if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was drunk dialing him. . . so maybe she will stop .
2006-10-21 06:58:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is the third post of this question that I have seen.
are you mentally ill?
2006-10-21 07:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Blue, She was more than likely dumped by him and she does not want you to know. And she still has the hots for him and is hurt on the inside but does not want to show it. A lot of young ladies including myself will not show the pain which we are going through in front of others,,,,,,,, we do that secretively. And if she can get him back then she will gladly accept and tell you that is has been real fun and that you have been a great friend and she wants to continue her relationship with her Ex. I am sorry Blue but you are a re-bound. Start seeing or dating others also and not just her. I am sorry and i do not mean to hurt your feelings i just want to be truthful but i think that you just might be her left-overs or 2nd skimmings. Look out for and be careful of your heart and who you trust it to. Good Luck Blue.
2006-10-21 14:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though she thinks about him when she is drinking! Try to keep her sober! She probably has some feeling left for him but that does not mean that she does not care for you. It is hard to know sometimes what is on another persons mind,Try to keep the lines of communication open with her! Tell her that you don't like feeling used and you want to know how she really feels!
2006-10-21 14:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her what she expects out of your relationship and if she wants you, she needs to stop contacting the ex. Exes are exes for reasons.
2006-10-21 14:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has been dumped u either sit back and see where your chips lie..or forget about her..he could also be leading her on..its best to be honest and ask her if you guys are going to continue.. she stops all contact..but ..truthfully ..u shouldnt even request this until a year of going out...Hold her and dry her tears..she is broken and needs your love... if u dont have patience ...get out now...
2006-10-21 14:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she still has feelings for him. But since she's still with you, she must also have feelings for you. If you still wonder, why not ask her what's up, find out once and for all. Good luck.
2006-10-21 14:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you would be to seek professional help. Therapy is probably needed as you are absolutely obsessed with this. You've posted it over and over again.
talk to a psychiatrist
2006-10-22 14:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by menahmenahmenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she got you on the rebound and that you need to find a new girlfriend.
2006-10-21 14:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move On.
2006-10-21 14:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it. Maybe she wasn't ready to get involved just yet.
2006-10-21 14:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋