to want so bad but scared to take it when offered like help
ahelping hand or a hug or advice or just some one to cry on
2006-10-21 18:24:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will never ask for help i would rather live in a cardbored box
2006-10-21 20:28:59 · update #1
Oh my god,we are the same.I can need something and when someone offers(i don't ask)i still can't bring myself to except their offer.I guess it's normal for people like us or maybe we're just weird.
2006-10-22 12:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off is there a "normal"? Being afraid to ask for help is often something many people have trouble with. Not accepting the help when it's sincerely offered is an other thing. And yes this may be an issue if you need help for something serious.
2006-10-22 01:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by greenwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you cant accept help cause youre scared of getting hurt. I know that getting hurt is painful (i know that sounds dumb but bare with me here) but you shouldnt let that keep you from getting emotional fulfillment from your friends and family. They are all there for you, thats why they are your friends. And if worst comes to worst, dont worry about what other people think of you and dont do anything you dont want to. Im sure there is some reasoning behind why you cant accept any help from anyone, but know that not everyone is going to hurt you, some people will, and thats how you learn, grow and evolve... just try taking baby steps.
2006-10-22 01:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by babyber514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please help me ?
it will be a great help for me if you kindly check and correct this mail. its simple just copy ......check and paste .
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Dear Dr, Ali al Siraj
Thanks a lot for your warm and thoughtful mail.
We are also proud for Dr. Younus. He makes smile our total nation. But Saifur Rahaman told that he has a small contribution to change our nation. Personally, I am very much happy that he get noble prize.
Yes, it will be a very sad event for us. Still I cant think anything without my father.
He made me alone. He was my best friend. I don’t know what will I do in this eid.
He always told us ---------- “ when I will die ? is there any possibility that my kids visit me in my grave yard?
Now, it is my duty to prove that I am really love him and death failed to minimize my love for him.
How is my aunt? When she will come in INDIA?
How is my loving BUNTI and RIAD?
Did you get the mili aunts picture?
Thanks,
tina laila
sadatdhaka@yahoo.com
2006-10-22 01:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by golden_dream 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah its just pure and unbridled human fear, we all get it, and anyone who says they dont is full of crap. you just have to fight through it, make the decsion to do somthing differently, or else youll be stuck at the bottom of the barrle your whole life, adn no one wnats that.
2006-10-22 01:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More common than you think. What are you afraid of or who hurt you in the past?
2006-10-22 02:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not "normal". You should seek some professional help, so you don't waste your life with fear of rejection, commitment, and personal insecurity
It is NOT normal!
2006-10-22 01:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by PRIVATE P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand you but you sound exactly like my gf. She loves me, says it and shows it (sometimes) but it terrifies her. She is scared to be loved. I just don't get it. Please tell me if you have or get any further insight.
2006-10-22 01:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh cos ur scared that will betray ur trust
2006-10-22 01:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called fear. Fear of being hurt, fear of commitment, fear of rejection. Yes, it's normal, yes you can overcome it.
2006-10-22 01:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋