I am 29 and he is 47. He is hot but lives with his girlfriend and her son, doing the family thing.
Would it be wrong to interfere with his life like that or should I be selfish and go for it?
2006-10-21 17:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by tomboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it if you don't mind being a selfish, conniving little bit.ch and destroying a family.
2006-10-21 17:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright here is the real deal, let's say you do snag him away. What does that say about him? He would demonstrate a real lack of chararcter and integrity. Would you want a man who can't be faithful? Then, here is the worst part, when the next hot young woman comes along you'll be kicked to the curb because that's what he did before and what he'll do again. Leave that guy alone and find a single man. Should this 47 yearold guy become single down the road, then go for it.
2006-10-21 17:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ryno 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, karma sucks! I wouldn't what does go around will come around. If he could drop them, he can drop you too. It doesn't matter if they aren't happy either, that is no excuse. Believe me, if they are unhappy they will part ways. You should think more of yourself worth than to be just the sloppy second. Or the other woman. Interfering is a selfish idea too.
2006-10-21 17:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to be with a guy who could be "stolen" from his girlfriend in the first place? If you can steal him from her, someone other little chickie could steal him from you.
If someone's going to cheat once, chances are, he or she will do it again and again. That's the "divine justice" given to those who mess around with someone else's spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend. What goes around, comes around, and if YOU do it, it'll most definitely happen to you, too!
2006-10-21 18:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Donna L 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you can steal him from her, then I could steal him from you. Do you really want someone who can so easily be taken? Leave her man alone and find one of your own. And one more your own age.
2006-10-21 17:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should leave him alone. If and when the time comes that he is no longer with that woman then you can go for it.
2006-10-21 17:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself these questions .............
How would I FEEL if the roles were reversed? How many HEARTS and LIVES will I Shatter ? Especially the
little BOYS !!!!!!!!!!~!~~!~~! Are you going to be there to pick up the pieces? N O T
ones heart filled with despair may be to weak to ever repair.
Hope you do what you know to be true.
2006-10-22 20:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by luv2help 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Uh, oh....home-wrecker alert!!!!!
Unless of course he wants to go. Are you secretly dating him already? If not stay away. If so, well you will f**k it up for yourself too if you expose him. I guarantee he will hate you for that, and your name locally will be mud. If you really must have him, tell him so, don't force him away from her as YOU WILL LOSE.
Bye....
2006-10-21 17:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You already answer good the question.Leave him alone, in peace with his family.
2006-10-21 17:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG
Where did you get your morals?????
Why break up a family????
I can easily put it this way.....
IF HE CHEATS WITH YOU HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU.
If he is single. then go for it.. But messing with somone is in a relationship will not only hurt his current family unit, even if they are not married. But it will eventually come back to bite you in the butt.
2006-10-21 17:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋