He's asked me what I'm doing at the weekend (just worked for him a week) and now he's commented on my perfume! He seems really nice and not a lot older than me. He hasn't actually come out with asking me out, so is he testing the water or what?
2006-10-18 03:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is trying you,but if he is married,just brush him off politely.
2006-10-18 03:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Take control of the situation. If it goes pear shaped you'll have to quit your job. If you start something after only knowing hima week he's going to think you're easy. If he's really interested you playing it cool will make him hotter and show whether he's in it for the long term. Drag it out. At least until you have an idea how it;s going to pan out.
2006-10-18 03:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Business and pleasure do not mix... Don't even think about it.
He is probably attached and is looking for a little fun....
Tell him to behave , and do not encourage him.. this can lead to trouble and a very uncomfortable situation in the office.
This is not a professional attitude... This tells me he doesn't respect you or his position.
Don't wear any perfume and keep your head down........ Trouble is brewing.... if you let it happen...
2006-10-18 03:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is it when a man pays a compliment and is nice to a women , then you all automatically think we want something ?
Maybe he is just a nice man?
Good god , how big headed are you ?
Get over yourself and for once accept the fact the men can be nice without want you .
2006-10-18 04:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by DARES 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't get involved with you boss. If it doesn't work you will be the one to suffer because you may not enjoy your work and be forced to leave. Bosses are usually the once who keep their job.
2006-10-18 04:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like his just making chit chat and trying to be nice, either that or Ive been out of the dating scene way to long!!
2006-10-18 03:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by janetlouise24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be naive. Steer clear. Be friendly, but it could cost you your job or make your life miserable if you go any further
2006-10-18 03:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe you should know,use your feminine instincts,what does a man want?you've worked their a week,add it up!good luck!
2006-10-18 03:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by jose_valle76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the brush-off. sounds like he's after just one thing. he's a creep.
2006-10-18 03:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by david429835 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's married then you should know better, if not go for it
2006-10-18 03:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by timone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋