Her goes. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about six month and we're in a long-distance relationship. It's really difficult because I feel so strongly about him and I know he loves me too. Recently i feel like we're growing apart. I miss how things used to be but i dont feel like i miss him as much even though we dont get to see one another all the time. We dont talk as much and even when we do i get bored with him rambling about work and life. I dont feel like he pays enough attention to me either, but how can he when he's not with me. I get so emotional and cry when i think about our relationship and i dont know if its because i love him, im not happy with him or i dont want things the way they are. I love him soooo much but i dont know what i should do and cant explain how i feel
2006-10-21 18:28:37 · 6 answers · asked by lovesickprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes i feel like he may be cheating. I dunno why. He hasnt given me a reason and its not like i can or cant prove it. I can usually get a hold of him when i call at night and during the day. Am i just being insecure because he's busy and we dont talk as much? Im scared to lose him but he's basically told me that he doesnt want me to leave him for another guy due to the distance.
2006-10-21 19:09:50 · update #1
It''s a long distance relationship. Unless the two of you have a solid foundation, both parties need to keep the relationship going, it takes work. If it's not solid, try and find someone who you can see and spend time with.
2006-10-21 18:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First take some time and identify the things that aren't working. you already mentioned not being interested in what he talks about, but is there more? Do feel like you can trust him, is the lack of phisical contact an issue. These are all valid problems. After you identify the route of tyour unhapiness you need to be honest with your boyfirend, but also tell him that you love him and want to work on these things so you can both be happier. Also be aware of problems he may be haveing. If ou are willing to invest in solveing eachothers problems then it will work, if it seems like too much effort, or you dont see changes actually hapening, time to start moveing on.
2006-10-21 18:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Lady,i also have a long distance relationship with a boy,i met my boyfriends 2 years ago and we are friends from that day onwards,we cant manage to get some time to cchat to eachother due to our busy schedule but that no way alters the way we feel for each other,he says our love is strong and pure and no one can part us i truly believe him,i have not met him yet but love him and planning to marry him.
Have patience,things will happen the way you want,always think positive no matter what,thats what my bf tells me when i cry.
Dont give up,dont be sad,stay strong and keep loving your boyfriend,i think of my boy when iam missing him,i send him a text on his mobile telling him how much i love i him then i get a reply from him saying that he loves me too lol
2006-10-21 18:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try making a box, of all the thing that you love about him maybe his fav color , photos of both of you, then when you are not sure sit down and look at what you have and see if it is love.
2006-10-21 18:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by jlw78418 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to date someone closer to home.
2006-10-21 18:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by debi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing sure is that, you are not sure to yourself.
2006-10-21 18:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by king to bishop knight 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋