so the last night I was online and my crush (also my best friend) told me he was hanging out with this girl. I called him latter and he asked me what was wrong I said I didn't know...but I'm still sad! Should I just stop my realtionship w/ him altogether or is it better to still be his friend...it just hurts so much! :(
2006-10-18 03:55:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have allot of growing up to do if you believe a man and women can just be friends. Somewhere in the relationship somebody is think more, dump him and move on with your life.
2006-10-18 04:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I do not understand term crush. When I was young we would say some one has a crush on some one, all that meant was they really liked a person of the opposite sex, and generally it was an impossible situation, for example my son had a crush on his grade two teacher. Any how to your problem, if this young man does not have an understanding with you then he is free to spend his time where he wants to. and You are thinking there is more there than there is,
2006-10-18 11:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a peculiar story. Are you sure he's not trying to see if you will make a move? What did he say about the girl?
If he's being honest and not playing you, maybe stay his friend and sometime let him know how you feel?
2006-10-18 11:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he knoe u like him... if he does then honey u aint do nuttin wrong but if he was ur best friend or is then u have to sit down and let him know how hurt u r and be like listen u know i can accept the fact that we aint gonna be together but please i dont wanna know if u are with another gurl for the simple fact i cant take it and if u care about me as much as u say u do you wont tell me
2006-10-18 11:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend to him. Make yourself an available friend, so he can run to you if he gets hurt. It pays off in the end. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-18 11:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not in a position to be hurt in his mind, since you say your only friends, maybe if you tell him your hurting, he may get the jist that you would like to be more than friends.
2006-10-18 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by christophlarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation before, just be honest and tell him how you feel, and see where it goes from there.
2006-10-18 11:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points.
2006-10-18 11:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hmmm... okay.. i think u need to speak out ur feeling to him.. he takes u as jus a frend... and u dont.. and thats were the whole situation is..
2006-10-18 11:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just accept that he is only thinking of you as a friend and move on with your life!
2006-10-18 11:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋