He lies about stupid things 2 keep form hurting me. But he does them in the first place. He says he loves my company and wants to b around me but he NEVER touches me. He says I'm beautiful. But the way I know he talks to other people makes me think that he believes everyone is more attractive than me. Am I just ugly, or what's his game and y is he playing it? Y bother to lie. If he doesn't want me, y won't he say that? We're not sleeping together, so y is it so important that he keep me around? What am I missing?
2006-10-18 03:48:46 · 7 answers · asked by sadlyconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He treats me very well as far as being considerate. He genuinely seems to care about how my day went and if I look sad. He does alot of things for me. He takes me to movies and buys alot of things for me and my son, but he's just not all there...He doesn't touch me AT ALL. NEVER. Not in passing, not a hand holding. He'll hug me or kiss me if I initiate it. And that's it. What's up?
2006-10-18 04:00:17 · update #1
Don't listen to his words. You can tell if he loves you by his actions. If he makes you feel good, then thats a good sign. Even if you're not sleeping together, he can still touch you with affection. If he's willing to take a risk for you, or willing to be vulnerable with you then thats a good sign.
By the sounds of it, he doesn't appreciate you enough. You're worth more than that, you're time is worth more than that. You deserve to be loved and love in return.
Do you feel unhappy after you've spent time with him? Does this happen all the time? Then leave him.
2006-10-18 03:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by littleponypony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely someone out there who would treat you like a queen, it just doesn't sound like you will ever get that from him. It takes more then saying those things for me to believe them. My motto is "show me." You can say anything you want to me, but I only believe what I see to be the truth. It's a two way street though, so be prepared to show your love right back. If this guy is incapable of giving you what you need, you should call it quits. There is a chance that he isn't really into this relationship either, but too afraid to be without someone. It may be a relief to him as well as yourself.
2006-10-18 03:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing here is for you to ask yourself - Do u want him??? If yes talk to him up front tell him how ur feeling and the issues he has!! otherwise don't wait around for something to happen... do your own things and when his ready he'll tell you - but then it will be up to you if you would to be with him!!!!
2006-10-18 03:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants you around but doesn't want a real relationship. I'd find another fella if I were you. This doesn't sound like its going anywhere.
2006-10-18 03:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys like to be loved. they never like to push someone away as it means they might have someone not like them. you being around gives him a sense of relief. this sounds like a losing situation for you. i would recommend moving on, and seeing whether he chases you in a month or so.
2006-10-18 03:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Raff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually men are the one who's afraid,why don't u try touching him,sure that'll work.
2006-10-18 04:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by farhan ferdous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he punches you in the arm, he hates you.
2006-10-18 03:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋