the way i got him was ok i bit unsafe, i went on wap on my mobile phone and was on the chat rooms chatting he is 26 and I'm 18. he is really sweet we started speaking on the 30th of august and on the 3rd of September he said there is no point to this unless we met up. i was really scared i live on the isle of wight and he lives in London. and i really wanted a guy i didn't tell my parents until i was on the boat going over to Southampton, i was so scared on the train up there as i stood out side the train station waiting for him to meet me, then this guy came round the corner looked abit familiar so i said hello slowly then he goes tracey me and him were completely scared but we knew we liked each other before we had seen each other, we spoke first of all it was just a matter of trust that he was the person he said he was. my family said i was really fragile because i have never had a boyfriend before and never took a train and never been to london either but then that night i was to scared to come home on my own on the train so he drove me all the way down to southampton, then we both decided that he would get on the boat to and drive me to my house i had upset my family alot but i wanted to take him home to show them that he was safe to be around and he came down every weekend ever since and now im moving in with him so really you can find true love on chat rooms and i am that proof,
2006-10-18 03:53:12 · 45 answers · asked by tracey a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
great one, you will get married, and tell this tale to your kids,
2006-10-18 03:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Though I had a totally safe meeting with someone I met on the internet, I have to tell you that this was neither silly nor good. it was DANGEROUS. I'm glad it worked out for you, and I wish you all the best. Just make sure whenever doing this type of thing that you give information to someone before you leave so that the person you are meeting can be tracked down in case you don't come back.
2006-10-18 03:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cant believe you talked to a guy and agreed to meet him like that, and I think you r inredibly stupid to have done that. IF you were so hot to believe him, then why not just ask him to your home WITH your parents in attendance? THEN, everyone would have met him firsthand, and made the decision and saw his fright like you did. NOW, having said that, you *STILL* dont know him There have been people who did this, got married then a few months later turned up dead. Found out he took insurance policies out on them,. then made it look "accidental" and kiilled them, and one guy was on a show called cold case files where he did one wife, and got away with it for twenty years, and when he did it to a second or third wife, where he drowned her in the hot tub and tried to give her nouth to nmouth using a mouth gaurd, the police where like, why would you not want to touch your own wifes mouth, you kiss all the time anyway and they got suspicious and looked into his past and saw he was minus two wives, two insurance policies richer, and that this wife was gonna make him richer, so BE CAREFULLLLLLL
2006-10-18 04:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure what your hoping to get out of asking this question. If you want to know if it was a good idea then just ask yourself "Am I happy?"
You seem to be so maybe it was a good idea... for YOU. Be thankful that you are one of the lucky ones. I wouldn't make a habit of meeting up with people you meet on the internet though, next time they might be exactly what you don't want.
How is Ol' Wighty? Haven't been there since I left Southampton.
2006-10-18 04:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, he seems genuine enough, and nothing in live is impossible, whats the difference meeting a chap in a pub, or social event, or chat room? Many people will tell you that the worst kinds hang around in chat rooms, and they might have had bad experiences, but nobody talks much about the bad experiences when they meet chaps in a pub etc.
2006-10-18 03:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by african lion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in the Digital Age!!! You took the opportunity in expanding your horizons and meeting somebody new. But remember, there is an age gap, i hope he is respecting you in the way you ought to be deserved. I mean he doesn't belittle you or is a power freak! to be in control all the time? Remember to catch a breather when typing. It was like you was high on caffeine or something lol !
best of luck
2006-10-18 04:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by darkdealx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah? It's been alittle over 1 month. If it lasts than bully for you. However, being the realist that I am....let us know how you're doing 6 months from now or if you take the first boat back to the Isle of Wight sooner. Sans him of course.
2006-10-18 03:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well since I met my husband in a chat room, I am absolutely an advocate of new ways to meet people. I dont think I would have taken quite the chances you did, but it is done and all is well. Just enjoy your happiness!
2006-10-18 03:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you. If you are both still together 7 years from now then I will call it a chat room success.
Good Luck!
2006-10-18 05:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by John T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good for you thats one in a million im sure and its not really that bad, but it is for the people that actually expect to find something serious on those things... i mean so many people do it as jokes or even worse as predators and that just makes the odds unsafe and i wouldn't recomend that to anyone i know... let alone meeting someon without bringing enough friends to beat up a creepy guy
2006-10-18 03:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i met a guy of the internet who i`d been chatting to for ages. he lives 200 miles away but we see each other every weekend. we both see a future with our relationship. he`s the best thing that ever happened to me. good luck xx
2006-10-18 06:53:01 · answer #11 · answered by bonbon24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋