My friend is in love with me, and i am loving my cousin(my friend know that) how can i deal with dis situation

Question

i have a friend and i am her one and only friend on the earth. so i take care of her, i take her out, i give her my time, money and ofcourse affection. but in the process, when she was having some other friends, i used to flirt her in some acceptable ways. right now, having no other friends, she has developed love towards me and showing that in her behaviour. she is older than me (2.5 years). she had a broken relationship ( for 4 years, that boy started as a friend and conviced her to love him and left her because he wasn't ready to marry her because of his parents disapproval) and an another relationship for 2 months. from the past relationships she has developed a feeling of getting cheated by men. she is very possessive, over jealous. having known all these things about her, i am with her just to give her a company till she gets someone else who will take care of her. i dont know how to deal with this, can any one please help me. thanks in advance

i am an Indian and here in our place getting married with one's cousin ( maternal uncle's/ paternal aunt's daughter) is perfectly accepted

i am a boy, both my friend n my cousin are gals

Answer 1

Keep things the way they're.

And if you want or capable, you could always marry both of them. Just remember the key to any relationship (friendship, family, lover, marriage, etc) is love, not romance. Your wife is your best friend, and you can have best friends.

And if somehow during your marriage, your friend find a guy she likes, let her be with him.

And if she was left alone again (death, divorced, etc), take her back.



As for your feelings for your friend.

Just tell her what you feel about her, and also your cousin.

I think that her jealousy came from the feeling of scared of being left alone. If you kept relationship with her along with your cousin, she will know there's nothing to be affraid.

And don't drop your love for your cousin because of her, that probably will make her even more affraid of losing you, since she know that your're capable dropping out from love.

Answer 2

Your friend is already heart broken on account of her earlier failed relationships. She is growing attached to you more and more as the days go by, unaware of the fact that you are already engaged. It is your duty to break the truth gently to her. If you don't do it very quickly, she might think that you are attracted to her and love her as well. If she learns about the truth too late, when she is more or less sure about your love for her, the result can be dangerous. She might be prompted to do something which might leave you repentant all your life.

Answer 3

Only if you Know the Meaning of the word LOVE, you'll not be discussing like this useless fellow who is trying to find some Company.

Answer 4

wow!! it is an exceptionally no longer consumer-friendly one.. i will some what believe what you experience yet specifically circumstances you would be able to desire to take a great gamble to make certain if issues will take place. in case you by no potential attempt for it, you will continually shop asking your self "what if?" it form of feels he's attracted to you and you have oftentimes happening him for a quiet an prolonged time. it is a robust issues that the two certainly one of you already know alot of approximately eachother. i think of you need to confer with him and tell him the type you experience.

Answer 5

Yes

Answer 6

I don't care what race,religion or whatever you are.

Loving your cousin is odd,and you need help.

Go for the girl you're not related to.

Its better and more human.

Answer 7

pl do what u have to do.
don't bother about other's love.
u just love ur cousin and be happy.

Answer 8

Your in love with your cousin???

Your American right?

Answer 9

do whaeva ya heart says

Answer 10

Is this a gay relationship you are describing?