Family & Relationships - 18 October 2006

He has been cheating lately andwhen i ask him why he says he is afraid of commitment somebody please help me out

2006-10-18 03:55:15 · 15 answers · asked by onzaiy 1 in Singles & Dating

so the last night I was online and my crush (also my best friend) told me he was hanging out with this girl. I called him latter and he asked me what was wrong I said I didn't know...but I'm still sad! Should I just stop my realtionship w/ him altogether or is it better to still be his friend...it just hurts so much! :(

2006-10-18 03:55:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go to these business meeting every week.and this guy alway look at me,he try to form many conversation but he get nerves.

2006-10-18 03:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We call other women sl*ts because they are sleeping with two men at once and yet some of us have done even worse. WE call men perverts because they prefer big breasted women instead of women with average ones. How can we sit and judge each other and not feel the slightest bit guilty for saying some of the ugly things we do? I can honestly say I've been guilty many times over...but am I sorry??? NOPE...LOL. How about you???

I'm feeling a little philosophical today.....and I'm sure I'm going to get some slams for this question. The mind is just wandering I suppose......

2006-10-18 03:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

I dated this boy who was my first real love...we dated for a year but spent everyday together. I left all my friends for him. We fought a lot but regardless I loved him more each day. We were craZY IN LOVE. It got to a point where I needed to end it because we were crazy and we decided down the road we would be together agian. I continued to see him while i was seeing a new guy and 3 months after breaking up i started dating my new man because i couldn't stand being single. it has been a year now that i am with my new man, but have never stopped loving my ex, and we both talk about how we still love each other and wanna be together. He just came back from boot camp and will be leaving for the army in 9 days but wants me to be his girl. I don't know if I am wasting my boyfriends time, because I can not imagine being with him forever. Because I know I will never get over my ex. I need advice because I don't wannna hurt anyone...I am always pleasing everyone but my self and I need help!!!

2006-10-18 03:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by lovergirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm an student studying abroad and I'm living with several girls from a different country. It's been over a month that I've lived with them and we've had so many conflicts. They expect to share everything and do everything together. They are constantly trying to control what I eat, how much I study, and where I go. The worst part of this experience is that everytime I tell them I don't want to go somewhere, do something they want to do, or eat what they want me to eat, they say things like you're a bad friend, and if I defend myself they tell me to shut up. I don't deserve this and I can't seem to get through to them. Moving is not an option, and I'm stuck here for another 11 months. I don't like people who try to manipulate me and if they can't respect my right to choose things for myself, then they are not really my friends. I've tried to talk to them and work on a compromise with them but no luck. I'm trying to make the best of the situation. Any suggestions?

2006-10-18 03:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Secrets are best for one... 2 in Friends

the way i got him was ok i bit unsafe, i went on wap on my mobile phone and was on the chat rooms chatting he is 26 and I'm 18. he is really sweet we started speaking on the 30th of august and on the 3rd of September he said there is no point to this unless we met up. i was really scared i live on the isle of wight and he lives in London. and i really wanted a guy i didn't tell my parents until i was on the boat going over to Southampton, i was so scared on the train up there as i stood out side the train station waiting for him to meet me, then this guy came round the corner looked abit familiar so i said hello slowly then he goes tracey me and him were completely scared but we knew we liked each other before we had seen each other, we spoke first of all it was just a matter of trust that he was the person he said he was. my family said i was really fragile because i have never had a boyfriend before and never took a train and never been to london either but then that night i was to scared to come home on my own on the train so he drove me all the way down to southampton, then we both decided that he would get on the boat to and drive me to my house i had upset my family alot but i wanted to take him home to show them that he was safe to be around and he came down every weekend ever since and now im moving in with him so really you can find true love on chat rooms and i am that proof,

2006-10-18 03:53:12 · 45 answers · asked by tracey a 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been with my bf for about a year. We work together different area but the same building, anyway yesterday I cooked for us and I brought lunch for him and my self, so he eat, and it was time for him to go home it was around 2pm and I was kind of hungry so I said I will take my lunch know and he said ok I am leaving and I ASK HIM to stay with me while I eat my lunch he didn’t was to stay he said I am going I don’t feel like staying, and I said I just want to u to stay for like 30min that is all, but he didn’t want to stay and I got so mad and I said what is the big dell it is not like he have to rush to get somewhere he was just going home and sleep, and he said if it not a big dell why are u having acting like that and I got mad I didn’t even say bye or whatever I just left and I didn’t call him last night he didn’t even bather to call me back even this morning he didn’t call. He always does that whatever I ask him he doesn’t do it right away he thinks I am making him do it, and whatever happen when we get mad at each other I end up apologizing for **** that I really didn’t do. But this time I am just going to ignore him. What d u guys think???

2006-10-18 03:52:44 · 24 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 03:52:43 · 4 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-18 03:51:32 · 18 answers · asked by mercy j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been officially dating my boyfriend for 3 months now. About 2 weeks ago he "slipped" and said "I love you", I said nothing and let it slide. I know that I love him and I want to tell him, but I don't want to scare him. I've been engaged before and thought I knew what love was, it was nothing compared to this time around. He's my perfect match. Help!!!

2006-10-18 03:51:06 · 22 answers · asked by megha717 2 in Singles & Dating

We met a week or so ago when a little drunk, swapped mobile numbers and have emailed a couple of times - but we're meeting tonight for a first proper date. I've recently come out of a long relationship (about 3 months ago) and haven't dated for 3 years now, so I'm a bit out of the game! Any suggestions for do's and dont's??

2006-10-18 03:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Andy R 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for a while and have done great things together - proper loved up...... but since an argument coz of me we broke up three weeks ago... the first week i left it till the 4th day before i called him txt him said im sorry begged him... even went to visit him... but no he says i changed everything by arguing all the time.... Now it has been two weeks and we haven’t spoken he hasn’t txt or called nor have i... should i call him or still wait??? please help!!!

2006-10-18 03:50:06 · 14 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

A bloke I know and really get along with (you know, the same sense of humour, similar personalities) has asked me out. He's a top bloke in everyway and I really want to say yes. But my best friend has had a major thing for him for nearly 5 years now and though she hasn't really done anything about it, we all know isn't too keen on the idea of anyone of her friends liking him in the same way she does. I just don't know what to do. Should I risk losing my friendship to spend more time with this amazing bloke or should I just be happy with knowing that he likes me and making puppy eyes at him across a bar but keep my best friend?

2006-10-18 03:49:40 · 29 answers · asked by claire c 2 in Singles & Dating

what is the first physical attribute you notice on a girl below her neck?

2006-10-18 03:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Are you willing to give up the goods? Well let's hear about it. Only if you are willing to tell. This is adult conversation only!!!!!! Children need not apply. :)

2006-10-18 03:49:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are planning a small wedding and if we do decide to have any bridesmaids/groomsmen, we'll go for 3 couples. But is it really necessary to have any?

2006-10-18 03:49:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

well my friend Belle likes this guy Colton, she thinks that he likes her too.I don't know if he does and no he didn't ask me out, but I'm going on here to see if someone could help her,but she don't know that I did this, so anyway he is always hanging around her, playing with her hair,and doing all this stuff that makes both of us think that he likes her as more than a friend. The only problem is that he has a gf, and his girlfriend is Belle's best friend.She thinks when him and Kate(gf) break up that he might ask Belle out and she doesn't want to say yes because she thinks that might make her a s1ut. So I guess my question would be is, if your "crush" breaks up with his gf then asks you out, would that make you a s1ut?(Let me remind you that his gf is her bf)

2006-10-18 03:48:53 · 7 answers · asked by pagie22346578 2 in Singles & Dating

He lies about stupid things 2 keep form hurting me. But he does them in the first place. He says he loves my company and wants to b around me but he NEVER touches me. He says I'm beautiful. But the way I know he talks to other people makes me think that he believes everyone is more attractive than me. Am I just ugly, or what's his game and y is he playing it? Y bother to lie. If he doesn't want me, y won't he say that? We're not sleeping together, so y is it so important that he keep me around? What am I missing?

2006-10-18 03:48:46 · 7 answers · asked by sadlyconfused 1 in Singles & Dating

what are some people opioins on interracial dating and why is your opioin on this subject im doing a project on this and im for it because im a black female and i would love to date outside my race and i have its just that they need to be somewhere in my age range.

2006-10-18 03:48:32 · 15 answers · asked by shawty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's asked me what I'm doing at the weekend (just worked for him a week) and now he's commented on my perfume! He seems really nice and not a lot older than me. He hasn't actually come out with asking me out, so is he testing the water or what?

2006-10-18 03:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Singles & Dating

Most girls that I know don't mind going out with guys that are proposing love to them while they do have boyfriends. They accept other men's invitations while knowing their intentions. I would consider this cheating because they wouldn't dare tell their boyfrends about this.

2006-10-18 03:47:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-18 03:47:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend of 7 years is an alcoholic. he has recently cut down on his drinking. he has lied to me SEVERAL times and i dont know if he can be trusted. hes lied about the smallest things to saying hes not had a beer, when infact, he had. A.A. is out of the question. he refuses to attend. should i just cut my loses or hang in there?

2006-10-18 03:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by leslie 1 in Family

My soon to be ex husband is an abusive, liar, cheater and negligent man. I filed for divorce on April 14 so he deicded to get back with an old girlfriend of his so I ask my lawyer if it matters that he is dating someone else he says no and that it is ok if I would want to do the same so I chose to. In July and then my ex finds out and begins sending threatening messages to my boyfriend saying he wants to beat the living stuff out of him. Remember he is doing the same thing also, however I don't bother his girlfriend. He was overseas when this was happening so I informed his LTC and he told my ex that he faces jail time should we press charges. Now what I am wondering is it possible for me to draw up a contract of what i want out of the divorce and set up a visitation schedule for him to see our son that he could either agree to or face the jail time? He has caused so much pain in our lives I just don't want him to think that he is going to get away with doing things everytime he does

2006-10-18 03:47:27 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've read here before that men connect to their wives and girlfriends through sex. Well, what connection is made when a man sleeps with another woman other than his wife. I mean, if he's getting connected with this other woman, does it mean he no longer loves his wife? Doesn't it mean he doesn't want to be married to her anymore? Can cheating be forgiven? Twice?

2006-10-18 03:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by vitamin D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am Canadian and he is American we met while I was living in Atlanta. I knew and so did he instantly that I we really liked each other. Circumstances which were beyond my control forced me to move back to Toronto Canada due to the complex and strict changes to immigration and visas. I was very hurt and angry and left without explaning the whole situation, cause I thought it was too much of a burden to put on him. I have since contacted him and we now keep in touch thorough email and phone conversations. He tells me how he tried to find me, his friends and family loved me and always asked where I was. We have talked about marriage and children.

I know that I do not want to make the U.S. my permanent residence. I would like to manintain a residence in canada as well so that we can enjoy the best of both worlds. 6 mths the the length of time the U.S. allows Canadians to enter without any visas but cannot work. I am currently obtaining my real estate license. Can this be done?

2006-10-18 03:46:57 · 11 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

How bad was it?? Did it cause a break up??? Or was it fix by working it out????

With my husband and I, we try to work out everything in our marriage. We have never had a fight. It just has not got that far.

***Another "Chillin @ Work" question from SJ*** :)

2006-10-18 03:46:45 · 27 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How should I break it to him? Now I don't know what to do.

2006-10-18 03:45:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think i am right now. its hard to say if its "real" or not, but i feels like whenever i see him my heart flutters. its the greatest feeling in the world, but at the same time it stings.well, he does hang around other girls, especially this one i really dislike. but still, he's my best friend. how does love feel to you?

2006-10-18 03:45:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating