Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

please help. i recently moved into the next year in school. i am in a new class with new people. after about a week or two i noticed that this guy may like me. i am normally a shy girl. we dont talk but we do know each other. because of the fact that i think he likes me i grew to like him too. how will i know if he really does like me or not. he would look at me in a way and so would i. i am way too shy to ask him out or even tell anyone that i like him. maybe he just doesn't want to ask me out or maybe he is just as shy as i am. iam soooo confused. i would love if he asked me out. i have never gone out wtih anyone before and i feel that i am ready now. i went to see a physic about two months ago and she did tell me that a guy would ask me out. this was without me even asking her and by then i didn't even know this guy. she told me NOT to say no, to say yes. that is what is keeping my hopes up. i suppose i need to get to know him a little better first. can you suggest anything?

2006-10-07 23:25:39 · 6 answers · asked by Fay 1 in Singles & Dating

but he just can't help of doing the things that we always fight about.the things that i have been trying to understand..i knew his style from the very start.He loves going to night clubs and befriend the waitresses and and even dates them.i want to believe when he say, "it doesn't mean anything to me". i mean i know he loves me and our daughter as well.actually he always come here in the phil. almost every month.we even talk to each other 5x a day and chat the internet every sundays.but still don't know how to trust him.

2006-10-07 23:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by mislead 1 in Singles & Dating

During my teens, I used to fantasize abt my hot tution teacher. But dint do anything abt it as I belong to a orthodox indian family. Years passed and I am working now, having good friends around. Also am seeing a girl whom i really like and respect. But she treats me just as a friend nothing more. yet I am optimistic that time will change

Meanwhile, few months back, my tuition teacher suddenly visited my place and then kept showing up regularly. I dint feel like I used to when I was teenager. I guess becoz I like my friend more than this woman.

One late evening while walking and speaking to her, she slipped as it was dark and I held her. She dint mind and even I felt strange but nice. After that day we met few times and things now are such that shes willing to have *** with me. She has a broken marraige and says since then (5 years) she never had sex. She says its okay for both of us as its a physical necessity(she knows I m virgin)

What to choose, Friend-Girl? or Opportunity?

2006-10-07 23:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by Explorer 1 in Singles & Dating

yez.. he is my bestfriend.. we actually fell in love with each other.. we seems like lovers but still we're friends considering that he love someone else... and that girl seems to love him too but not yet readyf for a relationship and letting him wait for 6years......... i dont want to see my bestfriend waiting for nothing while i am here loving him with all my life.. what should i do??? is it time to let go? or time to hold on??

2006-10-07 23:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by faLLeN_aNgeL_22 1 in Friends

yez.. he is my bestfriend.. we actually fell in love with each other.. we seems like lovers but still we're friends considering that he love someone else... and that girl seems to love him too but not yet readyf for a relationship and letting him wait for 6years......... i dont want to see my bestfriend waiting for nothing while i am here loving him with all my life.. what should i do??? is it time to let go? or time to hold on??

2006-10-07 23:17:35 · 4 answers · asked by faLLeN_aNgeL_22 1 in Friends

Often get stared by guys... while walking and they move their face toward you.

does this means that your attactrive and very pretty??? Because many people said im so very pretty.... Its nothing special to me being very pretty, I am just natural.....

Guys ask for number, does this means is interest in you and wish to know you?

What to do if are not interesting, while a guy so pressure you to give number, I have refused him caz I am not interesting in him.

1. You often get alot of smile from guys and same person does this means that he like you??

2006-10-07 23:15:16 · 4 answers · asked by cutie_kitten 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship with a girl I met online for seven months now, talking practically every night via IM, phone, or video chat. Neither of us doubts the other's devotion - we agreed from the beginning that a long-distance relationship would be difficult, but we wanted to try it anyway.

I really got my hopes up about finally getting to go see her during fall break (next week), but unfortunately financial problems seem to have gotten in the way. I may not get to see her until spring break, and the heartache is starting to get really bad. Any advice on what we can do - as a couple or individually - to try to fend off our loneliness in the meantime?

When we do finally get to meet, it'll probably only be for a few days. We've given it a lot of thought and are planning a sort of "falling in love all over again" episode, since we'll have a lot to learn about each other that can't be conveyed online. Any advice on how to make this go over well?

(Note that we're both chaste.)

2006-10-07 23:14:49 · 5 answers · asked by Pif 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you care? What do you say? My parents know I drink, and my dad definitely knows i've smoked pot. but what about cigarettes? what do you say (if anything) to your kids that smokes cigaretos?

2006-10-07 23:14:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

thinks he's all that and some,If he were chocolate he would eat himself! Do I shatter his little world or let him carry on in living in it? :o)

2006-10-07 23:14:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-07 23:13:52 · 10 answers · asked by xyz 123 1 in Friends

The last day of the week-end, and tommorrow i must go work.

2006-10-07 23:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by caramelle2d 2 in Friends

2006-10-07 23:09:43 · 6 answers · asked by Hipluv 1 in Singles & Dating

The last day of the xeek-end, and tommorrow i must go work.

2006-10-07 23:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by caramelle2d 2 in Friends

Am beautiful have a new zealand passport so you can live there without a visa as long as it is far away from me. Just want 1 million dollars please, thanks. Dont mind if you are old preferably around 80 years old would be good. Dont hate me I am just like you.

2006-10-07 23:07:28 · 26 answers · asked by rehad 2 in Singles & Dating

We are friends so now I don't understand!

2006-10-07 23:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After spending all of my savings on an absolute worthless attorney, is there anyway I can find out information myself about my ex-husband. He lied in court about his assets and my attorney was too lazy to check it out, therefore, I got "screwed". My ex has a lot of money, cars, livestock, etc. (just go to his residence and you can see all of it), but lied in court and said he only had a couple of vehicles (when he has 7), no livestock (when he has several very expensive horses), etc. I would like to go back to court again but do not have any more funds to pay for an attorney. Do I have to have an attorney and how can I find out exactly what my ex has in assets? He goes on trips to Europe all the time with his girlfriends, but doesn't want to take care of his 11 year old son. The court didn't make him pay for our son's medical insurance either. I make $22,000 a year and my ex makes $100,000 a year but was ordered to only pay $450.00/month in child support.

2006-10-07 23:05:10 · 6 answers · asked by Hershey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So, my boyfriend of 5 years decides that he needs to think about if i am the right one for him. we have two children together in which he does not claim or own up to the one I just had. (2005)Anyway, about a month of him and i seperating, he calls me all distraught over some girl. come to find out.. he broke up with me to check it out with her. Now he is telling me he still loves me and that he wants me to wait cause things might not work out. I told him I won't be there and he is confident that i will. Anyway, he is in another city with her at this moment and he gave up his weekend with his daughter to be with her. what shoudld I think? What should I do? wait and see?

2006-10-07 23:04:41 · 14 answers · asked by spiseemami 2 in Singles & Dating

The Messiah Dr Phil once said 'you teach people how to treat you'
is this true?

2006-10-07 23:01:24 · 18 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is strange but my friend really likes her own COUSIN.. oh my goodness!!
she asked me stuff and what she should do but i couldnt answar cuz i dont know what to say .. is it right?? what should i tell her ??!!!!!

2006-10-07 22:57:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im married and it's not working out we have 2 chrildren togeather and this nov. would be our 11th anneversary we fight all the time now i don't know why he's hit me and yes i have hit him we never talk we never spend time togeather. should i just stay with him and put up with it or should i leave. Run back to mommy and daddy at 38 now thats sad!

2006-10-07 22:57:06 · 23 answers · asked by brigette b 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we r looking for a boy who understands that family values r important and not pomp and show.my sister is highly qualified but need some one to understand her and my family where we the only daughters are the soul of our family.insha allah there will b someone on this earth who will understand this.good bless every girl and parents of these girls.

2006-10-07 22:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by asma khan 1 in Weddings

help me iam in deep trouble

2006-10-07 22:55:58 · 16 answers · asked by xyz 123 1 in Friends

2006-10-07 22:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am gay and this new Uncle Chuck moved in next door, but I don't know how I should approach him ... any ideas???

2006-10-07 22:52:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was very much in love at age 18, and married at that age. I was surprised that the person I loved, changed and became moody and depressed type of person. He was cold, whereas he was warmer. I think he only wanted to have sex with me, and then after a baby came along in a few years, it all changed and was not fun any more. Too immature for this responsibility? Why can't young love, blossom and does with some people, and some go the other way. . . What made your young marriage work out?

2006-10-07 22:52:51 · 9 answers · asked by shardf 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 22:51:59 · 11 answers · asked by DS 4 in Singles & Dating

Right I need a rich man please, I need my mortgage and credit cards paid off asap so I can move to Australia with my boyfriend. I will pretend that I like you in return, any givers !

2006-10-07 22:51:16 · 16 answers · asked by rehad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like some advice from some experienced people or experts. how may i fix a bad impression. i had the best intention in the world for someone i met recently but somehow due to misunderstandings, that person kept thinking of negative things about me. how may i fix my impression in her ? :-(

no, i dont believe bad impressions last forever. nothing's impossible.
thankyou for the help.

2006-10-07 22:50:38 · 4 answers · asked by Tosh 3 in Singles & Dating

If you like a girl @ school and u ask her out and she rejects u what do u do? Do u say, "Oh, well, I tried."? Or do u walk away without saying anything? Or maybe say "Bye" then walk away? Girls, what do i do?

2006-10-07 22:47:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me USA

2006-10-07 22:45:55 · 42 answers · asked by sammy 6 in Friends