Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

Ok, so I like this girl. But she has a boyfriend who she herself says is 'a loser'. Should I....

a) be a good friend and try to help them patch things up

b) subtely convince her he doesn't deserve her

c) other...please specify

2006-10-07 18:56:35 · 13 answers · asked by flournoi 3 in Singles & Dating

this girl i like.......shes a sophomore and im a freshman..neway..how do i get her...(ive hardly talked to her b4 mind u)

2006-10-07 18:55:02 · 7 answers · asked by PHoeNiX 1 in Singles & Dating

I had asked this question before but I would appreciate more answers...

I'm on different time zones with this guy. I haven't seen him in a long time but I know he had a thing for me. Whenever I e-mail him to say hello every once and awhile (like twice a year) he responds quickly. He responds like within the hour to my e-mail. I've done it at a couple different times, but the one that got my attention was when I e-mailed him at night, and then he responded. It was about 6 in the morning where he was. He's in his late 40s and I'm in my early 20s. We never went on a date because of an unethical situation at the time.

So my question is, does he still want to get together with me again? Is he still attracted?

2006-10-07 18:53:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she all ready have sex with him such and such and always talking in the telephone but he stop talking to her and seeing her plus one time she seeing her bf playing a game in the store and she was busy on the telephone ect ect

the other week she send a nice card for him saying hallo those basic things but he never called or say whats wrong why stop talking?? seeing each other?? ect ect those basic things u know what i mean those basic realationship??? ( problems)......

2006-10-07 18:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by Vampire- 1 in Singles & Dating

Its so confusing to try to find out what girls want in a guy. Men its pretty obvious what they want--a girl that is very attractive. Well girls...they dont seem to care much, if at all, what a guy looks like. So what do you want in a guy?

2006-10-07 18:52:21 · 10 answers · asked by Rock n Roll 1 in Singles & Dating

hubby spends A LOT of time on the internet. playing counter strike, yahoo answers and surfing. not porn though, i'm would'nt even be so concerned if it was porn, but its not. is it that he would just rather not spend his time with me or his son? at the moment his top priority is the internet..only gets 4-6 hours of sleep a night b/c he stays on the internet until 1 or 2 a.m. EVERY night!!! what should I do??

2006-10-07 18:52:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems no one understands my questions. I am refering to communication. Not going for a walk, playing games, watching movies with someone. I understand small talks steps but for some unknown reason I can't seem to get past the stinkin small talk to get to the next step in the communication /conversation structure or what ever it is called. This so frustrating, I blew 20 years of life away for not seeing the stinkin social communication structure and what I get nothing. Sigh.

2006-10-07 18:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im married but im still living with my parents becoz the paperwork isnt complete yet.my husband he tortures me mentally.i feel like he has either fallen outta love or never fell in love with me in the first place.he ignores.doesnt care about anythin im sayin.if i try to tell him anythin or share my problem he just tells to keep them to myself.i stand nowhere...i try my best to take care of his family but if anything goes wrong im blamed for it and he is on their side.if i cry he asks me to stop crying.he is not stabel financiallya nd blames for that too.he tells me that its my duty to tell him and remind him everday that he has to work hard and stuff.i have told my mom that im not happy.but my mom told me that im not allowed to take a divorce.what shud i do.i am so depres:(

2006-10-07 18:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by afriend 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This man helped me with something for my job and he saw info that he shouldn't have seen. The info was very limited and no one was hurt by it. I made a bad choice, but I had no ill intent of any kind. Months after he helped me, he contacted my employer and told them. I have been fired from my job, denied unemployment, don't have insurance. This person took everything he could from me because he "loved' me and I didn't love him. We were friends; he wanted more; I didn't. I never treated him badly or anything. He harassed me to the point I got a restraining order. I filed a grievance trying to get my job back-doesn't look good. My employer seems to be trying to screw me. What he told them was true, but his reasoning behind it was malicious. Do I have any legal recourse against him? I want him to understand the impact of what he did. My job was my passion. He hurt me, but he also hurt my clients. What are my chances if I appeal unemployment? Any other suggestions (yes I'm looking for work

2006-10-07 18:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by What would you do? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I went to McDonald's today.. and I seen this guy who I usually see when we go there.. anyway... I think he is just the hottest guy in the world.. I dont know who he is because I dont live in his town.. so we dont go to the same school.. but we only live like 20 min from there.. anyway.. i was telling my friend about him.. my friend is not shy at all.. so he was like i'll talk to him for you.. give him ur number and stuff.. i was like thats alright and stuff.. because I really wanna meet this cute guy.. but I am afraid of what he'll think about me.. my looks and stuff because I am not thin.. a little over weight.. but not to badly.. My guy friends tell me I am very pretty.. I'm just scared of what this guy would think.. what do you think?? any help or suggestions would be great.. thanks....

2006-10-07 18:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by an14341991 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been married only a short time. she has cheated even before we wed. and again after. why can't i get her out of my mind. i even want to join in to her sex with a three way with a guy. just to please her what can i do to get over her. i am ia nice guy smart and loving... what can I do.. i am ready to just scream

2006-10-07 18:47:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 25 and am from inida. abt 8 months ago i married dis gal in court decieving my parents. dis gal is 6 yrs elder dan me was previously divorced and has lotta health problems like asthma, blood pressure, hyperthroid and cholestrol. she is 92 kgs big. i come from a well to do family. after my parents came 2 know dey were heart broken and dejected. my parents refused to accept de marriage so did my church. she started physically abusing me and den one day she called my mother a whore ane me a son of a whore. since then she has continously abused me n my parents. we never stayed together, even after so much trauma i wanted to stay wid her (may be becoz of low self esteem). i felt like i was bewitched. now its been 5 months she has moved off to a different city but still torments me. i am a simple guy and am in need of expert advice. please help all of you out there. if u wanna mail me, mail me at raving_metal@yahoo.com

2006-10-07 18:45:44 · 12 answers · asked by raving_metal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This one guy is pissing off me and my friends. First he made-out with my friend then the next week he TRIED to make out with me. He asks my other friend on a date like 2 days after he trys to make out with me. And we heard he made out with this fat ***** a few weeks ago... we are sick of him and want to ditch him! but the problem is HIS best friend is really cool and i like him alot and me and my friends like to hang out with him alot...how do u we get the cool guy to stop hanging around the weird guy who trys to make-out with us all?

2006-10-07 18:44:33 · 14 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a mexican american, born here in Chicago.

2006-10-07 18:44:00 · 13 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband keeps everything he buys ( mainly expensive tools) a secret from me. do you think he is afraid to tell me? Why am I upset about this? I bothers me especially since we dont really have this money to spend in the first place. I have 2 kids and Im working at the same time and I give him my paychecks to help us with our monet situation and it doesnt seem to be helping? Do you think he is wasting it on tools and things? I dont really know what to do. Im upset about this.

2006-10-07 18:43:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I reach to my Love ?
I mean that how can i marry him ?

2006-10-07 18:43:03 · 4 answers · asked by Ehsanyar W 1 in Weddings

I don't want to tell my mom that he saw me and my boyfriend doing something that may seem inappropriate. Because my parents are very strict.

2006-10-07 18:42:02 · 8 answers · asked by mizbossi101 1 in Family

when i act like myself poeple tell me that im werid ( in a good way sometimes) or they call me a dork. but on the other hands the mature people in the community thinks im not being serouis or mature. i'm not sure whats wrong with me but i do fall in the subject as cold hearted, in trueth i'm not a social person and i'm to afired to be with someone, and i have hide my emotions for all my life.............they started to come out a while ago, the feeling of being alone and depress i need to get control what do i do?

2006-10-07 18:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a fat and happy MOFO! just can't find a girl who likes me for me. Any women in Mn. who likes big guys?

2006-10-07 18:39:40 · 8 answers · asked by stu_padidiot2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a guy at my school that I like a lot , Dylan. And I know he knows who I am and every now and then I try to talk to him but my friend, Nichole, always gets in the way! Like she'll start talking to him and it makes me look like I came with her but I really came to talk to him! I really don't think Nichole likes him because she is a helpless flirt but I really want to talk to him but I have to get a way for it to be just me and him! HOW???

2006-10-07 18:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Singles & Dating

We have a girls choice informal dance coming up at my highschool and I want to ask one of my best guy friends to be my date. I really want to ask him in a cute creative way that he will always remember. Any suggestions? And I don't want it to be "hey, want to go to Sadie's with me?"

2006-10-07 18:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Friends

do u prefer boxerbreifs, boxers or going commando?
Im 18 and in a bit of a dilema, see boxerbriefs give u a wedgie which i find irratable, and the restrict the movemet of ur package which i also dislike, boxers begin to ride up and also give u a bit of a restricted feeling, and freebalin seems a bit odd, because i have sisters around the house and my package becomes evidnet because of the hanging penis pushing across the pants forming a revealing crease no matter the size of the pants.

so what do u guys recommend.?

2006-10-07 18:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do girls want guys to do??..how the hell do they want you to flirt?..what do they like?

2006-10-07 18:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Ikaika R 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal. I married a Romanian in 2002, met over the internet, I went there, we married... After that we never hardly have had contact with each other and I have now moved on with my life and am in love with another. I have attempted contact on several occasions without success. What do I do? Im not sure if that marriage would be considered annulled or what. I would like to marry again but am unsure where I stand legally. Is there anyone out there that knows? Please help.

2006-10-07 18:36:40 · 3 answers · asked by nremtmom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Danny Workman from Newark Ohio, that is, he's supposed to be my birth father, I would like to contact him to let him know he's a grandpa, and tell him that my son has his smile! I've never even seen a picture of the man, but heard he has/had blond hair, and blue eyes; my mom has brown hair and eyes, so i favor him. If anyone knows how I can contact him please email me! Thank you for your help! (chelcwalker@yahoo.com)

2006-10-07 18:35:27 · 3 answers · asked by chelsea w 1 in Family

What is the most disgusting habit that a person you dated had? My ex actually bit his toenails, ahhh (I found out about it after the fact he didn't see a thing wrong with it)

2006-10-07 18:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by Beeper 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 18:33:43 · 32 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this lady when i was ending a marriage , before the divorce was final , i went back to my then wife , too many times ... this caused alot of pain for the woman i am in so much love with now , but she tells me it is hard to trust me now , please , any answers on how to re-gain the trust needed .she tells me she loves me , but..........

2006-10-07 18:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by jeff 2 in Singles & Dating

yeah...poor me..

2006-10-07 18:32:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my soon to be ex molested my dtr, his step, how could i ever trust another man around any of my kids? I have known my ex for 18 years, together 9. thought i knew him. can i trust again?

2006-10-07 18:31:51 · 22 answers · asked by JILL W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships