i love him and he is my childhood friend.he ignores me infront of his best friend and when his idiotic irratating friend is not around he talks to me friendly.whenever i talk to my freind he looks at me with a sweet smile on his face without anybody noticing.does he love me too?plz help me out.i had written this question before also but it was some how deleted.
2006-10-21 23:17:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his idiotic friend is not good going friendly withme nor am i.we are just enemies.
2006-10-21 23:25:54 · update #1
hii
am 2 years experienced married woman so my advice is say gud bye 2 him and try not 2 fall in this pool of a **** n have lot of fun in life with friends and family, u mite b likin the guy but if hes not bothered dont u gve a damn 2 him life is tooo long u can get sumbody who loves u "love n care 4 the one who loves n care 4 u n not the 1 whom u love n care" hope u take my advice coz life is not short take care bye
2006-10-21 23:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by arshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not in love with this guy you have a crush on him. Love is much more complicated and involved then most people think. You are still very young. What you will come to realize later in life is that boys will come and boys will come. Some relationships will be good, while others will be bad. The best advice I can give you is to enjoy your youth and don't grow up too fast. Does this guy love you? No. He is too young to in love plus if he "loved" you he would be good to you all the time. However, he is young, and that is just something that guys do. It is all a part of growing up. So just enjoy your youth and have fun. Don't get too serious about relationships right now. You have your whole life ahead of you. Peace and God bless.
2006-10-21 23:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take this wrong -- but you guys might still be too young, and a bit to immature -- especially him. He might not be ready for the kind of ideas of love that you have yet.He might have feelings for you that are so confusing he doesn't know how to act around you when he's with his friends. Some guys are like that. Just ask him why he acts different, not if he likes you. Get an honest answer out of him, and than just wait a little longer for him to be ready for love. =)
2006-10-21 23:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by xxxdarksakuraxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ignores you when his best friend's around; he smiles sweetly at you when nobody notices, plllzzzzzz. Why are you so in love with somebody who treats you like that? He doesn't even know who he is yet. Is he a punk who needs the approval of his friend and peers to do what he wants and show interest in who he wants. You need to get busy developing more self-respect or you're going to get dogged many days.
2006-10-21 23:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Worker Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your special friend cares for you alot. But only time will tell whether he loves you or not, in a romantic type of way. Maybe he just care for you as a friend that is why he acts the way he does and does'nt really treat you the way you want him to, as you guys are just friends. All I can suggest is for you to talk to him and express to him how you feel and for him to do the same. It is good to be aware of the body language and interpret this, but you could be wrong. so speak to him and you will know for sure.
2006-10-21 23:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by CUTIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think U have a chanse with him. Maybe U should invite him and tell everything what U wrote here, dont be scared if he refuses U U shouldnt be disapointed cuz if U wouldnt told him than u would suffer from not knowing his feelings!!!
Try there is a chanse!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 23:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by L...A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys always.. I repeat ALWAYS try to act cool in front oh their frenz... they'll do stupid things, things that they don't wish to do.... I don't know if it's love, but he's definitely interested in u....... When his fren is not ard, y don't u go n talk to him? Get a muber or sth tat u can call... Or try to fix certain time where u can spend some alone time together.....
2006-10-21 23:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it sometime. He may like you as a friend or may have feelings for you. But if he had feelings for you, it is not true love because, he is still not ready to "show" it to the world. So give it time to manifest itself first, whether he is interested or not.
2006-10-21 23:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has some feelings for you or he wouldn't bother talking to you at all. The question is why doesn't he talk to you when his mate is around. Does this mate talk to you? How do you and this mate get on? Maybe you need to talk to him about it and really find out why this is happening.
2006-10-21 23:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear.
pl u ignore him in when he comes to u and see the changes.he will feel the pinch , if he is really loving u
all the best
2006-10-21 23:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by anu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋