He has been cheating lately andwhen i ask him why he says he is afraid of commitment somebody please help me out
2006-10-18 03:55:15 · 15 answers · asked by onzaiy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
typical man, no backbone, no strength fo character, got scared of only sha*gging one woman for rest of his life, dump him you deserve better
2006-10-18 04:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's committed to pleasuring himself.. I mean he's going out and seeking other's company...
Generally when someone says they are afraid to commit, they either
A) were never serious about you to begin with and thought you'd be a good diversion from being alone. (Using you)
B) were once attracted to you, but changed their mind once they got to know you better. (mistook lust for love)
C) sincere appreciation for a fine young lady and then decided that the relationship was taking too long to develop. (horny and couldn't get into your pants as quickly)
D) immature for his age and can't make a decision to save his life. (idiot who doesn't know his butt from a hole in the ground and therefore can't commit because he doesn't know what he really wants. Lucky you.)
Mostly, I think what you need to focus on is that he's not committed to YOU. Move on, find a better guy that will love you for you... Don't worry about looking back on this guy, he's like a turkey in a blast furnace... Burnt to a crisp... He's past being done.
2006-10-18 04:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not afraid of committment, he is just horny like 99.9% of all men. The bottomline is that he isn't ready to settle down yet. If you are still hanging around with him and know that he is hooking up with others then you'd better be cool with it too. He is also mentally challenging you to see how far he can go before you will leave him.
2006-10-18 03:58:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is why are you afraid to let go?
If he's cheating then you are not what he's looking for, accept it and move on. I know it hurts but seriously, show a little self respect. No one deserves to be treated that way.
2006-10-18 03:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he might just be afraid of commitment. If he is cheating on you either it means he doesn't like you like that or he is afraid.
2006-10-18 03:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing he is afraid of is being a real man and telling you that he just isnt ready to settle down. Dump him! Hes not worth it and I am sure you are worth a lot more !!!!
2006-10-18 04:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye, if he's gonna cheat you don't need him. Try reading the book he's just not that into you. He's playing and using that stupid saying as an excuse and it's not even a good one
2006-10-18 03:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he just play with you he not afraid of commitment he just want to have fun like all the other men, guys are the same
2006-10-18 04:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating how? Are you married, living together, dating...what?
Need more information...
If he wants to date others, then make it a two way street...see how that goes. Don't limit yourself to a 'relationship' if there is none.
Good luck!
2006-10-18 04:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Silly Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what you have to but he obviously is not ready for the kind of relationship you are. He seems pretty immature to say that.
2006-10-18 03:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But first wt yours commitment? Tell me your commitment then I could help u.
2006-10-18 03:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋