we have been married only a short time. she has cheated even before we wed. and again after. why can't i get her out of my mind. i even want to join in to her sex with a three way with a guy. just to please her what can i do to get over her. i am ia nice guy smart and loving... what can I do.. i am ready to just scream
2006-10-07 18:47:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to forget this woman! you need to get out, have fun and meet somebody new... dont do her favors!!! it will take you time to forget but you will, i promise... if you forgive her once, she will do it again...as far as threesome, thats up to you... i wouldn't do it! Can you watch her while other guy ***** her? Come on dude, just walk away... she wont change ... If you are nice, smart and loving you will find someody...those are good qualities..
2006-10-07 18:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~Dee~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have made yourself her personal doormat. Look fella... no woman really wants or respects a guy she can walk all over. The only reason you want her so badly is because you can't reel her in. It's certainly not because she's a good woman. Be a man and show her the freakin door. She's not the only woman on the planet.
2006-10-07 18:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by D F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your current wife is not your class. Get out of your current relationship and find a loving and caring mate. There is no children involved here. There is still time. This relationship is going nowhere but kaput. What really counts is a long term stable relationship.
I know what I am talking about since I went through this. I am very happy now....
Its very very tough and you can do it .
Good luck
Pete
2006-10-07 19:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look nice guy there is a whole stable of women out there. To be with one that doesn't want you, she don't deserve you move on. I know it is hard, but you have to just so you can throw it in her face. Eventually you will move on and the next person will love you for you.
2006-10-07 20:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The three way thing will probably intensify the problem. I hope she doesn't want to take you to the cleaners should you suggest divorce. Did you sign a prenuptual? Perhaps you should hire an attorney if the situation really goes south. I hope it all works out for you!
2006-10-07 20:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by jr95667 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LEAVE,LEAVE,LEAVE,LEAVE,LEAVE, L--E--A--V--E!!! Just in case I needed to spell it for you. I can break out the crayons if you like and draw you a picture if you think it will help. Get out of the relationship before you get something that a doctor cant help you clear up.
2006-10-07 18:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by smitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are serious then Ignore her. let the time manage it,, frankly speaking if you love her, please don let this happen. Have a nice day
2006-10-07 18:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
scream dude
2006-10-07 18:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
email me tell when she cheated b4 u bcame her husband
2006-10-07 19:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go out, get drunk, and bang a couple of hot girls, and you'll be fine.
2006-10-07 18:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋