these 2 girls ive been friends with for a few years wanna go out with me but i dont know who to choose.i dont wanna hurt them because they r best friends.what should i do?
2006-10-21 06:57:50 · 16 answers · asked by sprossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say neither. Why ruin your friendship with both girls, especially since their best friends. There will be no winner here. It will be a lose, lose situation. I think it's important to be friends first to build a foundation, however not with best friends. Enjoy there friendship and leave it at that. hope this helps. Good luck!
2006-10-21 07:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Greer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel! Tell both of them that you like them both, you would like to go out, but don't want to hurt any ones feelings. They may being thinking differently than you. Neither one of them may be interested. Both may really like you. One may like you allot, and the other thinks you are a nice friend. They may even want to "share" you (in a healthy/friendly way), you go out with one on week and then then other. They may both agree they like you, but would rather the three of you be friends and set you up with a string of their other friends.
Any way it happens they will like, respect, and trust you more for talking to them and being open and honest.
Good Luck, Have Fun, Be Safe!
2006-10-21 07:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by will.hunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about the one you feel a greater attraction to both physically and spiritually. Try thinking of the one you can't live without. Then explain to the other friend that you had to go with your heart. If you're lucky, maybe she'll understand.
2006-10-21 07:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by zgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say howdy tori, u r so lovable. I wanna carry out with you. Are you loose this weekend? If she says she have been given task grant help like: Cool. potential i'm invited on your place that may assist you out.
2016-10-02 12:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by huenke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a threesome!!!
lol no totally kidding
i think u need to find urself 2 new best friends cuz its not worth losing ur little three mustketeers thing
2006-10-21 07:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by fewchure/sex_ologist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just choose the one you like the most and the one you have the most chimestry with. that way you won't feel so bad cause if yo are gonna be with someone you need to be with the one that you have alot in comin with.
2006-10-21 07:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by samantha e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
2006-10-21 06:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take them both out. if all three are best friends, then act it
2006-10-21 07:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one who looks best
2006-10-21 07:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go wiht the one who is more interesting. a boring realtionship wont last
2006-10-21 07:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Night visions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋