I need some ladys advice/P.O.V.?

Question

Got a first date with a girl tomorrow. We are both in the 18 yr old range. We have only talked a bit, never actually hung out or anything before. My question is to whether a first date is best just to take her out to eat, eat and a movie, or something else?

Answer 1

Take her out to eat, nothing really fancy, but better than McDonalds. Instead of a movie, go for a walk or do an activity that will allow you to talk and get to know one another. Mini-golf? It doesn't matter. The point is to learn things about each other. Good luck, and I hope you have fun.

Answer 2

Ok, you need some advice. When it comes to sex on the first date--which is what I believe you may be referring to as 'something else'--or actually something other than dinner and a movie, the whole point of going on a date is to get to know the other person. I would prefer if a guy took me out solely to get to know me first. ONLY after I've been on quite a few dates and have known him for quite some time would I even entertain the thought of becoming intimate with him. But even that depends on a connection between the two. If you don't feel a connection with her then it is probably best to just do this one date and only speak to each other afterwards.

Answer 3

Taking someone to a movie for a first date just seems like a waste of time, in which you could be talking, and getting to know eachother better. Maybe if time is not an issue, you can always go to the movie, and then talk about it afterwards with a nice cup of coffee, or some dessert.

You can always go to a nice park, chat, have a nice picnic (which is easy on your budget) just don't make it cheap. Find out what she likes, since you've been on the phone. A nice drive, a walk on the beach (if geography permits) sometimes even a nice evening out , out of the city, looking at the stars can make a night even more romantic than you can imagine!

Answer 4

For a first date.. I would keep it simple.. Try a coffee place first, a place that has other things to offer besides coffee incase neither of you drinks coffee. Order a drink and if things go well then ask her to dinner so you can talk more, a little bit of privacy at a dinner table is always good.. I would save the movies for another time because you can't really talk in a movie..Good Luck.. hope things work out

Answer 5

First date . . . Suggestions...out for a meal, dinner is fine but lunch is better as you don't have that potential temptation the evening sometimes brings about. Go take in an event of looking at an art gallery, a car show, cultural or seasonal event, museum, bookstore that's combined with a coffee shop so you can sit and enjoy conversation and a beverage, look at books of mutual interest, discuss them, be closer in each presence while looking through a book. I personally don't like the movie or concert idea because it being the first or second date...you can't talk during the event and isn't that what first dates are about...to discover mutual interests, watch their body language, can they comfortably engage in conversation with ease, respect and confidence, do they have trusted eye contact...things as this can't be discovered during a movie, play, concert, etc. And personally, I feel a man might not be as assured and confident of himself if he has chosen to 'hide' behind the 'cover' of a movie etc. Would'nt a man want to look at a woman, and not be looking at a movie screen, stage, etc. Yes, I know the thought goes...' But if we go to a movie then we have something to talk about after ' . . . save the movie for a later date . . . A woman of intellect and value is interested in a man who can engage in conversation on his own and of his own keen mind and not necessarily need a movie to spark his mind to have something to talk about. Overall, a shared meal and / or a coffee/beverage drink combined with a walk through a nearby bookstore, music store, or item of interest to look at is nice.

The first date is to sense the others potentially mutual ' energy ' compatability...so share in each others company where you can share in conversation and observe how they present themself. Relax as best you can...present your authentic self...and if you don't suit each other...it does'nt make that person 'wrong'...they're just not right for you. ~ ~ ~ P.S. How long ago did you ask her out ? Ideally...a man should be asking a woman out about a week, minimum 3 to 4 days before the hoped for date. Two reasons...One ))) It's respectful to the woman that youve given thought to this date and not to of assumed that she has no plans just one day away and Second ))) It gives you time to plan for a date of what you want to do, present the idea to her and she has time for plans of what to wear. Woman are of inner strength, empowered, intelligent, while still being nuturing, feminine, gentle and we do like time to decide what to wear and be relaxed in knowing what the plans are for a date. Enjoy your date.

Answer 6

id say take her out to eat,but no where fancy, but nothing to shabby(of coarse) but then u 2 get to know each other, but dont take her to a movie beacause u wont really have anytime to talk, unless ur like me andu talk and laugh during the mivie but about the movie, but thats only with my friend, i think it would be weird to go to the movies with some one u dont know alot bout, cause u dont know if ull iratate them during the movie or not.

Answer 7

Dinner and a movie. If the date don't go well at least you didn't starve and saw a nice flick.

Answer 8

Definitly take her to a movie... it's a more comfortable setting for a first date.
If you think you'll both be comfortable enough, then by all means, take her out to dinner, too.

Answer 9

well i take it you don't live by yourself? right well if you did you could make her dinner and then cuddle up on the couch afterwords. But a good dinner and a romantic movie will do also.

Answer 10

dinner is always a good start but you would not be able to talk if you went to a movie. try a long walk. you can talk and it's free.(always a bonus!)