Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

i want to kiss my bf for the first time...(((im 13))) but im kinda scared and i want to make him want more from me so how can i give him a short sexy kiss?? what do boys like when girls kiss them??

2006-10-21 18:35:30 · 3 answers · asked by Kayla T 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some signs? should you let them know your suspicions?

2006-10-21 18:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by harleyq8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 18:33:07 · 11 answers · asked by ziledz 1 in Singles & Dating

Got a first date with a girl tomorrow. We are both in the 18 yr old range. We have only talked a bit, never actually hung out or anything before. My question is to whether a first date is best just to take her out to eat, eat and a movie, or something else?

2006-10-21 18:32:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I like and I gon't know if he likes me. We flirt with each other big time. The only problem is....I AM SHY. Everyone says i need to ask him if he likes me and if he does and he don't have a gf then to ask him out. The queston is... If I am shy, how do I ask this guy if he likes me and if he does and don't have a gf then How do I ask this guy out??? Reminder: I am shy big time!!!!!

2006-10-21 18:31:55 · 7 answers · asked by Stacey S 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is begging me to have a threesome. He loves alot of sex and he said that would make him happy. What should I do? Should I do anything to keep him happy or will I be playing myself? Please HELP!!!!

2006-10-21 18:31:16 · 21 answers · asked by deljuana1 1 in Singles & Dating

I connect with females well through touch shoulders, back, neck, and other areas like this. It isn't sexual, it's a comfort/trust thing. I am wondering what the woman out here think, and yes we are going out, I just want to see if it is something I should bring up.

2006-10-21 18:30:55 · 1 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

Her goes. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about six month and we're in a long-distance relationship. It's really difficult because I feel so strongly about him and I know he loves me too. Recently i feel like we're growing apart. I miss how things used to be but i dont feel like i miss him as much even though we dont get to see one another all the time. We dont talk as much and even when we do i get bored with him rambling about work and life. I dont feel like he pays enough attention to me either, but how can he when he's not with me. I get so emotional and cry when i think about our relationship and i dont know if its because i love him, im not happy with him or i dont want things the way they are. I love him soooo much but i dont know what i should do and cant explain how i feel

2006-10-21 18:28:37 · 6 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

Which way would you go if you had the choice!

A.) True love and you know he will be 100% faithfull (middle man income)

B.)Not true love, you dont have any feelings for him (but he is a multi millionare)

and you cant pick both

2006-10-21 18:28:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 18:27:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this boy i like and i think he likes me but he's the type that would be too imbaressed to say anything about it and i'm the same way....any suggestions????

2006-10-21 18:26:45 · 10 answers · asked by monkey b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 18:26:30 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. Lady 2 in Family

cause i wanna try it,
but im afraid?
no actual full doing it, just good old fashioned rub down.

2006-10-21 18:26:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 18:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i met this guy a few months ago online right here in answers. and we started chatting and got lots in common. then we met up face to face as we don't live far apart. and then a few weeks ago we went on a date. and it was great. we been chatting still and were planing another date which has been postponed 2 times. He keeps messing around with my emotions. and i'm confused as hell. one min we are ok and the next he has some issue that needs clearing up. we have talked about evryting under the sun. and i have been clear about what i want from this relatonship. so had he i thought. we have feelings for each other but not in serious love . has not gone much farther than kissing and petting. and i think about him all the time.. i may have been pushy he told me i was stressing him out. and now he wants to back off a little. well thats ok i just don't want him to dump me. is he playing games with me or not? should i even pursue this ? and how do i stop thinking about him all the time ?

2006-10-21 18:25:18 · 19 answers · asked by Babygirl20 1 in Singles & Dating

we always fight..I wanna talk..he doesnt..he doesnt see a problem..I wanna go out for dinner and stuff..he doesnt wanna..its annoying..we fight about EVERYTHING!!! The computer....money....how much we hate eachother..than love eachother 5 mins later...

2006-10-21 18:25:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to want so bad but scared to take it when offered like help
ahelping hand or a hug or advice or just some one to cry on

2006-10-21 18:24:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and well, he's a good friend of mine. but i dont know if he likes me or not. so how would i know if he likes me?
the thing is, he still thinks i like another guy even after ive made it clear that i didnt.
anyway, ive just been rejected by another guy and although im over it, im afraid of being rejected again as the previous one hurt so bad.
what should i do? should i tell him that i like him? but i dont want to ruin the friendship that we share if it turns out that he doesnt like me. or should i just forget him?

2006-10-21 18:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by savoirfaire 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 29 year old woman and I am getting married in exactly two weeks. A very big traditional wedding. I am ecstatic! My problem: I am a plus sized woman...and my mom hates it! My mother is Korean and my father is African American-to oriental moms, image means EVERYTHING! At least to the ones I know. I've been told on numerous occasions that I am beautiful, I've had strangers stop me in stores to compliment me, my loving Fiance' tells me almost every day. She lives out of state and has not seen me in 3 years. I was plus sized then, have been for 10 years at least. No conversation on the phone ends w/out her asking me if I have lost weight. I've tried to not let it bother me or cry but I am worried about what she will say. My self esteem is horrible, & unlike most blushing brides in their wedding dress, I'm dreading what she will say about me in mine and that she will ruin my day. Any suggestions on what I should say should she bring up my weight while she is here?

2006-10-21 18:23:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-21 18:23:26 · 2 answers · asked by Cinderella 3 in Friends

2006-10-21 18:23:08 · 5 answers · asked by rattlermike 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is in Japan visiting family working to save money so we can move to california.?
She said she would be back here in states before my birthday on 10/28.. I replied rude to a message because I waited around for her to call one day.. Wasn't really rude but not the usual good stuff in message.. We had no contact 4 a week.. So I send her a Dozen Pink Roses in Japan with a Teddy Bear... She then responded in a email. Shes working 7 days a week. So I understand shes busy.. I think I pissed her off though.. I love her very much I treat her with respect and how a women should be treated. She responded with this statement..
"im spending busy days but im happy cuz i like my job. anyway im sorry that ur father is not good. i hope he gets better.
ive a work everyday so i dont wanna u to call my house cuz my parents cant speak English well.i got a flower today. Thank you so much. They are pretty.
Well,i have to back to my work. Bye Wakana"
That was on the 15th with no response back since. I've sent none needy fun loving but not overwelming emails to her. Help

2006-10-21 18:22:41 · 2 answers · asked by Cornelius M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 1 month allready.....and i feel that i can NOT be with out him....is it too soon to be in love with him? I really care about him and would do just about everything to be with him....i have NEVER felt like this for any other of my ex boyfriends....Then again I am only 16 yrs old...i don't know if i am too young to love a guy like this...i am confused...is it love????.......or might it be just an obsession..???
Need You Advice!!!

2006-10-21 18:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And we seem to connect and have simular views and interests, it seems too early to work for a long term relationship, but that is most likely me being cautious like usual. I just want to see what you people think?

2006-10-21 18:22:11 · 2 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 18:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by dr68 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the situation: A good friend owes you $100 for almost a year. You live in a different state from your friend. Everytime time you bring it up, they say:

okay I'll send it and then nothing comes

they say next week, and when next week comes, they say awww come on

they say its in the mail, then a week later say the envelope got delivered back to them for some mysterious reason

you keep asking for it, and they say, its only $100, stop being like that, you're going to get your money...

what would you do?

2006-10-21 18:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this guy that is older than me by 5 years. Is it okay to like him? I just want to know because I'm a little unsure about the answer. PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!

2006-10-21 18:20:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a girl across the country, who I have texted for almost 3 years, and now I can't stop thinking about her. We used to talk all the time, and we would confide in one another. But now we fighht alot, and the recent one landed up with her getting rid of me. I am completely destroyed, and my friends tell me its my problem, what can I do?

2006-10-21 18:20:47 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend but I keep thinking about this guy I use to see. When I was seeing him he wasn't ready for a relationship, so we were just friends. Now it seems like he might be ready for a relationship and even though I am dating someone else now I really like him and miss him. My boyfriend is in another state and the long distance thing is tough. My friend is 5 minutes away which is probably why it's so appealing. I don't know what to do. I want them both but I know I can't have that. I also don't know how the friend would feel about having a relationship. We still talk but he knows I have a boyfriend so I can't see him. He seems sad when we talk and like he wants to see me, but I'm not sure if he wants a relationship or is just looking for a booty call. I'm so confused.

2006-10-21 18:19:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfiends mom was in a car accident and just died today, i feel horrible because he didnt spent that much time with her because he was always with me, a persons mom is the best person i think people have and i dont know what i would do if i lost mine so i feel realy bad for him. i dont know what to say or what i can do to help him and plus i feel really sad too because its his MOM, and seeing him cry hurts me. what can i do to help him and me?

2006-10-21 18:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by flower g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships