what are some signs? should you let them know your suspicions?
2006-10-21 18:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by harleyq8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello, I wouldnt let them know you suspected a thing, but you may consider spying,or hiring a private investigator...tap the phone possibly....(call your local phone company)
I have never cheated or been cheated on,but some close family of mine has been cheated on...a few things to look for is if...
Your hubby or wife all of a sudden starts "fixing themself up" when they didnt care before...
or if they leave for work really really early and stay really really late...but yet it dont seem they paycheck evens out to what they say they are "working"....
making suspicious phone calls..or doing odd things such as leaving a cell out in their car when they normally bring it inside...or they delete the numbers off their caller id...or delete their text messages off their phone...maybe acting secretive,or being "jumpy"
What about odd "gifts" from "friends" such as animals,flowers,jewelry,etc...
Good luck sweety....and I hope you find out the truth...
2006-10-21 18:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not psychotic and are not having an affair yourself you can figure it out. One time I told my friend that my man was accusing me of cheating and I wasn't. My friend, who happens to be a guy. "If your lover is accusing you of cheating and your not, than they are." Meditate and pray to find the truth of any question you have, regarding any subject. Write down your suspicions and whatever makes you think your lover is cheating. Ask yourself are these veritable. If you can reach your inner voice Your senses will tell you. I have had many relationships with men throughout my single life of 40 plus years. Every time one of my lovers was cheating on me, in hind sight I knew it before the proof was blatantly obvious. That is why, I now listen to my inner dialog. Some people call it their angel, conscious or spirit guide,. I call it my inner dialog. You can call it what ever you want, it doesn't matter. It is a voice telling you "Hello, something is going on, stop, look and listen." Ask yourself the questions you want an answer to. Listen for the answers and verify the answers, by seeking proof. Let your inner self lead you to the truth. Good luck and God Bless and guide you.
2006-10-21 19:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by galichealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he goes out and doesn't tell you when he will be home. Comes home later than he use to from work. When he is on the phone leaves the room. Tells you something that you know isn't true. If you feel that he is cheating then watch his moves how he acts with you that is diffrent then before. If he feels that you know he will do anything for you not to know until he wonts out of your relationship. Unless you catch him with the other woman. I did and what a pack of lies I got. We are just friends nothing is going on. In the end I caught him in a lie. I asked a question that he wasn't expecting. I got a divorce. I will not be married to a man that cheats and lies about it. In the end you will be hurt more than he will ever be.
2006-10-21 18:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Diann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first sign is that you are suspicious.
What should you do? Confront them. Watch the body language and be wary of 'too quick' answers or quickly changing the subject. If you're lucky, you'll get an outright confession. (Trust me, knowing is a heck of a lot better than not knowing or being lied to.)
2006-10-21 21:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his email, cell phone records and surprise him when he is working late. If you find out that he is cheating, grab all the financial records, pension, life insurance, bank accounts, etc. and make copies.
If he does it once - he will do again. Did he do it to someone before you? A leopard doesn't change his spots.
If you suspect it - you probably know the answer. Start making copies.
2006-10-21 19:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by Purgatory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start with if you suspect it it probally is unless you don't really know the person, but the phone calls is adead give away,then the different sexual habits,followed by unexplained trips to the store for no reason or comes back with out anything they set out to get,gets angry when asked about their whereabouts,works alot of overtime and don't have ajob,could care less about what you are talking about. do you need more?
2006-10-22 03:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secretive nature. Odd phone calls she takes in the bedroom.
"working late" at the office, but the paycheck doesn;t reflect it
2006-10-21 18:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id assume they wouldnt be as interested in sex.....and would seem to be out more..I would ask..well Im always suspicious cause Im psyco...so I do ask..... Yeah I would ask...
2006-10-21 18:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they come home wearing hickies on the neck , that is a sure fire sign! hell yes , ya let em know that you are on to it!
2006-10-21 18:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if ur feeling like ur spouse is then they usally r
2006-10-21 18:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋