Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

i have recently moved to australia. i have been heer for the past 3 months! all i tihnk about is bein back home. i would happily go home but i do not what to do cause i dont wann leave my parents at the same time i have ma sister back in the uk and a niece and another niece on the way?? i also have a friend in the uk that fell pregnant just before i came out over here! and i feel i should be there for her with everything! i also have a lad that i really like and he likes me! but i just dont no what to do whether to move back to the uk or stick at it here and try and start a new life here!! I'm trying to make friends over here but its hard?? i have a job. but all i want to do is go home, but i feel really bad on my parents as it aint chea to move to another country! i have a friend comin out in a few weeks to help me settle in and make friends but i'm thinking of going back home with her when she goes home in a few months time!! what do i do??

2006-10-07 21:19:18 · 6 answers · asked by hineycone1987 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

or does it just not matter ?

2006-10-07 21:18:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyrfiend and I just got back today from a 4 day vacation spending 24/7 together, tonight I was going to sleep at his apt. but when I was there his downstairs neighbor decided to play loud music and be loud and drunk with some people so I couldn't sleep. By 3 am I asked my boyfriend to just call this guy throwing the party and to maybe quiet down considering the time. He said he wouldn't because he didn't want to have a bad realtionship with his neighbor. So I am pissed and tired and can't sleep and my bf doesnt seem to care so I just keep doing childish things to make sure he can't sleep either. Well anyway it escalated to where I was gathering ALL of my stuff and demanding a check for his half of the CC bill for our vacation. He said he wasn't going to write it yet and that he would mail it to me and just to piss him off before I was leaving I picked up his electric guitar and told him I was taking it for collateral, he freaked and said he was going to choke me if I did (cont)

2006-10-07 21:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by sleep2dream65 2 in Singles & Dating

just broke up.. but we still love each other she's trying to convince me not to leave everytime we are together...So I've given her about 5 days to come to terms with it... I dont wanna be in this relationship and she wont let me bring anyone to help me.. just me.... PLEASE HELP....

2006-10-07 21:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by scoutathand 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 21:14:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im almost 44 and have been dating a long time but im in despair because I cant keep the girls I fancy but cant change who I fancy and learn to love somebody i dont fancy. Im not a perfectionist either. Time is running out as im getting older and dont want to be single for ever. Am I stuck? Can I change who im naturally attracted to?

2006-10-07 21:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by Bengt L 1 in Singles & Dating

if u read my post that i posted like 3 times u should know whats going on with me... i know this gurl for 2 years and we've been friend u know like jokeing around and stuff. for the past 3 weeks we've been flirting and huging and also careing for one another and that happen for 2 or 1 weeks. then we started dating. i still like this girl alot.. but somehow i kinda lost interest of her, but just a little bit. last time when we dated last week, i was like so desperate of her and she was to me.. well anyways i still like this girl and i still care for her. what should i do, i don;t want to break up with her.. is there anything i can do to get the sparks back or what. and also how would u feel or think if the person that u are dating tells you that shes not a virgin anymore??

2006-10-07 21:13:09 · 1 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

i hear that women are not visual and physical like men ,and they are emotional only
so do you like only our souls and personality but you dont be aroused by our bodies as we do by yours?

2006-10-07 21:12:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He had a girlfriend before who left him . He is very emotional kind of guy .I told him many times to forget about her but he is not at all doing so! He is mad in her love . What to do ?

2006-10-07 21:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by Fun loving gal 1 in Friends

could you help me out

2006-10-07 21:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by Danny13 2 in Family

My boyfriend was picked up by police for a burgulary.He said he was interviewed which was taped and realeased on bail because he didn`t do it.He says it is all over.Would you give a bail address if inocent

2006-10-07 21:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 21:06:22 · 10 answers · asked by Dhruv Vanka 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend of 2 years and i just broke up. we say we still love each other but we've spent the last several months in a long-distance relationship and just can't do it anymore. anybody else out there going through a break-up? what are you doing to feel better?

2006-10-07 21:06:22 · 4 answers · asked by dazed_and_confused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 21:06:21 · 2 answers · asked by mady 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, your right, I am not being specific enough. I had two other questions about this. People werent being specific enough for me though. I need help with talking to this girl. Read below. I added some stuff. Thanx. pLEASE, IM ASKING ONE MORE TIME FOR HELP ON ASKING OUT THIS PERFECT GIRL. eVEN IF SHE REALLY is a fantasy girl that I have made her to be. I am 13, she is 13, her b-day is march 7, 93, and mine is march 28, 93, we go to the same school, are in none of the same classes except for lunch & reccess, and have been friends since kindergarden. ACTUALLY, we hardly talk anymore. After second or third grade, she got new friends and I kinda gave up. It was to hard giving up loving her though. You cant just, stop loving someone. I love her even more than I used to. Before, it was just a little "kiddy crush". I cant even describe how much I love her. We are in eighth grade now. Someone, please help me!

2006-10-07 21:06:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jake M 1 in Singles & Dating

i've steadily dated this guy for 4months but he got jealous with my girlfriends so he decided to just 'dump' me. i've moved on and its been more than a month since the dumping happened and for the past month, i can't understand why he's now befriending the people close to me (we work in the same building so we see each other practically every day). he asks my friends how i was doing and all and he also tell my friends that he's now seeing another girl, etc...do you think he still feels something for me? or he's just being bitter about what happened between us?

2006-10-07 21:04:39 · 6 answers · asked by bloss_83 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 21:02:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

pt.2...I wasn't cheating I am loyal when I am with a man..
I don't have hiv or any thing'' no bad smell..I was with another man for 2 yrs.
can you believe him??

2006-10-07 21:02:18 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i got married to my husband 9 yrs ago in city hall. we never got married by church. we plan to divorce since things have been going bad for us and there's no love in our marriage. for our kids we decided it's best since we dont want to put them thru anymore pain. i would like to know what can i do to get the divorce, how long will it take and is it the same or different from getting married by church? thank u!

2006-10-07 20:59:37 · 9 answers · asked by amanda h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is a fictional story, but for many other people it may be true, and they may be scared to speak out. I hope that these answers will be supportive and comforting. WARNING - This may be a disturing story, please do not report me, this is meant only for others to realilize what can happen at parties.

I was at a party that my a guy I kind of knew invited me to. When I went there, he and his friends offered me a beer and I took it, wanting to be polite. Later I found that they had slipped Ecstasy into it. Pretty soon I was sitting on this guys la[/ Then he and 5 other guys look off all my clothes, dragged me ino the bedroom and raped me. Then another guy raped me. One guy didn't wear a condom and ejaculated all over my viginal area. After that he carried me into the kitchen and put a beer bottle inside of me, and took pictures.

2006-10-07 20:58:05 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa V 3 in Singles & Dating

anywhere in the world

2006-10-07 20:57:45 · 28 answers · asked by clair r 2 in Weddings

I don't think husbands and wives should equally pay bills. I am old fashioned and I believe a man should be a man and take care of his family. I understand there are times with illnesses and disability when a wife has to take over, but in general nowadays husbands expect their wives to pay part of the bills, and most of the time the wives have part time jobs. I'd like some opinions on this, because to me that completely disrespects the marriage, you might as well be roommates?

2006-10-07 20:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by frustrated 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this guy I like, he flirts with me, but hes a guy, and not a shy one at that. So is there some sort of way I can find out if he likes me?

2006-10-07 20:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by furyfluf 1 in Singles & Dating

That Got the music to a song.wrote lyrics in six minutes.recorded it the next morning and within a couple months it will be released to the world.Would you be proud to know a guy like that.well I did it.the song is called"lost in a world of tears" and the crazy thing about it.it sounds like Jim morrison wrote it and sang it.Will Bitmore Scram.Why then Do people still act jealous of me.I already told them that they can keep the money from my books.I do not understand.

2006-10-07 20:56:03 · 2 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 6 feet tall and weigh 350lbs. I don't like how I look because of the fact that most women I know only hang out with me because they know they will never ever have any other type of relationship with me. It really sucks sometimes. My last relationship ended pretty badly but it was because she cheated on me. Take a look at my picture and you tell me what you think. Girls only please, thanks.
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If anything, hit me up on Myspace at
http://www.myspace.com/kozdadj
By the way, I do exercise. I work in a building with 38 floors as a security guard and I usually patrol all three stairways. At my job, I work more than anybody. I do no less than 80 hour a week. In other words, I rarely eat because I sleep during the day and work mostly nights. The only place, in Downtown Boston that is open, is 711. I don't want to eat that crap.

2006-10-07 20:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

m 16 and almost turning17, and i know this girl for 2 years in my school. we talk and entertain each other.. but now its like different,, we started likeing each other for the past 2 weeks and were dating right now but somehow im kinda loosing interest of her.. its not like i don't like her, cuz i stil do, it just feels uninteresting.. its like so odd becuase last week or two i was like so desperate of her and i wanted to kiss her and hug her.. but like rigt now its different well not that different, i still want to do that, but not as much as i wanted it last time.. i want to make our relationship last longer.. any suggestion what i should do.. and any comment to tell me what the heck is going on, is this like normal or something...can kissing her on the lips make a difference >> pls help.. i posted this like 3 times now and i need suggestion and commnents from people experiences..

2006-10-07 20:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother an 84 years old lady is having Parkinson's disease. Recently she has started having itching all over her body. I donot want to give her any more medicine as she is having weak liver. Any home remedy is welecome.

2006-10-07 20:52:50 · 3 answers · asked by krafts_india 3 in Family

his name is Julian Lance

2006-10-07 20:52:19 · 15 answers · asked by kzel 1 in Family

2006-10-07 20:51:05 · 17 answers · asked by dream 3 in Weddings

My twin brother is taller apparently sexier imshorter and fatter and less confident, We always fancy the same girls but thay seem to go for him and not me. The only girls that fancy me I cant make myself love. Is there any way I can change that as im a bit depressed?

2006-10-07 20:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Charlie N 1 in Singles & Dating