2006-10-18 04:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by techdogg_98 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They don't 'change' they just allow you to see the real person. Prior to that you saw the person they thought you wanted to see.
2006-10-18 04:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you realize it or not, when we first meet someone, we are on our best behaviour and try to put our best foot forward to impress....
As time goes on, we relax a bit in the other person's company and don't feel the need to impress anymore.
It is not that we don't care, it is just more laid-back...
You each tend to rub off on each other and your little knawing habits might start to surface and bug the other person. At the beginning of the relationship you might have been hiding these or you might have overlooked them even tho they were there, because you were interested in the person.
It happens to most couples...
2006-10-18 04:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're getting to know all about them, their good AND their bad sides. People come in a package, and when you're in a relationship, you've agreed to open that package and see whats inside.
It sounds like you're having a tough time with someone. People change anyway, whether you're with them or not. Hope you manage to make peace with the person you're thinking of, or leave them, so you can be in peace.
2006-10-18 04:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by littleponypony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder that when every I am dating a guy he always put up a show for couple of week until he think he got me,after that I then the true colores started to come in little by little.It goes both way male of female.
2006-10-18 04:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people believe that they already got what they where after so they don't need to please that person any more.Others pretends so after they get into the relationship up comes their real self.look at it in this way if you had a bad temper or abusive ways is that the first impression you want present.
2006-10-18 04:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once people realized that they have "reeled you in", or are more comfortable with you, they begin to show who they really are. Before then, most people are trying their very hardest to be on their best behavior to impress you.
2006-10-18 04:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by musicgurl1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you get to know someone, you get to know all of them....which includes the sides you don't always see when you have on "rose colored glasses". ...... learn to accept it or move on......don't you have a "not so glamorous" side??? We all do ..
2006-10-18 04:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very often, what you see is not what you get..
You need to look close & dig deep before you commit...
2006-10-18 04:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u kno i wanna know that to but really it'd because they kno they got u now and u can be different aganist you so take it easy how is he treating you?
2006-10-18 04:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by erika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get to either know each other OR they got what they wanted...
2006-10-18 04:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by m_n_c9088 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋