30 years old man and a 25 years old woman.they flirt but are not close friends.he has to spend a week in a different city and she has a friend that owns a hotel at that city so she tells him he has a free hotel room for him(alone) and he accepts it.the girl is in love with him and he knows it.if you were that man,would you accept the hotel room?i think that if he doen´t like her,he should not accept it because it would be taking advantage of her feelings and that if he accepts it,it means that he is attracted to her.what is your opinion?
2006-10-21 23:05:54 · 19 answers · asked by maria f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesn´t intend to go with him.she doesn´t pay for the room,it is just that her friends own that hotel and thought it would be nice to offer it to him and her friends agree with her.she likes him but doesn´t intend to buy him.she is a client and meets him at his work.
the man who´s been offered the room,had a colleague that met the girl before and was attracted to her,but when his friend went out for 2 months,he was too much nice to her and flirted with her knowing his friend also liked her.
2006-10-21 23:45:35 · update #1
I agree with you. If he accepts the offer, it is tantamount to responding. Unless he makes it very clear to her that he has no other intentions other than friendship. he should think twice before agreeing.
2006-10-21 23:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say respect the place that the girl's friend lend to her. And respect for the girl who owned the place. Whatever feelings these two people have for each other, even if it's just for sex, can't the guy just ask the girl to his place or other place that he could rent instead of the girl asking the guy to her place owned by her friend? In that way, even if it's just purely for sex, the guy will become a gentleman and maybe, the girl will really fall for him this time. Unless ofcourse the guy is taking advantage of the girl and the girl is simply playing dumb. Come on people, wake up...!!! c",)
2006-10-22 07:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by kernel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply i agree with you but if he is short of money then maybe this can be an exception.If I was short of money I would accept thank her and tell her oneday i will return the favor or buy her flowers as a thank you .PS:I would lock the hotel room door and pretend i was asleep.
2006-10-22 06:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by john h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why can't he be open with her and say it's great that she is offering him the room - as a friend - and can he stay there alone?
Or he could ask her if he can take his brother with him, as his bro will be in the city at the same time!
2006-10-22 06:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm it could just mean he's a using cheapskate with no morals...or he could be like most people and think owt for nowt.. depends if he really knows how you feel... have you actually spoke to him about how you feel and asked him how he feel's towards you... that would resolve your headache... why didnt you join him... god if a woman offered me a hotel for a week then i know what i'd do...and it wouldnt involve going out much.. ha.. but if you get another room then let me know.. would put it to better use.. so if things dont work out with him email me x x
2006-10-22 06:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take the hotel room and invite her to it for a good hard *S*hag for the week - and pocket the expenses money. I think this is what Yanks call a no brainer.
2006-10-22 06:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Evo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he accepts her proposal that doesn't mean anything. To be correct that can mean anything beginning from:
1. he likes her
2. he takes advantage of her.
3. he want her only for bad.
.... and the list can go on without end.
My advice is don't live with illusions, just follow the river and wait where it takes you both.
2006-10-22 06:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just take the room. and tell her she a nice friend for the offer
2006-10-22 06:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not taking advantage, i'd offer the same to help if i could, its not like he's asked her to join him in this room is it? i'd do the same for some one who isnt a close friend, its called helping someone out.
2006-10-22 06:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he knows how she feels then he should not take the room that would be encouraging her. he needs to be up front with her and tell her that he cant except the room for he cant return her feelings.
2006-10-22 06:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by angie_d_121074 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋