one day my boyfriend got mad at me about something i did and walked out of the door. i shrugged it off and maybe five minutes after that i walked out to check the mail. i saw him standing in the parking lot talking to our female neighbor( whos about our age) in a conversation that seems to be about me. because they they did that thing where u stop talking when the object of your conversation comes into view. so i walk to the mailbox without saying anything to them, later i ask him if they were talking about me. hes says that they were talking and she happened to mention that her and her boyfriend had broken up and he moved out and he told her that it looked like we were headed down the same road. im right to be suspisous, right. when i accused him of wanting the neighbor he said that i was crazy. but lately i think over incidents where i would say something about her and it seems he would jump to defend her. when did they get all freindly?
2006-10-21 06:47:13 · 18 answers · asked by lslong36 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 5 months pregnate i know its not just the hormones talking, is it? i would hurt me so bad if he was cheating but it sounds like hes up to something
2006-10-21 06:49:42 · update #1
Ya it definitely sounds like a questionable situation. It's ok to check up on your significant other as long as you do not go over the top with it so I don't think that you are in the wrong at all. He seems to have a thing for the neighbor and it also seems like he is trying to either set it up where he could cheat or have someone to fall back on when yall break up. I would confront him about the entire situation honestly and remain calm the whole time. If he flips out and goes crazy about it, I would say that he has something to hide. If that's the case then I would say it's time to move on and find someone who's true to you.
2006-10-21 06:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is deff a tuffy! It happened to a frend once, u shud trust ut partner and u probly are being paranoid but if u reli think there is a problem and summin is going on u might have to chuck him. U can do better dan dat. U cud alwasy suggest a break then see what it is like after a bit of space, Things may go back to normal and dnt start getting over paranoind and start accusing him of things, it will make it worse. All the best xxxx
2006-10-21 06:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by lil_monket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're just paranoid. Rumors about being able to get pregnant from a hot tub aren't true. It's possible to get pregnant without having sex if you've been messing around and sperm comes in contact with your vagina. If this has never happened, then you're not pregnant. I'd ask your doctor about your irregular periods. Your symptoms may be caused by something else.
2016-05-22 07:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be scared of having a baby, and i think that you should talk it out with him. if he still says that he has no iterest in your neighbor than make up and if you feel like it , say your sorry for accusing him, but next time he wants to talk to the neighbor, be there with him. I wouldnt worry about it, especially if hes commited to having a relationship with you and your guys new baby. good luck and congrats.
2006-10-21 06:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Even 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely be suspicious of this. You shouldn't have gotten pregnant in the first place, especially since the two of you aren't married. These kinds of relationships generally don't have a happy ending.
2006-10-21 06:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like they were just sharing stories. Most of the time when you are pregnant you feel as if your partner has the wondering eye. Don't jump to conclusions until you actually have good reason to.
2006-10-21 06:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you wrote I think there's a good chance that you are wrong.
he was just having a conversation with her about relationships.
there's nothing I can see that says there's anyone except you!
the only reason he defends her is because you keep bringing her into the conversation!
2006-10-21 06:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He consider the situation to maybe be with the girl. If you fight more with him you speed up the process. He leave you or stay.
Get angry is the last solution to make peace and be friends.
Joulesy just ruin everything.
2006-10-21 06:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you start accusing and being jelious...you will self destrut the relationship....give him the benifet of the doubt right now.
2006-10-21 06:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it one day at a time and youll know the truth
2006-10-21 07:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋