My girlfriend and I have had sex acouple times already. But another time before when i touched her vagina she seemed alot more wet that we had sex and overall she acted alot more turned on, but that was before we were comfortable with having sex. How can I turn her on better before we have sex so it wont be so stressful? Does a romantic date before hand make a big difference? Or is it just the mood (on or off)? FYI, i am not forcing her to have sex and she was the one who tells me if she wants it.
2006-10-21 23:16:12 · 10 answers · asked by Just_another_nice_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, start by kissing, then touching her everywhere
things will come to their place by themselves
2006-10-21 23:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are ready about the time they get done saying hi. But girls in general worm up a bit slower than guys.Go slow( I know it's the last thing ya want to do).
Your on the right track with the romantic date and setting the mood!
2006-10-22 06:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of this stuff will get easier with time and experience.
First off, make sure she feels comfortable at all times. Do not try to make her feel obligated to have sex. Don't feel obligated to have sex yourself if you don't want to. Instead of getting hung up on sex, enjoy each other's company and let things happen naturally.
2006-10-22 06:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by sverthfreyr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women are romantics. The ambiance should be proper, (sweet, soft music, etc) and the conversation too. These will set the mood for foreplay and eventually consummation.
2006-10-22 06:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by slowly undressing her, so she is in her underwear and then take her hand and ask her to guide you to where she wants to be touched. Usually start from the top and work your way down. When she is begging for you to stop, or when she jumps on you, then you know you can move to the next step. HTH : )
2006-10-22 08:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel comfortable and show her how to make you feel good it should be a learning experience for both try candles and flowers romance her try reading up on this
2006-10-22 06:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother ! It is just like breaking a horse. Hard and unrewarding. I definately prefer to have fillies that someone else has taken the rough out of them. New boots always hurt your feet anyway.
2006-10-22 06:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound like a stud! If you don't know she's turned on, you must be blind. What do you suggest....that she gets an aprenticeship in sexual proficiency?
2006-10-22 06:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by persnicady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start with her mind :) Make her laugh, and relaxed, and excited.
2006-10-22 06:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Aspphire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called foreplay..Simple...You go with the flow. You touch her here and see how she reacts.....
2006-10-22 06:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by antoinette o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋