I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 1 month allready.....and i feel that i can NOT be with out him....is it too soon to be in love with him? I really care about him and would do just about everything to be with him....i have NEVER felt like this for any other of my ex boyfriends....Then again I am only 16 yrs old...i don't know if i am too young to love a guy like this...i am confused...is it love????.......or might it be just an obsession..???
Need You Advice!!!
2006-10-21 18:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may not be in love just yet (if you're not it sounds like you could be very soon/easily). You don't want to rush the whole love thing. You also need to distinguish what is love and what is a huge crush. Teenagers in particular are extremely prone to confusing the two things. Teenage hormones can multiply a feeling many times. When teenagers are happy, everything is right. When something goes wrong, it can't ever be right again. You must remember that: Hormones are also driving your feelings for him. So don't be too hasty to assume it is love just yet. Give at some more time. You'll know when you love him. There will be no doubt in your mind and you wont even have to ask. Best of luck in the relationship!
2006-10-21 18:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i know what you mean. Im 15 and have had long relationships with my ex girl-friends and each time i have a Gf is when my grades at school go way down. So i would say it maybe just infatuation (thinking your in love). The only advice i can really give u is just focus in school and worry about relationships later.
2006-10-22 01:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by The duhm kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not an obsession, you're just a little unstable emotionally. lol... just kidding. You very well could be in love, adults say that you don't fall in love until you're an adult, and that what you're falling in right now is puppy love. Don't let them B.S. you, it's what you feel at the moment. It's probably lust, but it feels alot better thinking it's love don't it?
2006-10-22 01:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by bloodsanctum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,you're in love, and theres no such words as to soon to be in love.but its not yet a true love, its just hormone love, which will dissapear about 1year or so, after that, you only have your commitment to stay with this guy, if you choose to stand by him through good and bad times, thats true love..For now, just enjoy this feeling, it makes life beautiful,right?
2006-10-22 01:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by salmonbelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can that be Love? Of course it is. If you feel like blushing when you are with him and when you feel like you are safe with him then it's love. I even fell in Love with someone when i was 13 and we are still on a relationship.
2006-10-22 01:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Isay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love don't need any time limit.....time only makes it more deeper and strong .....if u care and do every thing for him then it means u already in love with him....age isn't a criteria for love......it is possible that u start loving someone only in one meeting....manoj5438@yahoo.com
2006-10-22 01:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by manoj k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he hot? Do you guys **** a lot? Might just be lust! Seems too soon for love...
2006-10-22 01:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are definatley not too young to be in love which i think u are in love with this guy
2006-10-22 01:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you are not in love. If you were you would know it.
2006-10-22 01:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! you are too young for all that! stay focused on school!
2006-10-22 01:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by bad dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋