My best friend has been acting so differently lately.She tells me who to hang around with and who ever she doesnt like she tells me not to talk to them even if I want to.Now she is going around telling a boy who likes me that I like him and I dont.I am going to a disco with her next week and im not looking forward to it anymore.I love my friend but how do I tell her how I feel without destroying our friendship?she is so controling.plz help!!!!!!
2006-10-21 22:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by ms.biatch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Gotta speat to her about it.
Ask her what's happening and why
is she acting like that all of a sudden?
and tell her it's bothering you but you
still wanna be friends like before...
2006-10-21 22:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth, in a nice and subtle way.
Since this thing just happened lately, maybe she has a reason on why she acted that way. You better know about it. Maybe she is worried about you, affraid that you're hanging in the wrong crowd or that she thinks you need a boyfriend that she think is right for you.
2006-10-21 23:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, just like you did here. If she gets mad and the friendship is destroyed, it's her fault, so don't feel bad. If she gets mad, it's her fault too because she is the one making up lies about you. She's the one in the wrong. She sounds like she needs some serious help. It doesn't sound like a good healthy friendship anyway.
2006-10-21 22:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a very controlling friend,not to mention a very insecure friend!! You really need to sit down with her and explain how you feel about all of this,and if she is a really good friend,she may not like what you are saying,but chances are,she will start to think about all of this,and then try to change. If it does ruin your friendship,then chances are really good that she never really was a good friend after all!!
2006-10-22 00:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by roses are red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta be upfront with her. If she thinks you're a beeotch for telling her to stop bossing you around, don't get defensive - just explain your situation and hope that she understands your point of view. If she can't accept what you're saying then it's probably time for a new best friend.
2006-10-21 22:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Dean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should have a serious talk about yourself and the fact that u have ur own feelings and thoughts and that u are smart enough to know what's good and what's bad 4 u and with who u should hang out or not.make her see that u care about her but that doesn't mean that she can control ur life.
2006-10-21 22:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by in3s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should discuss about the whole matter clearly with ur frnd n then come to a point. i'm quite sure she's gonna understand u. u should ask her why the hell she's suddenly doing like this. i think there's a bit prob with ur frend, is she taking drugs or stuff?
2006-10-21 23:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest in the only solution to your problem....tell her what you feel and let her explain why she's doing that.A true friend will understand each other and accept if one has fault and correct it.
2006-10-21 22:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell ur friend in a nice way that she is being kind of bossy and you do not like that
2006-10-21 22:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by zac efron grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST AND DO IT QUICK. LET HER KNOW YOU DO NOT APPRECIATE IT AND THAT IF IT CONTINUES, YOU WOULD RATHER NOT BE FRIENDS. FRIENDS DONT CONTROL EACHOTHER. FRIENDS LAUGH TOGETHER. ARE YOU SURE SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND? DOESNT REALLY SOUND LIKE IT. SOUNDS LIKE WHAT YOU SAID A "CONTROL FREAK"!
2006-10-21 22:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by jaylove209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋