He says that he is not moving out that he just have 2 apartments and he pays all the bills for both.
2006-10-21 17:41:34 · 6 answers · asked by L@M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you should be. Sounds like he doesn't want to commit fully to you.
Did he always have this other apartment, or did he get it after he moved in with you?
2006-10-21 17:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by supermarine67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your live in boyfriend has another apartment, is he really your "live in" boyfriend or a frequent "sleep over" boyfriend? A relationship where two people live together is step up from dating. " Live ins have to always find a work out problems, there is no walking out the door and sleeping somewhere else.
So maybe the problem isn't that he has "another" apartment, maybe it's that you share seperate views on what the relationship actually is.
2006-10-22 00:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by alugo_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Giant red flag He has a thing going on in the other apartment he doesn't want you seeing i'd go over and find out what!
2006-10-22 01:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a RED FLAG! Do not ignore this. I don't know if he's moving out, but he certainly is not feeling the "long term" vibe if he feels the need to maintain a safety net like this.
2006-10-22 00:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried. Just do a surprise visit over their one day and see what is really going on.
2006-10-22 00:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is unfaithful - 0 apartment - he will still be unfaithful
but, if you choose to be with him - trust him, trust yourself, trust love
2006-10-22 00:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋