It seems that these days no one wants to be a virgin anymore, as if it's so wrong to be a virgin. Why give up something that you can never get back if it's not with the person you will marry? Isn't virginity special anymore? Shouldn't it be saved for that one special person you will marry?
2006-10-21 22:46:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For me, it was saved for a special person I loved at the time. And I regret nothing. Virginity is special. But for me, it was saved for my first love.
2006-10-21 22:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't anyone save thier virginity until after marriage anymore? My theory is that society (US) places a very high priority on sex and sexual gratification. Since sex is an important part of a marital relationship I suppose people want to make sure it's going to be "right".
It seems that these days no one wants to be a virgin anymore, as if it's so wrong to be a virgin. Why give up something that you can never get back if it's not with the person you will marry?
Not everyone wants lose their virginity before marriage. The wisest people and those with selfcontrol save themselves until they are married and then remain married to their partner in a healthy relationship. I also think that not many of us have good relationship skills and this is one of the reasons our divorce rate is so high.
Isn't virginity special anymore? Shouldn't it be saved for that one special person you will marry?
Yes virginity is still special, it hasn't changed, just society's attitude has changed. There are a lot of very good reasons virginity should be protected until marriage.
2006-10-21 22:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is special and should be reserved for that special person. Now that doesn't mean that you should wait for you guys to get married. When you love a person, both of you are ready and you know there won't be any regrets, I don't see why not making love.
Now, for all those factors to be met, there has to be a certain level of maturity involved, which I highly doubt a 15 year old has reached yet... Everybody seems so rushed these days, it's sad. But, good things happen to those who wait uh?
2006-10-21 23:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jmyooooh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 03:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who saved herself for marriage. On the wedding night, it was a disaster. The hubby was a virgin too and they tried bumping uglies, but it just wouldn't work. They spent years at therapy trying to work it out. They gave up in the end and live together happily without sex. They conceived kids by artificial insemination.
I believe in trying before you buy. Making love is just an expression of how you feel for that person. Only Society has decided its dirty and shouldn't be done prior to marriage. Even Jesus hung around a prostitute. Think about it
2006-10-22 00:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is special and I wish that I was still one, my gf still wishes the same thing because she was forced, so thats rape.
anyway we were discussing this last night and if you feel that you've found the right person than you should loose it to that person, though she told me about a couple where they were aged 70 and 90 respectively and both virgins, and only just getting married after being together for 30 + years, I thought Oh My God, being basically a lifetime virgin aint that great but if its what you really want then its what you really want aint it.
cheers,
Mitch and Laura
2006-10-21 23:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you to an extent, but as marriage isn't seen as so important anymore and many couples don't see it as essential to tie the knot, I think it's more realistic to save your viginity for a special long term relationship. Tha's what I did, and we've separated now, but I'm still glad I saved it for someone who meant a lot to me at the time. I don't agree with one night stands or casual sex because sex is a big deal and should be saved for someone special. These days the emotion and the specialness of sex has got lost which is such a shame.
2006-10-21 22:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not assume that the experience of some should be the basis to judge the whole. There are still several girls/ women, who save their virginity for the man they are going to marry. You would be surprised to find out.
2006-10-21 23:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it's not really saving it for marriage per se, but saving it for somebody who really matters a lot to you. if you feel it in your heart that the person is worth giving up your virginity, then by all means go for it. just make sure you're mature and responsible enough to handle whatever comes out of that decision.
i actually know a lot of guys in their mid-20's who are still virgins...by choice.
2006-10-22 00:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Nikai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in an ideal world we would be a virgin until we married the right person, and live happily everafter. But life is a gamble, and things happen out of our control.
2006-10-21 23:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋