Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

better or worse????

2006-10-21 17:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and was it by accident?
did u equat it to fate? like say for example u never intended this person to be the one. but one day, out of the blue.......etc.

2006-10-21 17:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is any1 still up out there?any1 bored?any1 need some 1 2 tlk 2?

2006-10-21 17:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Friends

Was Vince having trouble and was he searching for someone else?
Was Gary unhappy and did he step out first? What is the scoop about their first marriages?

2006-10-21 17:56:25 · 3 answers · asked by KATHERINE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been trying to get her to let me do her in the A**. she wont let me. when we do it doggystyle sometimes I wet my thumb and just mess around with it and she starts with these moans like she likes it but then tells me to stop after a little bit. I have also licked it while eating her out and that really gets her going but again tells me to stop (I know I am a freak). What the heck I can definitely tell that she likes it, but she wont let me finish and just try it out. I have never done a girl in the A** before but heard it is awesome. Ladies let me know if you let someone do this and if you were like my girl before and did you like it? what do i do to get her to let me try it? Guys have you done this before is it that good? I tell her some girls would be mad for wasting my freakyness....lol....and no I wont let her do this to me....i know someone will get smart and ask that so there is the answer

2006-10-21 17:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by The Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I am plannng to make a visit to a city soon and i wrote to this guy who lives there & known for 5 years. We used to date eachother on and off and didnt have a serious relationship. Both of us are single and free still and were keeping in touch constantly thru email. last i saw him was when he visited my city 2 years ago. he then said to visit him if i happen to be around and now that i am going to be in that city i mailed him and - he is silent?? I dont understand??

2006-10-21 17:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by sash30 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have seen many posts about what girls like. the say honesty all that stuff and that looks are not the most important it is personality and such. I an an average looking guy, I think I am a nice guy (almost to a doormat type nice), I will admit I am a geek ( like like video games, tech stuff, anime, ect) and I am a social recluse (Don't like large groups, I like quiet beaches home, dinners out ect). so how is it that it is darn near impossible to meet a girl, and when I do you get the line of "I don't want to ruin the friendship" that line is almost worse than a flat out rejection :P anyhow, just wanted some thoughts from the ladies on this. thanks

2006-10-21 17:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by daggermouth 3 in Singles & Dating

Need some advice. I'm into this girl, but she has a b/f who is my friend though we're not really really close friends. Anyway, I think his girl is throwing messages my way, but I'm not sure. We get along great, we have same tastes in music, things of interests, philosophy, just overall she's really easy to talk to. The girl and I didn't become friends until after she starting going out with my friend about 3 years ago. Within the past year though, we've chatted more and have gotten to know each other especially in the last several months. We tend to look at each other alot, and she always seem to stand really close to me intimately. We haven't hung out that much for her to be that comfortable around me. Overall she is pretty proper and reserve with people, but with me she's just really open. I think she is confused about her feelings as there are mix messages, but more positives than negatives. She's talkative, but gets really quiet when I talk about other girls.

2006-10-21 17:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Hav 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 17:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a long time now we love each other very much, and have really good days.. hes really sweet as i amn to him.. but theres these times... that i think that he doesnt care.. like he does really little thigns.. and i feel bad like he doesnt love me anymore.. i know he does deep down inside.. but anything he does thats a tiny bit fwrong i confront him and it always turns into.. well you do this sometiems blahblah blah.. well its always comparing.. but some thigns i know i wouldnt do.. i dont know i really dont think i have a right to be mad at him for these little things like.. just really really little going upstairs with my firned ( a girl) to get a guitar or something ..while im there and im downstairs ...just thinking oh god he hates me :\ if he cared hed be like come to.. i think he expected me to follow thouh i dont know i just dont think he realizes ... but i get upset anyways and it makes him upset.. i dont recall me doing things like that

2006-10-21 17:52:20 · 6 answers · asked by somethingcorporate<3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

name me some guys?

2006-10-21 17:52:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well we dated for 9 mons thn we broke up this feb. and as of now he is still going wit a girl since july. but i knw he still love me and wanna b with me cuz he already admitted to it. but see lik 2 or 3 wks go he told me we need to talk and i thought he meant to clear things up but he wanted to tell me bout his leavin to go to the army after he turn 18 in while.. well i told him no tht he wasnt and we kept talkin n we ended up kissin and othr things but b4 we did anything i ask him if he'd made up his mind bout us and he said yea and i ask him bout the othr grl .. he say ill take care of it. well i told some1 tht i thought i cud trust an thy rattd it out an thn i had 2 lie saying tht i had lyed bout us meeting so he wudnt get in trouble wel he calld n sai he wasnt mad but tht we cudnt b togethr til he 18 an tht nt 2get ahold of him til he text r call me cuz i wud get in trouble (cuz his family dnt lik me an think i lyer) (when i realy aint lying) n he wud 2. it ben 1wk n 3dy since tht.

2006-10-21 17:50:21 · 4 answers · asked by K C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 17:50:09 · 7 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I have been married to my wife for nearly a year. Sadly my mother-in-law has always been overbearing and trying to control our lives. I’m going into the military, and I don't want my wife to stay with her parents while I am away. Why? Well she has three brothers. They are 29, 25, and 23 they are all alcoholics, 2 out of 3 don’t have jobs, and one of them is a chronic alcoholic who is always wanting to fight, and always brings strange people over. Instead I want my wife to go stay with her 32 year old cousin for the two weeks until she can move into her own place we have for her. Well, my mother-in-law got in an argument with me today. She said you are already taking her half way around the world (we will be about four hours away). I got very angry at her after she said that. Her mother has always said things like, "you can never love her as much as me". She makes me feel like I need to compete with her for my wife. I don't believe either one of us loves her more.

2006-10-21 17:50:08 · 29 answers · asked by Nick P 2 in Family

girls seem to just hit on every one of my mates all the time, i never get it. i do realise that im not good looking, but i would have thought that by now a bit of luck would have come my way. people have said "be patient, she will come" but ive been waiting 21 years, and still have not had a gf, and had maybe 1 or 2 that have ever taken a liking to me more than friends (i was not attracted to these girls at all). i have a lot of guy friends, but on the girl front, seem to be running dry. girls say they like confidence, but every time i get rejected my confidence goes down, and therefore i get rejected even more it seems. i am 21, a virgin, never had a girlfriend, and i have no real explanation for it. i have been battling depression since early 2004 (when my father was diagnosed with cancer, then later passed away) and this just adds to it. i dont even feel like i have a real purpose anymore, and that its already the beginning of the end. how can i change the way i think?

2006-10-21 17:49:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do they need to contact each other? She is remarried w/one child. Does this mean he cant get over her?

2006-10-21 17:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by txsoccerluver 1 in Singles & Dating

i told her i like her. i asked her how she felt / feels, her reply was i dont know. i realy like her and i dont think she know that. Its hurts me a lot. pls any1, any advice

2006-10-21 17:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by CodeNameTube 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 and he is 47. He is hot but lives with his girlfriend and her son, doing the family thing.

Would it be wrong to interfere with his life like that or should I be selfish and go for it?

2006-10-21 17:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by tomboy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to leave because he did not want to get married in our freshmen year of college and thought we should have got married later in life. But he never bothered to tell me till 2yrs into the marriage. now he wants to get a seperation because he went from his mother's house to our own place but never got the chance to check out life on his own. he says maybe later in life we will be together again but he just wants to disappear from everyone even his family. Should i just let him go and not put up fight? he says he still loves me. i feel like 5yrs have gone to waste.

2006-10-21 17:48:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I meet this woman online we been talking for a few months, and she being asking me to come and meet her, she lives in another state? Dose that mean she want to get serious, or just have fun?

2006-10-21 17:48:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this amazing woman. It sounds corny, but she literally could be the woman of my dreams. The catch? She's married! Under normal circumstances, I'd run away fast, but we share so many common things, so many common ideals, that it's extremely difficult not thinking about her. She also sends out certain signals that tells me she's interested even though she's married (not happily, by the way). If she was single, I'd already know what to do, but I'm treading with the utmost caution because she is married and she's a coworker. What should I do?

2006-10-21 17:48:05 · 12 answers · asked by Butter Bean 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're in the same church an i see her every sunday. she
doesn't seem to like me much, and i say stupid things around her.
don't tell me to do anything that has to do with asakingg her friends, asking my friends, ask fo r her # or email. way too embarrased to

2006-10-21 17:45:44 · 8 answers · asked by Tim M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last Sunday I told this girl that I've been crazy over for the past 3 years how I felt. I told her how I think she is perfect, beautiful on the outside and absolutly amazing on the inside. I never thought I would ever have a chance with her because she could get any guy that she wanted, but I decided to go for it.

She told me that she didn't want a relationship in her senior year and that it wasn't because of me that she didn't, she said that its everyone. I don't feel like that's a lie, but I don't think it's a good enough answer.

I feel like this girl is the one. I feel like it doesn't matter where we go to college or who we meet, that if it's right, if it meant to be, then we make it work. I tolf her that and she really didn't say anything.

I've written out this long letter about how I feel. About how I think she's the one. How I think that every girl says that they will go to college and then meet the right guy and they never do. Telling her that she's looking at the

2006-10-21 17:44:13 · 26 answers · asked by radchad25 2 in Singles & Dating

well theres this boy that i like and i think he like me.well i only knew him for alittle while but we have a lot in common and hes really cute.well to start off he always say im cute and be touching on me.he ask me so many strange question like what would my mom say if i had a boy friend?he always staring at me and he told my bestfreind that he likes me (but not asked me out yet)!and he knows i like hime to. hes flirting got me confused.what should i do?and if i was to ask him out it would fell funny

2006-10-21 17:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by because of you 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 17:43:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this girl but im not sure if she likes me back.
she knows i like her.
her friends say she likes me and i should ask her out.
what should i do

2006-10-21 17:43:16 · 19 answers · asked by genegamer 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my guy had a really good time tonight (at a carnival, get yer mind outta the gutter) and a little while ago we were joking around and I threw a cookie at him and it beaned him in the forehead. I was immediately drenched in guilt and apologized profusely and he started to laugh but then he turned into a schmuck and now is not speaking to me. Should I kick him in the teeth? I just left the room.

2006-10-21 17:43:04 · 23 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i know every guy is different but if a girl was interested in you and you told her "i want to get to know you better and in time we can work something out" is that a good sign? and drives 30-40 minutes to come see you when your sick. what's your opinion guys? thanks

2006-10-21 17:42:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 17:42:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He says that he is not moving out that he just have 2 apartments and he pays all the bills for both.

2006-10-21 17:41:34 · 6 answers · asked by L@M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships