Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

we got engaged last year and i want to move on with our relationship. he gets mad at me when i try to push the issue. i feel like a ***** but i cannot stand it any longer. He says he loves me and wants a life with me but i dont think hes ready and i feel i have had it. i have talked to him about how i feel but he thinks i should be able to live with it, if i loved him.

2006-10-11 02:52:07 · 28 answers · asked by michelle2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 02:52:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

[W]hen you lost that person and the pain is so intense, how do you heal from loosing them? This could be someone that died in your life or someone that you no longer have a connection with due to many circumstances and complications.

2006-10-11 02:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by [B] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 02:51:09 · 16 answers · asked by sista_nita_29 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I stop this business... It's not like he's far away; we go to the same college and I just saw him... But when I'm supposed to be studying I just can't stop thinking about him!!! And we're not like super new or anything-- been together a year and as crazy about him as on the first date! How can I concentrate!!??? I really need to get my work done... -________________-

2006-10-11 02:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy all my life but recently we started messing around. things between us happened kind of fast about 2-3 wks after messing around he asked me to be his girlfriend then like 2 mnths later he decided it wasn't what he wanted. i felt everything happened fast and he just punked out. we never stopped messing around though....but it's been like 5mnths. i thought he would be over it by now but he's not. he says when he's ready i'll probably be the one but he's just not ready



he thanked me for understanding....i told him I didn't understand....i'm just trying to give hime time and chance....but how much time and chance do I give

2006-10-11 02:49:36 · 14 answers · asked by Elle's Mommy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think ive lost physical attraction to my fiance! he is so sweet we have been together for 3 years and engaged for two nearly! were only 19 and our sex life has gone down hill already! i know that things change in a long term relationship after a while but this isnt good, i love him very much as hes been my bestfriend for over 5 years!! we get on really well and have a laugh but i just dont want to sleep with him anymore...im always making excuses like im tired or i dont feel well! i dont no whats going on with me! i dont want to hurt him by breaking up with him id miss him like crazy! hes a good looking guy but why am i not attracted to him anymore. i even started to have sexual thoughts bout a couple of other guys!! whats going on!!!

2006-10-11 02:49:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my name is giovanni looking for my son for 4 years , i was not married to his mother and she fled bermuda to escape criminal charges. why are you worrying how i type ? i came on this site for help not for negative feedback! if you all look up missing and exploited children website you can find his poster , in the uk section ! jasai e'donte swan is his full name . i have tried news , talk shows you name it . i am looking for help not foolish feedback , so if your not gonna help please dont respond. my contact # is 1-441-504-1303 if there is someone out there that can truly help . thanks to the people who have giving me some good information , i truly appreciate it.

2006-10-11 02:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by jasai b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 02:48:12 · 42 answers · asked by D 2 in Weddings

In 1999 my "baby" found me and at first it was so wonderful.I was always careful when writing to call her adoptive parents her mum and dad,and played things her way. Unfortunately after a while her letters became full of remorse for upsetting her parents and I could tell she regretted finding me. Now I feel as though I have lost her again. I still send birthday cards etc and write with any family news ,but I get no reply. I can understand her parents fears and hers too as they are in their 70 s now.Can anyone help please.

2006-10-11 02:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 02:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by ImJuStAgIrL 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 02:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by vanessa h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

truth is she wouldnt have crapola if it werent for her live in BF....how can i get through the family gatherings without biting another hole through my tongue?

2006-10-11 02:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This still baffles me. I don't get it. She dresses like a $20 hooker, or paints a pair of jeans on that don't even cover her quarterslot, wears a 32a top to cover 34Ds, and when guys in a car or truck drive past and honk thier horns or say something like "Oh, baby! I love you, the girl turns and says;" Oh, I just hate that!! Men are such pigs! The same ones wear skirts so short (I'm not complaining, though) that they spend all day picking thier butts and trying , but failing to pull it down to cover thier panties. Am I missing something here, or is all this perfectly logical??

2006-10-11 02:46:36 · 29 answers · asked by Raptor 3 in Singles & Dating

how can you get them back on the right path when the law wont allow you ?

2006-10-11 02:45:31 · 16 answers · asked by . 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 02:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by vanessa h 1 in Family

I stayed home with the kids through all this while he would leave home on
Thursday and come back on Tuesday. I did this for 1 1/2 yrs. Recently this man and I became close friends.
As time progressed, we fell in love. This man is his first cousin. I had nointentions of this happening. Tell me what do you think. Am I wrong? This man loves me and I love him also. I don't want to hurt him. My feelings for my hubby are different now. I asked him to leave but he won't. I don't want hime to know that the other man is his first cousin. Help me.

2006-10-11 02:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. Cool 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my frend is shifting to himachal for her husband's job. they r leaving tonight. her husband is such a miser that he is taking her in the goods truck. none of their relatives r ready to go with them. i think it is very dangerous for a women and her 11year old daughter to travel in a truck at midnight.. what can be done now??

2006-10-11 02:44:20 · 17 answers · asked by studious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

bc see my i was goin out wth this guy 4 a while and now snice i've been goin out wth him she is actin better than me just bc the guy broke up wth me and then we got back together and now shes like that how do i explain it 2 her or wat do i do ?

2006-10-11 02:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by roscobabe123 1 in Friends

2006-10-11 02:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by volvox_2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In India, we donot see 40th birthday as an important milestone whereas we go ga-ga over 60th brithday. My brother lives in US and I plan to join the family on the occasion.

2006-10-11 02:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Gold Star 2 in Family

your partner had a really close relationship with his female relative. He tells her everything, does all her favours, shows everything he buys.

2006-10-11 02:42:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whenever us ladies feel emotional or cranky or just down in ourselves the automatic response from a lot of men (PLEASE NOTE SENSITIVE MEN - SOME NOT ALL) is oh shes on the rags or aunt flo is in?!!! We can just have off days without menstrating you know!! xx

2006-10-11 02:42:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want a baby

2006-10-11 02:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa h 1 in Family

Men - If you have a female boss and she wanted 'No-strings-attached' sex from you in order to keep your job - would you do it (mind you - if it's a job worth keeping)
Ladies - Same question, gender reversed.
And why would you do it?

2006-10-11 02:41:26 · 10 answers · asked by TexasLSUTiger 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 02:40:46 · 4 answers · asked by ironclaw 1 in Singles & Dating

MY PREFERENCE IN RINGS IS SILVER/WHITE GOLD HER'S IS GOLD IS IT INAPPROPRIATE FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM TO HAVE DIFFERENT STYLE WEDDING BANDS ?

2006-10-11 02:40:08 · 25 answers · asked by robertahogan1 1 in Weddings

This is not good for the relationship at all cos im constantly reminded of it. Though he has apologised and all, shown remorse. Now I get all the attention and love I once yearned for but it does nothing for me now.
I just dont feel anything anymore. One part of me wants it and the other part keeps withdrawing. What do I do? He wants us to get married

2006-10-11 02:38:43 · 21 answers · asked by BBrown 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think is soon enough/too soon to give a guy (or girl) your number? Just curious.

2006-10-11 02:38:09 · 4 answers · asked by Cheyenne 5 in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short, I had issues at work that I didn't tell my b/f right away.....mangerial type things that I had done and didn't agree with and my boss telling me too much personal things that I didn't feel comfortable hearing....My b/f now is upset b/c I didn't come to him with this and now he doesn't trust me and thinks my boss wants to sleep with me, which isn't the case. What should I do now??????

2006-10-11 02:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating