Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

Hello i am a 38 year old M, married to a 33 year old woman. We have been together for almost a year and married 7 months, In the begining the sex was great. It was actually incredible and every where and at all times everyday. We have had our problems, we seperated for about a month. I was mentally abusive, never physical. I know what I did wrong and have said I am sorry and i got help. She involved her family with everything and they no longer like me. I was turning my hurt into anger and that wasn't right. We have gotten back together now. I love her and she says she loves me. There is no more abuse or names and we now talk a lot and when I get upset I leave until I cool down. The problem I am having there is no sex none what so ever. She says its gonna take time, but on the other hand while we were apart she slept with someone else she didnt even care about. She has been no angel here, I just wanted to say what i did. What do you think here. Help please.

2006-10-07 23:58:57 · 30 answers · asked by buddabear38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi. a new girl recently came to my school and i thought id make the most of it. i was soooooooo nice to her . i showed her around and introduced her to my friends. afew days later i caught her whispering to my friend in class. not about me but she said that it is a different problem . i got very upset. her and my other friend are the same religion and she said that she trusts her because of that. the said that she is a very good friend and that i was just ok. she is a very bossy and pushy person and i dont want to be a pushover to her. maybe it will just take time to develop the friendship between us. she has only been here for nearly a week now. i don't actually have a really good friend to confide in about this problem. i had a really rough few years in school so far but i only felt like i was gettin on track . i dont want her to take my other friend away or to take over. what should i do.

2006-10-07 23:56:26 · 9 answers · asked by Fay 1 in Friends

2006-10-07 23:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 23:53:19 · 13 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for anold neighbor who was a good friend but who I lost touch with. I am going to include her details here too in case someone knows her. Her name is Stephani Lewis. She lived in Hartford WI when I was friends with her. She has a bi-racial son named Terry. She would be in her 30's. If anyone knows her letme know. Also if anyone knows any good websites to look for people that are free. I am also looking for the website for open court cases in Wisconsin. Someone told me that that is a good way to find people. I am new to the inteernet and don't know how to navigate it very well yet.

2006-10-07 23:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by Stephani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm about to get wed and the way in which me and my perfect partner got together was through text messages and i would like to thank the inventor in my speech on the big day

2006-10-07 23:51:49 · 8 answers · asked by Ian B 1 in Weddings

2006-10-07 23:51:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad told me "if you keep in mind that women are crazy , you will be just fine in finding and keeping someone" My dad is a smart man and usually reserved. On this particular day he really shared a "jewel" with me in dealing with the opposite sex. My dad respects women but he is also pretty "sophisticated" in dealing with "all" people. I trust my dads' wisdom and understand what he meant. I hope you learn from this simple "proverb" too, fellas.

2006-10-07 23:47:07 · 28 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Singles & Dating

i love to have sex with female only, still thinks my nature is femine i am confused.

2006-10-07 23:44:53 · 11 answers · asked by govalkonda 1 in Family

2006-10-07 23:44:34 · 17 answers · asked by fairydust 2 in Friends

a attractive young man recently told me that I look like Angelina Jolie. But I think that I look more like Sandra Bullock. I want an honest answer. Which one do I look more like?

2006-10-07 23:44:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

says he doesnt wana be pals anymore...and all kinda ****..i thot we had a misunderstanding but suddenly i think ..he wanted that to happen!!i mean u don just break off with a freind givin no lame reason and then don even try to clear up da misunderstandin...and well..additional info..this guys the school topper and i'm not that great into studies..i WAS...until i met him..kinda had a crush on him..used to eb a topper earlier ..its liek a legally blonde condition..i dono wat to do..but i just wana take revenge ..he made me soooo miserable..i cried every godamn night for a month!! help ppl!! i just wana kill bill!!

2006-10-07 23:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by eternityendswithme 2 in Friends

Like this 14 & 15 year old guys..do theyact like that on purpose?

2006-10-07 23:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

Im from the UK :)

2006-10-07 23:43:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my birthplace is mumbai(vile parle) and my birth time is 7.32p.m

2006-10-07 23:42:43 · 5 answers · asked by nehal m 1 in Weddings

2006-10-07 23:42:20 · 11 answers · asked by Ronnan 2 in Friends

he tried 2 take revnge from me by talking 2 this gurl. . .i guess for fifteen days n he went to his birthday party as well... he says he really loves me....he is begging me 2 4give him which is not possible 4 me rite now.... im really shattered rite now>>>> we have been seeing each othefor 2 years. . .

2006-10-07 23:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by moody235 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello i am a 38 year old M, married to a 33 year old woman. We have been together for almost a year and married 7 months, In the begining the sex was great. It was actually incredible and every where and at all times everyday. We have had our problems, we seperated for about a month. I was mentally abusive, never physical. I know what I did wrong and have said I am sorry and i got help. She involved her family with everything and they no longer like me. I was turning my hurt into anger and that wasn't right. We have gotten back together now. I love her and she says she loves me. There is no more abuse or names and we now talk a lot and when I get upset I leave until I cool down. The problem I am having there is no sex none what so ever. She says its gonna take time, but on the other hand while we were apart she slept with someone else she didnt even care about. She has been no angel here, I just wanted to say what i did. What do you think here. Help please.

2006-10-07 23:40:03 · 19 answers · asked by buddabear38 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does this sound like a good reason not to marry, she says that my last name does not sound good with her first name! or I asked her unexpectedly? we have been together for about 12 years!!

2006-10-07 23:37:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 23:35:29 · 12 answers · asked by adamvanessen 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 years and I have a 3 year old girl. All we do is fight all the time. He has hit me and has called me every name in the book. I have tried to work it out for my daughter, but she is starting to noice us fighting, and I can tell that it is bothering her. I have tried to leave him so many times but I keep coming back cause i get scared. I guess I afried of being alone. I do not love him like I should. My heart belonged to someone else before we got married.I feel in love when i was very young.I did not know that the guy I love loved me the same intill after I was married. My husband tells me that he loves me, but all he does it put me down in every way. We have both cheated on each other.Should I try to work this out with my husband or should I leave him?

2006-10-07 23:34:42 · 39 answers · asked by Randi C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that i really do care about him and what to do things with him
he is treating me very well cooking, taking me out etc but it has slowed down now for some reason.i havent done much for him dont like to cook really but will do it together he always says i can show him better then i can tell him .. so what things can i do for him to let him know

2006-10-07 23:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by missy 1 in Singles & Dating

I had this happen quite a few times. A girl would stare and/or wave at me and I would come over to only discover she has a "man" Gimmie a break and stop doing that. Do not look at me or say anything..

2006-10-07 23:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 23:32:16 · 7 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Friends

yup do you?

2006-10-07 23:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 23:29:50 · 4 answers · asked by caramelle2d 2 in Friends

2006-10-07 23:27:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am married for 2 months,i understand the whole spend time with the friends, boys night out scenarios but now do u think it is fair just after a marriage that it he spends all his free time with the boys. It is almost like he doesnt have to work to get me anymore so now i am just there!! We don't do anything special just the two of us!

2006-10-07 23:27:17 · 14 answers · asked by da gold 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 23:26:28 · 12 answers · asked by Birds 1 in Singles & Dating

there is absolutely no way you can have a relationship with?

2006-10-07 23:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by Rhapsody 4 in Singles & Dating