks only put his phone on as was going out the door even found out had switched house phone off put it on got some numbers from it but he said they are for his work i've tried being nice to him threatened him am running out of ideas when i ask him something i know by the look on his face he's telling me load off crap

2006-10-21 00:03:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

example. when they are happy? after a long day work? ... when they are down?..

what is the most time of which women seeking sexual satisfaction from their partner?

2006-10-21 00:03:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 00:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by Tabatha Lovell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships