I've read here before that men connect to their wives and girlfriends through sex. Well, what connection is made when a man sleeps with another woman other than his wife. I mean, if he's getting connected with this other woman, does it mean he no longer loves his wife? Doesn't it mean he doesn't want to be married to her anymore? Can cheating be forgiven? Twice?
2006-10-18 03:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by vitamin D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont think cheating should be forgiven once let alone twice! Leave him you deserve sooo much better.
2006-10-18 03:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You "connect" with your spouse through communication and concession. The only way you "connect" during sex is the penis enters the pudendum. If you base your entire relationship upon sex and sex alone then it's doomed to fail.
You don't have to be compatible to f*ck. Just have an erection and like what you see as well as stimulated. So you see. Men don't need to "connect" to get laid. They just are not very discriminating at times. Doesn't mean he doesn't want to be married. because who'd wash his clothes, cook dinner and have sex with him if he's horny and the pig he had been banging wasn't available?
Now...can infidelity be forgiven. Yeah...maybe once unless she was with 7 or 8 guys all at once. Second time...naw. Out the door he/she goes with the rest of the household trash.
2006-10-18 11:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating once could be forgiven, but twice? Nope time to cut your losses and move on. Regardless of connection a man who is sleeping around is disrespecting his wife the other woman and himself
2006-10-18 10:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can cheating be forgiven?
Once - yes.
Twice - no.
Men don't necessarily always "connect" through sex - sometimes it's just sex. But you deserve better than someone who's going to sleep around on you.
2006-10-18 11:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my husband cheated on me once maybe I'd forgive him but I surely wouldn't forget it . if he did it again I'd beat him with a rolling pin in one hand and a frying pan in the other
2006-10-18 10:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by wildone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is disrespectful behavior, condoning it only makes it easier for the partner to do it again and again.
ask yourself if this is the kind of life you want?
2006-10-18 10:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-18 11:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nononononononono
2006-10-18 10:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋