Maybe Im looking in the wrong places or just live in the wrong town or something. I dont want to play 20 dates or anything like that. Im not out for a quick screw with someone i dont even know or hardly know. I want a steady relationship without all the games and hassles. In other words, Im not out to date just to date, Im actually looking for a relationship.
None of this wham bam thank you ma'am crap.
2006-10-18 04:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by average_everyday_normal_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Amen, brother. I too am looking for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow and starting to wonder if it even exists. I can only tell you to be who you are and any girl who doesn't see that as good enough is her loss not yours. Loneliness is a state of mind. Stay busy with work, family and friends and eventually the right girl will come along. Don't focus on what you don't have, rather be grateful for what you do have. Health, a job, family that loves you, your talents, etc... I know it sounds sappy, but it works.
I recently got a brand new car. I was so grateful for the choices I have made in my life that have allowed that to happen...college education, good job, taking care of finances, etc...
I am an awesome vet tech. I am an awesome friend. I am an awesome mom to 3 great boys. I will always be SO grateful for those things that the depressing things such as a pain ex-husband who doesn't pay child support, a landlord who doesn't care, etc...don't seem so bad.
Be happy and take care of your emotions and everything will work out. GL
2006-10-18 05:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dating is all about finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life about- also about trying new things and different people. You cant find your soul mate in day- trust me, it dont work that way. It takes years of dating, and even after those years- you can still doubt yourself if this one ...really is the one, and then when you commit, its scarey, is this really the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, Can I live with their annoying habbits everyday- where do I see this going...for some people its just easier to date and their scared of commitment. I should know after 4 years- even im doubting my relationship. In other words, everyone is scared of commitment. Just keep looking I know youll find her someday!
2006-10-18 11:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur obviously young as hell. once u get that steady relationship u've been pining for, u'll be begging to get out after 6 mths or so-TRUST ME. oh and never get married, women really do change after marriage and especially after having kids. Do me a favor ask any man, hey do u like being married? was having kids worth it? the answer u'll get back is no and hell no. But i guess u have to experience it u'rself. Check out this site- this guy is brutal, but right on point. Good luck.
2006-10-18 11:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by broctune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the growing media influence is getting more and more people to date and not commit, if you want to find someone for a relationship right away, its going to be a very long struggle.
i suggest dating multiple people without getting sexual, and see which one you like the most, and pursue that.
or you could do the same with just one at a time, but the multiple strategy is a lot faster, more stressful, but faster.
2006-10-18 11:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by christophlarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody wants a serious relationship because they've become practically obsolete. With little or no necessity for marriage and children, people have the freedom to do anything (er, anyone) they want. For people like you, that's unlucky. For people like me, who believe in FwB relationships and women's near-total independence from men, it's cause for a celebration of singlehood.
2006-10-18 12:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are right you do need to look in all the right places. Sometimes you just to get to know a single person and if you like her take it slow.
2006-10-18 11:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude alot of girls arent ready to settle down yet they still have a life to live and we just wanna have a fun awesome life
2006-10-18 11:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by cutest_chick_of_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if they like you they'll hang around just keep an eye open.
2006-10-18 11:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya,than uluk that ype of gurl,of ur taste n type.....if u r a nightclub gooer or in a pub,u cant find any1 intrested in having a long term relationship.............just know urself ,watz ur type n dont jump to the conclusions sooooon........................
2006-10-18 11:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there is someone for you out there.
2006-10-18 11:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋