Ok, so I like this girl. But she has a boyfriend who she herself says is 'a loser'. Should I....
a) be a good friend and try to help them patch things up
b) subtely convince her he doesn't deserve her
c) other...please specify
2006-10-07 18:56:35 · 13 answers · asked by flournoi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, why yould u want to be a good friend and patch things up? If even she calls him a loser, and you know that he doesn't deserve her, or even if he does deserve her but you just want her more, you shouldn't be the nice guy. If you want something, go for it. B is the best choice, and you should tell her you like her when u tell her he isn't good for her. If she doesn't listen, then she's pathetic to want a loser bf over u.
2006-10-09 05:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by manoverboard192 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a combonation of all three try to help her patch things up,, this shows her that you care about her well being,, all the while convince her by showing not telling her how much you care..then live by an example and be good to her and be her shoulder toleanon, and show that you can be a better choice for her
2006-10-07 19:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stole your b/f? You recommend even as you've been lengthy gone, she broke into your position and stole him antagonistic to his will and he can not get faraway from her? imagine about it hon. She didnt "scouse borrow him", he LEFT you for her because he favored her to you.It doesnt recommend you're undesirable or some thing it in simple terms skill he believes he's extra properly matched with her.i understand you damage yet provide it time, you receives over it.She might want to correctly be embarrassed and not in any respect understand what to do except smile.You be huge and tell her even with if it damage to lose him, youd fairly him be with someone he's pleased with than to settle for someone he someone that isn't make him as chuffed even as he needs he develop into with some different person. that can make you completely unselfish, because even as someone realizes their thoughts have replaced it could be unfavourable to both if the different stayed round in simple terms to no longer damage the different and the different one develop into emotionally bullying the different to stay out of guilt. even with each and every thing, you've been at the same time 5 yrs, yet you werent married and with a bit of luck there aren't any little ones in touch. dangle in there, youll meet the right guy in some unspecified time sooner or later hon.
2016-12-04 09:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says her own boyfriend is a loser.... but she stays with him.. then she .. herself... must be a loser. So then the question really is...why would you want a loser?
2006-10-07 19:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by D F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
d) tell her to get with the program and dump him as soon
as possible, and find someone else who will treat her right,
or if she stays with him, she is stupid for doing so. Sometimes,
getting right to the point without beating around the bush, is the
best path to take.
2006-10-07 19:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...some guys trying this with me as we speak. Just be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on.. listen to her. and yeah, remind her he's a jerk. She'll come around eventually.. all a girl wants is some one to care about her. Once she see you do.. she's yours :)
2006-10-07 19:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
d) find a girl who is too smart to keep a loser for a boyfriend instead of dealing with her drama and stupid choices.
2006-10-07 18:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you mind your own business.this is one of those things that will blow up in your face.
2006-10-07 19:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by jgmafb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay out of it..and away from her...because if her boyfriend is such a looser why is she still with him??
2006-10-07 19:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b
2006-10-07 18:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋