How can you stop fighting with your boyfriend..seems impossible!!?

Question

we always fight..I wanna talk..he doesnt..he doesnt see a problem..I wanna go out for dinner and stuff..he doesnt wanna..its annoying..we fight about EVERYTHING!!! The computer....money....how much we hate eachother..than love eachother 5 mins later...

Answer 1

Try growing up for a change.

Answer 2

Maybe if you give eachother a bit of space. Go out with your friends, he can go out with his. No jealousy, mistrust, just be yourselves, or give eachother time to be the people you both fell in love with?

If jealousy begins, mistrust and other ugly issues come up and it's just not going anywhere, why not give eachother a little break? three months, six months. maybe you two need time apart to stop giving eachother a hard time.

Your said you need to talk, he doesn't want to. You can't make anyone do anything they do not want to, and it seems you need someone to aknowledge your feelings, and there's nothing wrong with that. Try it out, see what happens, maybe you just need to call it a day, and if you're not sure, a trial might not be so final. Time apart always gives new perspective in things.

Answer 3

I would feel slighted and wronged. What would I do? If this was a repeated occurence, I would learn that there is no changing this situation and hence, would detach and stop being reactive in my emotional feelings. It would only cause duress and an unsettling feeling. I'd let it die.

Answer 4

ok i do not know how old you are but get out of that one asap. just tell him ~ lets go do something and if he dose not want to them call up some friends and go out with out him.

Answer 5

Change boyfriend!

Answer 6

FIND A NEW ONE