Need some advice. I'm into this girl, but she has a b/f who is my friend though we're not really really close friends. Anyway, I think his girl is throwing messages my way, but I'm not sure. We get along great, we have same tastes in music, things of interests, philosophy, just overall she's really easy to talk to. The girl and I didn't become friends until after she starting going out with my friend about 3 years ago. Within the past year though, we've chatted more and have gotten to know each other especially in the last several months. We tend to look at each other alot, and she always seem to stand really close to me intimately. We haven't hung out that much for her to be that comfortable around me. Overall she is pretty proper and reserve with people, but with me she's just really open. I think she is confused about her feelings as there are mix messages, but more positives than negatives. She's talkative, but gets really quiet when I talk about other girls.
2006-10-21 17:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Hav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a bit more things..
my friend is my friend, but he does seem to take advantage of her and doesn't always treat her all that great...Also her and I have hung out several times by ourselves and it was nerve racking for me but great. I have to say that it was a nice time. We did everyting I suppose like we were a couple except for the physical aspects. Lately, whenever her, her b/f and I hang out, she's been directing her comments and questions more at me than at him when she didn't use to before.
Now the problem is that she will be done with school this december and her and her b/f will be moving. So I basically i only really have two months left. I have been thinking about just telling her how I feel about her...I dunno...there's been times when we are alone and she sits really close to me on the couch when there's all this space, but doesn't when her b/f is around. I keep my distance, but she kind of moves closer
2006-10-21 17:57:13 · update #1
yeah, I know, do live by the guy code, and wouldn't think of doing my friend like that. just don't know what to do. it's a no win situation..
2006-10-21 17:58:50 · update #2
well if you are asking if she likes you, maybe she does. girls dont always know what they want, but she sounds like she likes you. maybe you should talk to her more. since you and your friend arent close, it is ok.... its not like you are flirting with your best friends girl.
2006-10-21 17:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by snickelfritz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is the girlfriend of your friend then I would say that it is hands off if you are a decent friend. Sounds like she might like you, go with your instinct on this one, but stay away. There are a lot of other girls for you to be interested than to choose one that is already with your friend!
Just my two cents!
2006-10-21 17:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by wd2crv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She belongs to your freind.. dont even go down that road!!
2006-10-21 17:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST take it slow and remain a friend.AND when its clear tell her how you feel.
2006-10-21 17:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhh.....
2006-10-21 17:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋