During my teens, I used to fantasize abt my hot tution teacher. But dint do anything abt it as I belong to a orthodox indian family. Years passed and I am working now, having good friends around. Also am seeing a girl whom i really like and respect. But she treats me just as a friend nothing more. yet I am optimistic that time will change
Meanwhile, few months back, my tuition teacher suddenly visited my place and then kept showing up regularly. I dint feel like I used to when I was teenager. I guess becoz I like my friend more than this woman.
One late evening while walking and speaking to her, she slipped as it was dark and I held her. She dint mind and even I felt strange but nice. After that day we met few times and things now are such that shes willing to have *** with me. She has a broken marraige and says since then (5 years) she never had sex. She says its okay for both of us as its a physical necessity(she knows I m virgin)
What to choose, Friend-Girl? or Opportunity?
2006-10-07 23:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by Explorer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girlfriend is much more important. But I think you should look for a girlfriend somewhere else. The girl probably will not change her mind. Just think . . . if she REALLY liked you she would not avoid a relationship with you. Why settle for someone who does not like you? I do not expect that she will ever change her mind if you have already tried to start a relationship with her. Good luck with the next one!
2006-10-07 23:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose both. Just score with the hot tution teacher and then after you have lost your virginity, then when the time comes to finally have sex with the girl you like, you will feel more comfortable. Think of it as friends with benefits, you know cause that is just practice for you to score with the girl you really have feelings for. There's nothing worse than a guy being a virgin and the girl not, cause it's just not the same. Trust me it happened to me before.
2006-10-07 23:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Gabbrielle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. this is a tough one. My personal opinion is that your teacher is just trying to sleep with you because you're a virgin. Otherwise, she'd be trying to have an actual relationship with you, not just sex. Your virginity is a gift... you should only offer it to someone you know is truly appreciative of that gift. If you think your teacher cares about you in any way, then I guess you can go for it... but don't be too surprised if it turns out to be a bad situation.... especially if she's still legally married! That could get really ugly, really fast.... good luck with whatever you decide to do!
2006-10-07 23:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong to be with a married person at all....if things are so bad in there life they should get away from each other...it is highly rewarded for remaining a virgin...you very seldom here that now a days....i would stay with my friend if i were you...this other woman just spells trouble and you do not want involved in a situation like that....
2006-10-07 23:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want? What if your GF comes to know about the teacher and she no longer wanna be with you?? What if the teacher nevers leaves you once you had sex??
THE DECISION DEPENDS ON YOU . It' s fully yours. DO what you feel is right. But I can say, choose your GF, if you are not in an urge for sex.....LOL....;-))
2006-10-07 23:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have a girlfriend you have a friend that you like that youre hopeful will change,let your teacher teach you one last lesson the art of lovemaking,its all in you conscience there should be no guilt your not in a committed relationship (or really any relationship) and neither is your teacher,itll be good for you
2006-10-07 23:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little concerned that your Tuition teacher wants to be with you...that's not normal you know.
I'd say a girlfriend would be best. Sex is overrated.
2006-10-07 23:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by leaysa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that's what you want and she want that too - why not! If conditions change with your girlfriend you can just tell that other woman that everything is over. She's smart woman I think and she'll understand everything.
And one more thing - I think it will be better for you and your girlfriend if you gain some "intimate" experience.
2006-10-07 23:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your teacher !? do not spoil the relation between a teacher & a student ! look for a girl friend !
2006-10-07 23:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "girl-friend" is not interested in you in that way, so its not even an option. So stop counting on it likeit is.
If you are attracted to this lady then go for it...
2006-10-07 23:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by knufflebunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋