I have been trying to get her to let me do her in the A**. she wont let me. when we do it doggystyle sometimes I wet my thumb and just mess around with it and she starts with these moans like she likes it but then tells me to stop after a little bit. I have also licked it while eating her out and that really gets her going but again tells me to stop (I know I am a freak). What the heck I can definitely tell that she likes it, but she wont let me finish and just try it out. I have never done a girl in the A** before but heard it is awesome. Ladies let me know if you let someone do this and if you were like my girl before and did you like it? what do i do to get her to let me try it? Guys have you done this before is it that good? I tell her some girls would be mad for wasting my freakyness....lol....and no I wont let her do this to me....i know someone will get smart and ask that so there is the answer
2006-10-21 17:55:11 · 14 answers · asked by The Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY BENT SLINK. I DO TELL HER I WANT TO, BUT SHE SAYS NO IT WILL HURT AND THATS NASTY. I KNOW ITS IN HER BUT SHE WONT LET IT OUT.....ALSO DID IT FEEL GOOD? WHAT DID YOU USE THE FIRST TIME
2006-10-21 18:04:21 · update #1
well for the longest time mine was exit only. and as for my man he is strickly exit only i cant even touch his cheeks without him freaking out lol. it takes awhile to get used to. if your going to do it for the first time dont do it doggy thats the worst way. the first time i did it was in the shower. he laid down and i straddled him. i controlled how fast and how much. also have her play with her clit while she glides it in. it will hurt but only for a lil bit and then the senstion is just mind blowing. maybe im just a freak to lol. while im on top of my man now he usually rubs me then puts his finger in my *** while we have sex. we use lots of toys now and still to this day some times it really hurts and we cant do it. also use a lot of lube and she has to want it and be totall comfortable with it. she has to relax her butt muscles and it wont hurt as much if any. the orgasms are undescribable. as for my hubby every chance he gets he wants my a $$. so try rubbing it right before she climaxes, she will relize the sensation but be in a position not to be able to stop you. next put your finger in her butt right before. i think after a few times of this she will be wanting to move to the next step. besides it cant be that bad if it seams like every one else is doing it.
2006-10-21 18:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're not kinky. It's perfectly healthy to want some backdoor action. Some women just don't go for it. There are more nerve endings "there" than anywhere else, and therefore the stimulation and the aforementioned moans and her reactions are not surprising. But she just doesn't want to give it up. If she's not ready for it, the experience can be VERY painful for her. It can be incredible for you, I can tell you that. Nothing like it, but bad for her. Searing pain, bleeding. All bad things. Not much you can do about it, but keep on your path, and perhaps as she enjoys it a little more on and on (your GENTLE stimulation), she'll "let you in". And no, licking it doesn't make you a freak. Men want to lick women head to toe. But when she says "stop", STOP. Respect her wishes, but don't write it off that it'll never happen.
She may not be up to it, you can only experiment. But have her try LITTLE toys back there while enjoying her "up front". Most women are surprised at the amount of stimulation that can come from that area and the sensations and "experience" it can bring about.
Sorry about the cryptic responses, but I don't want to be graphic or offend anyone.
2006-10-21 18:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Steve n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I don't really understand what the big deal is? I'm a girl, and I love it! I have to ask my man to do it because he doesn't like. How did we get into opposite situations? At first it is a little painful. But just go easy and don't expect to get all the way in the first time. It may take a few times before it feels pleasurable to her. Just talk it out, be gentle, be understanding, let her know you care. It's very normal and I'm sure she will love it after she does it, especially after you said how she enjoys what you do now. She's just nervous. Keep trying. Just don't forget to use a lubricant, or she will never let you do it again!! Good luck!
2006-10-21 18:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by lilqtpie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it out side the bedroom. Perhaps she thinks it will hurt or that she will have a bowel movement. Tell her to take an enema and that wont happen. Kinda gross if you ask me. Although that area is very sensitive and pleasurable I don't like anal sex.
Good Luck with it, I have a feeling you're going to need it!
Maybe get her really drunk first.(laugh)
2006-10-21 18:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by galbee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a freak your totally normal in the sack...(or maybe we are both freaks) just ask her if you can..tell her you love her and want to experience it with her..when I started goign out with my boyfriend I always thought he was judging me and how I loooked and stuff.....and I didnt even have sex with him let alone let him do me in the ***....now I let him do anything..including up the ***..haha./..but yeah...just let her know you care about her and stuff and that you wont think shes a freak for letting you...and take it REALLY slow...
2006-10-21 17:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trying TALKING to her about it. Maybe it hurts after a while. Just ask. Talk. Tell her that you would like to try it. Maybe offer up getting some "toys" in smaller sizes then you to work her up to it. She might be scared to do it... just talk to her.
oh and ps... its call anal sex not doing it in the a**....
2006-10-21 18:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by babyber514 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya I'd like to know too! Im in the same boat as you D_R
2006-10-21 17:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think she would like it? would u like something shoved up your AH?? just because SOME women enjoy it doesnt mean she will. SOME men enjoy it too, but would U???
and if you push her to do something she doesnt want to. you will hurt the relationship.
2006-10-21 18:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by JR 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude #1 rule to keep a girl/woman around u dont keep asking them to do something they dont like or feel uncomfortable with u freakin nut case. its rude. if she wants to do it she will u got to give it time and stop bugging her. if she dont and u cant live with out it leave her alone and find someone else to please u cuz im sure she will be appreciative if ud leave her the heck alone!
2006-10-21 18:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋