why did you do it? Lust? Just unhappy in you relationship? Or just for the hell of it?
2006-10-18 04:07:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like you've been cheated on hun. I personally have never cheated by have been cheated on so many times by guys. with girls cheating, its usually cos they r not happy. i have only ever been tempted to cheat once an that was cos i was really unhappy in my relationship. for boys its a sex thing. their minds are programmed to look at girls and when temptation is put in front of them, few say no. it sucks but its life. obviously this isnt all boys you wil find a good'un, but watever you do don't be over protective or over jelous as this wil drive boys away. they fall in love jus like girls an when they r happy they wont feel the need to cheat. dont worry jus pik urself up and get the next one, hopefully a decent one this time! x
2006-10-18 04:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tara B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. The reasons are complicated and highly personal. But it wasn't for lust,... and it certainly wasn't for the hell of it. The problems in my marriage go way beyond the simple "unhappy" label, and I loved the man I cheated with.... still do and always will. And being with my husband has felt more like a betrayal to him, than being with him felt like a betrayal to my husband. It doesn't make it right, and the pain and consequences that resulted have seemed endless. So in some ways I have huge regrets, in other ways I don't.
2006-10-18 04:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. cheating on your partner is wrong and if you really love them you wouldnt cheat on them. i'm not saying you cheated on anyone, i'm saying this for all those people who HAVE cheated. and for the guys who say that you cheated "because you could"....i hope you grow up and if you don't then i hope you never find anyone because nobody deserves to have that happen to them. Trust me, it hurts more than anything in the world when you find out that the person you love doesn't care about you half as much as you do about them to where they are cheating on you.
2006-10-18 04:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see how many lean their heads back and draw the razor across their throats on this one. This ought to be very entertaining to say the least.
2006-10-18 04:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most guys I did it because I could
Got found out (after 2 years).
Now my wife and I are swingers - we cheat on each other with permission!
2006-10-18 04:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been married for 21 years and have never cheated.
Just for the Heaven of it.
Peace, and good Luck!
2006-10-18 04:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and as a female i can tell you it has alot to do with letting go of the past being lonely and having the new person make you feel special.
2006-10-18 04:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but been cheated on and it really sucks being on the receiving end.
2006-10-18 04:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Please use other door 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated on a woman I was sharing a roof with.
Never have, never will.
2006-10-18 04:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent but the way my wife is acting I feel I have nothing to lose.
2006-10-18 04:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nevada S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋