I dont know how she feels?

Question

i told her i like her. i asked her how she felt / feels, her reply was i dont know. i realy like her and i dont think she know that. Its hurts me a lot. pls any1, any advice

Answer 1

Dude, I feel so sorry for you. The same thing basically happened to me... It was really sad. Well, the chances are, sorry to tell you, she does not like you... It happened to me, but please do not get discouraged though... I know how it feels. I have experienced it before. If you want to know, read my story on the bottom.
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Ok. Here goes; It was right before the day of christmas break. I was in 7th grade. I liked this girl so much that I couldn't hold it in myself, and I decided to give her a love letter. So, I wrote it, and gave it to her the next day. She was like really blushing, and she said thank you. So, I assumed that she liked me too. (Since she told me that she liked me in 6th grade.) Then guess what happened... That day, everybody in school knew that I gave her the letter, and everybody was like, "do u like her??" and I was ignoring them. Anyways, I got back home, and I called her. I asked her if she looked at my letter. She said it was really sweet of you, and I was like, "YES!" Then, towards the end of Christamas break, I called her. She answered the phone in sort of a cold way. I noticed something was wrong... Then she says, "let me go find my brother," and her friend speaks to me and says, "Did you know that she has a boy friend?" And I was like "What?!?" And the friend was like, "Don't give her any gifts anymore. She has a boyfriend, and if you give her those things, she does not know what to do with them." And I was shocked, and that was it. My first love, out the window... I still like her... even if it was like two years ago... I can't forget her.

Well, good luck to you fellow friend. (Please do not end up like me... It's quite ugly...) BTW, I am freshman. And this happned in 7th grade. And do you know what relly sucks? The girl I liked was the hottest girl in our middle school...

Answer 2

Depending on the person I don't know could mean 2 things
1) she doesn't like you so just move on
2) she really doesn't know, which means if you insist a bit more she will say yes.

It's very important to think of the way she said this. Also next time you see her try see her bosy language. If she's trying to avoid looking at you but she doesn't seem particularly nervous just guilty, then just forget about it. Find someone else who can appreciate your courage to go tell her directly that you like her.

Answer 3

If she doesn't know, "you really like her," that's the first thing you need to change. I think talk really is cheap, and you need to show people how you feel, not just tell them.

Focus on her. Look at the world through her eyes, if you can. Do everything you can to make her feel special. When you make someone feel truely special, they can't help but love you for it. (although, there are many types of love)

Answer 4

Sometimes it can be real hard to be able to tell in a flash, what you FEEL for someone. This is because it takes really getting to know someone before you can say WHAT you feel. Give her a chance to get to know you.... it never really happens in a second, and even the ones that seem to; sooner or later they can fall apart for there were things that were not real to begin with.
Good luck with this; take your time and enjoy her company, and see that she enjoys her time spent in your company!

Answer 5

Better to move on. It sounds like she is saying that she is not interested at the moment but wants to keep the option open if a current relationship fails. Don'twait move on. If she really wants you she will come after you.

Answer 6

Love matches, so called, have illusion for their father and need for their mother.
Friedrich Nietzsche

Many are stubborn in pursuit of the path they have chosen, few in pursuit of the goal.
Friedrich Nietzsche

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche

Answer 7

Girls never know what they want or how they truely feel, they change that whenever they want to make it convenient for themselves. She's probably playing a game.

Answer 8

if you told her ow you feel and she doesn't want to move on with you then leave her *** alone she's probably using you.

Answer 9

do a love math. love+love=love love+?=keeptrying love+reject=forget it love+?+longtime= find another backup

Answer 10

Move on. There are other girls out there.