I was trying to date this girl, but I came on a little too strong or moved a little fast for her. The result was that I pushed her away, and she stopped wanting to talk to me. Although we did talk once in a while, there was a stange, akward aura in the air every time we did. Finally, I had had enough. I called her and apologized, and told her how bad I felt about ruining our relationship. I told her I had just really wanted to get to know her, and for her to get to know me, and she said she understood and that she felt okay about everything. Is there any way I can salvage this and build a reltionship with her?
2006-10-21 07:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Valhalla2128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to take things slow
2006-10-21 07:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she would be willing to start all over again. Then reintorduce yourself to her and ask her out. While on the date get to know her and let her get to know you. At the end of the date if there is a connection, then give her a goodnight kiss at the door and let that be it. Then call her within the next day or two, but no more than two.
2006-10-21 14:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend applying the emergency brake on this one. You need to stop and work on building a friendship and let the relationship work itself out. Once you have scared someone like that it is best to take things really slow and let them make the necessary steps to move the relationship further. That way they don't feel smothered or pressured.
2006-10-21 14:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Laura D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her just a few times a day,like say hi to her when you see her.You'll know when you start building a relationship when she starts talking a lot more to you and asking questions about your life and stuff.
2006-10-21 22:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by haloexecutioner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just be urself as much as u can. obviously she's into u, but trust me, that whole akward thing will go away. dont worry about. just take her to the movies, dinner, paintballing, whatever, just be urself and be happy :)
2006-10-21 14:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her that u didnt mean to come on strong and that u wold like to have a relationship with her
2006-10-21 14:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would suggest that you go buy a dozen roses, bring them to her house, and ask for her back.
2006-10-21 14:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋