a friend of mine loves me. she told me how much she feels for me. i don't want to hurt her feelings but i love another. she is also a friend of mine. but she doesn't feel the same way.
H loves me who i don't love > but i love A who doesn't love me
2006-10-18 04:08:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trouble in paradise. go for the girl that loves you. in return you'll love her too. if A doesn't love you meaning she sees you as a friend and nothin else. tell H how you feel for A. you don't want her finding out by herself. i mean if she did she'll hate you and her. and there friendship will be ruin. let her know the truth don't let someone else tell her. once there friendship breaks apart you'll be stuck in the middle and i know you don't want that to happen. you have to talk to both of them and let them know the truth cause if you don't friendship will end. maybe A doesn't want to be with you because she knows that H loves you. and she doesn't want to ruin her friendship with her. even if she doesn't love you she won't go for her. mostly friends don't hurt each other.
2006-10-18 06:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank and honest with your friend. You'll hurt her and compromise any honor and integrity you have as a man by doing otherwise. If A doesn't love you, you have to distance yourself from her to salve your own heartache. H may do the same to you, to get over you, so you might be lonely for a bit. Seek solace in buddies and family, and keep those peepers peeled; try to have fun for the now until your longing has subsided. Try not to jump into anything (with H or any other girl) seriously. Be frank and honest with the new people that come into your life what's going on in your headspace--you'll be true to yourself and others, and you won't be liable if someone else makes grand delusions about who you are and where you're at in life right now. Best of luck.
2006-10-18 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Leena Rosen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then neither one of them is the one for you. If you don't love your friend the way she wants you to, then you have a responsibility to tell her.... with compassion. And keep searching, the right one's out there somewhere.
2006-10-18 04:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just the way of life . the breaks . well you best nicely tell this person as she will think she has a chance the funny part is the same going on with you and another. so you know how it feels tell her this............
2006-10-18 04:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey do whatever you feel is right in your heart of its H then its H if its A then its A and run with it see what it is like then decide.
2006-10-18 04:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell H that you love A. let her know how you feel. don't let there friendship break apart because of you. let them know. go for H you'll never know that you'll return her love. as A let her go. she might only see you as a friend.
2006-10-18 04:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is deep, but the answer is not hard.
You have to go with your heart and be honest with her.
2006-10-18 04:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to B or C or even D!
2006-10-18 04:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure no one gets hurt
2006-10-18 04:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋