Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

this guy used to like me but i didn't appear to reciprocate his feelings. he was sad then, i don't know if he is for now. and i don't know if he is actually still liking me. but now, he mixes and fools alot with bunches of girls ALL THE TIME in sch, thou none of them are really pretty ones. but another thing is, he seems to like to lean close to me such as standing very near me or moving his face close to mine. i'm confused by his mixed signals.

does his actions say or mean anything?? what does all these actions show?

2006-10-21 23:21:15 · 9 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

He grew up in a loving family with siblings and a mom and dad. His Dad died suddenly of a heart attack and nothing is the same. He calls me names, says I'm worthless and a rotten mother. Threatens to kill me, blocks my path, comes in my room at 3am to start a fight. He says he doesn't care if I die and no one would care either. It's as if I don't know my own child. He went to counseling, but he's even worse. I feel so beaten down that I don't defend myself anymore and usually go to my bed and cry. Then he just comes in and says I'm pathetic. I have loved and truly cherished my son. I have never talked down to him, spanked him........I just don't know what to do. He's mean to his sister in much the same way. I worry about how he treats his girlfriend as well. Sometimes I'm so depressed and worn down, I wish it would have been me to go, and maybe he'd be happier with his Dad. Please!! Can anyone help me at all. What is wrong??

2006-10-21 23:21:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 23:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by Desislava D 1 in Friends

you're into them, total physical desire, great comfort level BUT you both aren't sure what you want and may have different opinions about sex. (i.e. waiting for marriage, commitment, love, OR you're a carpe diem kind of person, live for the here and now) but let's say...you both don't gel in that one area or you haven't talked about it...HOW long would you be willing to wait?? Would you try to convince that person to see your point of view OR would you accommodate their wishes?

2006-10-21 23:19:50 · 4 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

i love him and he is my childhood friend.he ignores me infront of his best friend and when his idiotic irratating friend is not around he talks to me friendly.whenever i talk to my freind he looks at me with a sweet smile on his face without anybody noticing.does he love me too?plz help me out.i had written this question before also but it was some how deleted.

2006-10-21 23:17:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have had sex acouple times already. But another time before when i touched her vagina she seemed alot more wet that we had sex and overall she acted alot more turned on, but that was before we were comfortable with having sex. How can I turn her on better before we have sex so it wont be so stressful? Does a romantic date before hand make a big difference? Or is it just the mood (on or off)? FYI, i am not forcing her to have sex and she was the one who tells me if she wants it.

2006-10-21 23:16:12 · 10 answers · asked by Just_another_nice_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

My relati0nship wid my bf is gettin s0 weak n0w.were s0 different dat we always have a misunderstanding.but it seems hes to0 bc t0 care at all.im tired of arguments and i wana break up wid him but i dnt kn0w h0w and where t0 start?my heart says i hav t0 h0ld but seein 0ur situati0n c0nvincing me dat its P0INTLESS.It hard cos im close t0 his family t0o and i dnt wnt to hurt them,his family is great dat they treat me s0 dearly =c

2006-10-21 23:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by Lo Carla 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend has started acting really strange lately for instance 1 night we were having sex and shepulled away from me and started fingering my balls she then snogged me and went back to having sex!whats happening?

2006-10-21 23:15:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where can I meet polish or other EU guys-gay

2006-10-21 23:14:55 · 19 answers · asked by mark d 1 in Friends

2006-10-21 23:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by Vig 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have had sex acouple times already. But another time before when i touched her vagina she seemed alot more wet that we had sex and overall she acted alot more turned on, but that was before we were comfortable with having sex. How can I turn her on better before we have sex so it wont be so stressful? Does a romantic date before hand make a big difference? Or is it just the mood (on or off)? FYI, i am not forcing her to have sex and she was the one who tells me if she wants it.

2006-10-21 23:13:17 · 5 answers · asked by Just_another_nice_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy that I'm dating and I had a little mis understanding and I ended up telling him that I'm starting to lose my patients! I think he may have taken it the wrong way and so he called me back and says, "well I need you to leave me alone for a little while and I tried to explain the situation and he didn't even try to listen and understand. He's never like this, I know he's going through some problems right now in his life. He's always been an easy-going guy and doesn't get upset that easy. When I asked him why and what did I do he said nothing I just need you to leave me alone for awhile, it's not you, I just need you to do that, okay!? I'm afraid he's going tp tell me later that he doesn't want to see me anymore. Should I just go ahead and break things off or just give him his space and wait?

2006-10-21 23:12:29 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs. EV 2 in Singles & Dating

Eversince you saw a guy, you are already very interested in him and you actually have feelings for him that time and even though you lost your feelings for him, you are still interested in getting close with him and knowing him better.

Well I'm sure that I'm innocently interested with him because I even want to help him now that he wants to court this girl and I'm not feeling anything bad about him liking that girl and the girl feeling the same for him.

2006-10-21 23:10:21 · 6 answers · asked by Rhine 3 in Singles & Dating

I went to make myself a cup of tea and was shocked to be confronted
by my old workmate Big Barry, peering through my kitchen window. It all started when Barry came to work for my firm and I was his foreman, all the other lads ripped the piss out of him due to his size which I thought was shocking, anyway I took him under my wing and we became good friends, we used to go drinking and went to a few footy games too. It all went pear shaped when after one too many Big Barry told me that he loved me, flattered though I was, that was the end our friendship and he had to go at work too. Ever since then he seems to pop up wherever I go which is a bit freaky if you ask me, should I report him?

2006-10-21 23:06:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

30 years old man and a 25 years old woman.they flirt but are not close friends.he has to spend a week in a different city and she has a friend that owns a hotel at that city so she tells him he has a free hotel room for him(alone) and he accepts it.the girl is in love with him and he knows it.if you were that man,would you accept the hotel room?i think that if he doen´t like her,he should not accept it because it would be taking advantage of her feelings and that if he accepts it,it means that he is attracted to her.what is your opinion?

2006-10-21 23:05:54 · 19 answers · asked by maria f 1 in Singles & Dating

should i terminate my exs baby and stay with my current boyfriend???????
i dunno what to do cos i dont like the idea of termination but im 17 help me

2006-10-21 23:05:13 · 14 answers · asked by sarah e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 23:03:47 · 11 answers · asked by Rakesh K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've only met up with her twice in the last 3 months. We mostly talk on the phone or online. When we do see each other, I feel that there is a kind of attaction between us. I may be wrong, she could be just very friendly towards me because she knows I just went through a difficult break up, but the things she do and say made me feel so comfortable around her.
When I'm on the phone with her, she sounds so sweet and understanding, but online, it's totally different.
Just last week, she told me about a travel expo and asked me to go along. She then continued that she doens't want to go overseas alone. Does that sound like she's inviting me to go with her?
I just can't pick her out, we agreed to go to the movies because I have free tickets, but she has already cancelled on me twice, (she says it's family affair) after taking so long to set the dates. Is she interested in me? Is what she is doing a test to see how I act?
I really need more to explain but 1000 characterss is all I get.

2006-10-21 23:00:57 · 17 answers · asked by In Love and Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 22:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by Rakesh K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My birthday is coming up. And I had told my wife that I would love to have a threesome with another female. Bacause that was always my sexual fantasy. My wife is all up for it. but I have no idea how would I get a female to accompany us. And I don't know if there is anyone willing out there. I consider myself good looking Puertorican and my wife is a beautiful black woman. Help me or us rather.

2006-10-21 22:54:49 · 15 answers · asked by Willie D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend has been acting so differently lately.She tells me who to hang around with and who ever she doesnt like she tells me not to talk to them even if I want to.Now she is going around telling a boy who likes me that I like him and I dont.I am going to a disco with her next week and im not looking forward to it anymore.I love my friend but how do I tell her how I feel without destroying our friendship?she is so controling.plz help!!!!!!

2006-10-21 22:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by ms.biatch 1 in Friends

i have a 5 month old son who i love to bits. the problem is his dad. he has only seen him once and that was 3 months ago and he doesn't pay any money. i have given him many oppotunities to have contact with his son but he hasn't taken me up on it so i told him to forget he existed. to cut a long story short, if he decided he wanted contact with him, would i be wrong to say no?

2006-10-21 22:46:44 · 41 answers · asked by emma1to10 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems that these days no one wants to be a virgin anymore, as if it's so wrong to be a virgin. Why give up something that you can never get back if it's not with the person you will marry? Isn't virginity special anymore? Shouldn't it be saved for that one special person you will marry?

2006-10-21 22:46:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when there is no blowing involved ( like in bloons) at all otherwise all men would be floating high in the sky everytime they got one?

2006-10-21 22:43:27 · 6 answers · asked by Mark n 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend and i am her one and only friend on the earth. so i take care of her, i take her out, i give her my time, money and ofcourse affection. but in the process, when she was having some other friends, i used to flirt her in some acceptable ways. right now, having no other friends, she has developed love towards me and showing that in her behaviour. she is older than me (2.5 years). she had a broken relationship ( for 4 years, that boy started as a friend and conviced her to love him and left her because he wasn't ready to marry her because of his parents disapproval) and an another relationship for 2 months. from the past relationships she has developed a feeling of getting cheated by men. she is very possessive, over jealous. having known all these things about her, i am with her just to give her a company till she gets someone else who will take care of her. i dont know how to deal with this, can any one please help me. thanks in advance

2006-10-21 22:43:25 · 12 answers · asked by new_guy_hyd 2 in Friends

2006-10-21 22:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Kanika S 1 in Weddings

her birthday's on 7th nov and I would like ideas on how to throw a low cost party for her as I'm short on funds. oh yeah shes never had a real birthday party with friends over etc

2006-10-21 22:41:47 · 9 answers · asked by gee 2 in Family

I'm kinda new to this site and don't have much friends so i'm just wondering if you want to be my friend....this is my email ad:
gerlieann_suliano@yahoo.com THANKS! and GOD BLESS!

2006-10-21 22:41:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is there any MYTH about this ?!! what do they really fantasize about?!

2006-10-21 22:37:04 · 21 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried courses, but can,t stick to them. I feel like withdrawing from life and staying at home. I am 47 I don,t have a partner. I feel invisible to men. My life is food shopping,cleaning,cooking and buying clothes I think I will need when my life changes.

2006-10-21 22:31:25 · 33 answers · asked by starlight 1 in Other - Family & Relationships