Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

he startes drinking a pint of volka after he wakes up around 4 am. and does not stop until he passes out, then before 8pm when he comes to, he drinks some more. he can't do anything before he drinks, not even brush his teeth, go to the store let alone go to work (5 diff. jobs in less than 9 months). i am worried half to death and angry all at the same time. he won't get help. he blames me for all his problems all of them especially his drinking. sometimes i think he could be right. so now i'm depressed and he doesn't believe me. we have no kids thank God. he recents me because i will not make it easier for him to get drunk. he doesn't get violent and lately he cries everyday at least once a day. it's very sad to watch, he says he cries because i don't care about him. i already sent him to 3 diff. hospitals to get help but he signs himself out without dr. consent (he's 36), i took him to AA, he drank after the meetings then stopped going altogether. now i just feel depress

2006-10-18 04:08:18 · 24 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend of mine loves me. she told me how much she feels for me. i don't want to hurt her feelings but i love another. she is also a friend of mine. but she doesn't feel the same way.

H loves me who i don't love > but i love A who doesn't love me

2006-10-18 04:08:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I go on dates with guys and everything goes well, but I just haven't 'felt it', you know? Theres absolutely nothing wrong with these guys, they're great to tell you the truth, but there just isn't that spark there or a connection, or whatever you want to call it. So then I don't go back out on dates with them. So heres the question...I know that this is fairly normal, but when I meet my match, it'll be there, right? I mean the connection, the spark...I'll recognize it, won't I? In the last five years, I've only felt that with one person and I'm just kind of afraid that its a once-in-a-lifetime thing and that it won't happen as easily or as instantly as before.

Am I passing on these guys when I should really just give them another chance? I'm still going out and having fun and all...so don't worry about that...but is this really a one-time thing or am I worrying for no reason?

Thanks!!! ;)

2006-10-18 04:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why did you do it? Lust? Just unhappy in you relationship? Or just for the hell of it?

2006-10-18 04:07:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They are currently stationed at another base (Korea) and he calls her late in the morning (i.e. 230am) and she won't tell me but my freinds at the base see them all the time. I haven't accused her of anything. She told me along time ago they had an affair when she was previously married but she was not happy. She tells me she's happy now but it really bugs me knowing her past and they hang out.

2006-10-18 04:06:52 · 5 answers · asked by jamesfromwv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Thank you in advance for a french girl

2006-10-18 04:05:49 · 7 answers · asked by londres france 3 in Friends

I need help please. I recently split with my girlfriend 4 days ago after an up and down relationship. We have split up 4 times in 5 months so something tells me we won't work out. My ex-girlfriend is very emotional right now and I'm worried for her. She has 2 kids. She keeps saying stuff like "i cant do this without u" "im gone" and I can't help but worry that she'll do something stupid if you know what I mean.

She has asked us to try again loads of times but I can't do it no more so I'm being honest with her and saying it won't work but in time I'm willing to be friends if it's not too much to handle. We were friends before.

I have text certain members of her family who see her fairly often but I am so worried sick that she'll do something stupid.

Any advise please.

2006-10-18 04:04:51 · 19 answers · asked by ukman_2001_uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last year about this time, my husband suddenly began obsessing about his appearance (losing weight, new clothes). He started mentioning how the girls in his accounting group thought he looked good. He went to a concert with a "group" of co-workers, and I found out two of them were quite attractive. Then I went to a company gathering with him and this young gal (who went to that concert with him) was glued to his side. My husband completely forgot I was even there. I just got this gut yuck feeling. Would this make you suspicious?

2006-10-18 04:04:43 · 28 answers · asked by gentle understanding 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 04:04:32 · 32 answers · asked by SG 4 in Friends

Maybe Im looking in the wrong places or just live in the wrong town or something. I dont want to play 20 dates or anything like that. Im not out for a quick screw with someone i dont even know or hardly know. I want a steady relationship without all the games and hassles. In other words, Im not out to date just to date, Im actually looking for a relationship.

None of this wham bam thank you ma'am crap.

2006-10-18 04:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by average_everyday_normal_guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for almost three years and I'm not happy. Everyone can see how things aren't working out and how miserable I am, except for the wife who thinks everything is fine and dandy.
How do I break the news to her that I don't want to do this anymore? My family owns the house we live in, so I can't just get up and leave.

2006-10-18 04:02:33 · 18 answers · asked by curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 04:02:33 · 16 answers · asked by Nikhil F 1 in Weddings

I've been dating this guy for over a month now and he doesn't know that I'm a virgin. He's coming over to my place on Friday night and Im pretty sure he thinks he's going to get some. We like eachother alot, and its not like im planning on being a virgin until i get married. I just need to be sure that he's the right guy before I sleep with him. What should I do? How would he react?

2006-10-18 04:02:32 · 19 answers · asked by Zoy 2 in Singles & Dating

Joseph Diaz Lopez was raised in Healdsgurg, Ca. He lived in Santa Rosa, ca. with his second wife and 2 children. He died in Texas at age 30 supposedly on a business trip or possibly he was with his cousin and a drug deal went bad. I don't know any thing else. I was 9 when this happened. my grand parents have died and my mom will not talk to me about this.

2006-10-18 04:02:30 · 3 answers · asked by MYLBAKER 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would they're still humans.

2006-10-18 04:02:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Clothes wise, what look most impresses you from a lad on a night out of pub with a pub/club after.
Your not gonna see a bloke in a suit on those sort of nights but what look catches your eye.

2006-10-18 04:00:44 · 23 answers · asked by madnesscon 4 in Singles & Dating

My Relationship that I am currently in is suffering because of the hurt I had in the past..I no longer Trust anyone and I know I love this person very much but I have problems showing Love for the fear of getting hurt again...In my past I was cheated on Lied to and so much more. So How do I get past all that hurt?

2006-10-18 04:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by Payton71 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-18 04:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by techdogg_98 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The girl is 16 years old and we are at the same school. I speak with her in msn 1 hour per day but in school we have not something to say. She is smiling to me at school sometimes and i smile to her too. I ask her : what do u want to do a boy for u who love u? and she answear to me : He must tell me that he love if he love me. And i said : but if the girl said no ? she answear : Ask the girl to learn becauce if u don't something u will not learn if she loves u? We are sitting in the same desk at school for 2hours a week because we are at the same room for 2hours. Furthermore, we want to pass in the same subject in university (architect). Help me ... what i can do to show her that i (like)! her ? I love her but i want to learn first if she likes me ?

2006-10-18 04:00:16 · 12 answers · asked by ???? 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would you put single on MySpace when that person has a boyfriend and considers him as her "baby?" I don't think that is respecting the boyfriend...I've asked a few friends of mine and they say that its wrong and if they really care they would have changed the status to in a relationship. What do you guyz think? THANK YOU!

2006-10-18 03:59:48 · 21 answers · asked by rippedserb80 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I try to remove my name it says that it has already been removed but I continue to get e-mails from them,

2006-10-18 03:59:39 · 6 answers · asked by bluedove357 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband who's 34years old had to sleep over his moms house to take her to the airport early in the morning. They are close (most latin men are close to their moms-mamas boy) but i find it weird that he actually shares his moms king size bed with her to sleep. To them, its normal, his brother who's older also does when he stays over but to me its gross and weird. What do you think? I mentioned it to him but his response was "So, it's no big deal, you're the one making a big deal out of it" Thanks for your answer.

2006-10-18 03:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by LIVINGmylife 3 in Family

for those of you who answered my previous question, my boyfriend and I have decided that in 8 months, when our leases expire, we will move in together. I have lived with a bf before and it didnt work out too well. I was wondering, for all of you who have lived with a bf,gf, what are some ground rules that you would set to help from getting into any stupid arguments. You know, like "if you're going to be out longer than I thought, give me a call, so I dont worry." or "clean up the water on the floor after you take a shower so I dont slip and fall and crack my head open on the toilet" or "I wont yell at you for drinking out of the milk jug if you dont yell at me for my clothes all over the bathroom floor." You know, that kind of thing...any advice from your experience?

2006-10-18 03:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by katie-bug 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whey doesn't he understand that it is the little things in life that are important? He concentrates more on himself than others. He does not get intimate with those who are closet to him. Instead, he finds peace and solice within and with himself. He spends the vast majority of his time with his hobbies. He says that "this"; ie: married life is overwhelming. He doesn't like all the "things"; ie: responsiblities that come along with it. He says he only likes 10% of me. He doesn't like the little "quirks" about me. He doesn't understand that I want to be "romanced"; winned and dinned. Taken out. He's a "home-body". He thinks that house work are his ways of showing love to me?!!! I say, this is all part of life. Why can't he find beauty in me; my likes and interests...he doesn't seem to understand me---WHY?

2006-10-18 03:58:00 · 25 answers · asked by Summerbead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

from kindergarden all the way through 7th grade i had a crush on this boy from church and he had a crush on me, everybody knew it, and everybody would tease us about it. well i moved and changed churches and i didn't see him anymore. recently we have been talking online and he asked for my phone number and said we should hang out sometime and stuff like that, also we have never really done anything outside of church except like 7 times and they were mainly partys. i was wondering if you think he still likes me.

also it has been at least a year since i have even seen him
we are in 9th grade now

2006-10-18 03:57:54 · 22 answers · asked by JJS 1 in Singles & Dating

She thinks that she's a suicidal freak and she wants to kill herself bcuz her and her bf broke up!

2006-10-18 03:57:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the mother signed her legal rights away to DHR my boyfriend and I have had custody of the baby since she was three months old, she's now seven months old. She has been removed from my home because her daddy went to jail. Can he get legal custody of her while he's in jail and give me physical custody, or is it possible for me to adopt her?

2006-10-18 03:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by DeAnna B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

into canada. my nephew will be born and living in alabama. with my job in the military i can make it home once a year and i get worried that he may not knwo me that well, and may not want a relationship with his uncle. this worries me because his only father figure right now will be his grandpa because the daddy ran off. i want to be sure thet he know me and will remember me when i come home the first few years of his life. what can i do to ensure this? this bothers me more than you would think, and maybe mroe than it should. but i want him to have a great life and i want to help with that all that i can but it seems hard being so far away.

2006-10-18 03:57:24 · 5 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3 in Family

2006-10-18 03:56:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-18 03:55:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends