How bad was it?? Did it cause a break up??? Or was it fix by working it out????
With my husband and I, we try to work out everything in our marriage. We have never had a fight. It just has not got that far.
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2006-10-18 03:46:45 · 27 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was pregnant with his child he told me that the only reason I got pregnant was to trap him. I started crying and he walked away so coldly. I will never forget that. We are together 18 years now and have 2 beautiful girls. I have forgiven him, but I will never forget the pain I felt.
2006-10-18 03:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married 15 years. We rarely actually fight. Our idea of a good argument is sitting on the couch and having a discussion about it.
And as long as he agrees with me...it's all good! Just kidding!
Anyways, I would say the worst thing he has ever done is happening right now. He is very distant and we rarely, if ever, talk about anything serious. I try to start a conversation and I get a three word answer and he is back at the TV or the computer. Makes me very sad and I don't like it.
This is not how I pictured 15 years. It has been great for the most part I just feel like we don't talk anymore. Almost like he is just my best friend and just too comfortable! But I am not sure how to change it.
2006-10-18 03:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I got pregnant he wanted me to have an abortion, or else give the baby up for adoption, and all the while he was doing this he was hanging around his ex girlfirend that hes been infactuated with for years even though he knows how many problems she caused in our relationship previously.(though they were just friends he swears---even though I KNOW had she wanted him hed have screwed her in a second if he wasnt already)
That was the worst thing ever...I dont think ive really gotten over it to this day. But I try not to dwell on it.
2006-10-18 05:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband always fixed my car, I never had to take it in for anything. I told him my brakes were going and asked him to look at them...he didn't, I asked, he didn't. FInally I made him drive with me so he could hear it, he said he'd take a look, then he did and said my brakes were "fine" The next day I had my 6 year old in the car with me, heard something snap, and had no brakes. I was so upset and I called him. He said "F-you...walk"...that was the very last straw and I left.
2006-10-18 04:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am ending a 20-year marriage because of 1) chronic infidelity, 2) chronic marijuana use, 3) use of marijuana around the children, 4) use of marijuana with one of the children, and 4) something much worse than any of the previously mentioned transgressions.
2006-10-18 03:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He asked me to walk him like a dog and spank him. He was into that weird stuff I wasn't. I thought his behavior was very sick so the last straw was when he wanted to take me down to a festival in Key West. He brought up the fact again that I could walk him like a dog again in public. I was so humiliated and felt sick to my stomach. I told him the truth that he needed serious help but he refused to get therapy. So after a year and a half of marriage it was over. Then after we got divorced he wanted me back but was still not willing to change. I had moved on with my life and had no desire to want him back. We're still friends tho but it will never be the same. I'm now engaged to be married to a "normal" man with no weird fetishes. We're getting married in November of 2008 after I graduate college.
2006-10-18 03:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband had sex with someone who was not me. I was hurt oh so hurt and very angry. It took me awhile to work through what i was so i could work on our life and see if it was going to be worth getting over the pain. It was, we have almort 18 years in and 3 kids, it worked out for me in the end.
2006-10-18 03:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by picture 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I am no longer married, but my ex did some very serious damage to our relationship, which eventually caused me to leave after 18 years. He cheated constantly and was never sorry until I left. He lied about money that he had squirreled away for himself. He emotionally abused me and our children, making us feel worthless to him. Now, he has no one - no wife, no girlfriends and our daughters hate him!
2006-10-18 03:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she conviently forgot to tell me that her parents were going to be coming into town when we had already made plans to spend the weekend in the in the mountains and had already had reservations.
We still had a great weekend, and like you, we never have had a knock down/drag out. We're a great match!
2006-10-18 04:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex girlfriend broke up with me and told everyone that I was a psycho, I was stalking her, I wanted to kill her, and I had a disease. I didn't know what I had done to deserve that kind of treatment. We were in highschool at the time so I was pissed that she told the entire student body her viscious lies. Killing her wasn't a bad idea though.
2006-10-18 03:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋